Improve Your Mood with This 2-Minute Exercise

By , SparkPeople Blogger
Would you be willing to spend two minutes doing a special exercise that could improve your mood and make your life a little (or a lot) easier?

No, this isn’t a gimmick that will get you off the hook for the kind of exercise that makes you breathe hard and sweat a lot. You’ll still have to do that. And it’s not going to make it a breeze to pass up temptations and stick to your food plan.

But this exercise might help you appreciate and enjoy these things–and the rest of your daily duties--a lot more, and avoid feeling sorry for yourself.

You don’t need an expert to tell you that a good mood is like money in the bank. It helps you let the many minor irritations and problems of your daily life roll off your back like water, and gives you the optimism, creativity, and stamina you need to handle whatever life throws at you.

But how do you get yourself into a good mood when you wake up on the wrong side of the bed, or so many little things are going wrong that you’d have to be unconscious or really snockered not to feel pretty anxious and upset?

The answer is simple: practice gratitude.

The shortest distance between two points is a straight line. And if you’re trying to go from feeling down about your situation to feeling good about it, the shortest path is to be grateful for what you’ve got.

I have to admit that, for many years, this kind of claim drove me crazy. I was stuck in a very long, deep, and unpleasant struggle with major depression and PTSD that had already wrecked my marriage, my business, and left me living on disability benefits with 3 kids to support. To have someone tell me that I should find something to be grateful for struck me as either ignorant or cruel.

Then one day I was sitting in the lobby at my therapist’s office, running through all the problems I wanted to talk with her about that session, when a another client came in. She was carrying a baby, had a toddler in hand, and asked me if I could watch them for a second while she got the other kids out of the car. She came back in with two more young kids, sat down and started crying a little bit while trying to get the kids interested in playing with a few toys. She apologized and explained that she and the kids had just lost their apartment and were living in the car, after her husband had gone to jail for child and spousal abuse.

Well, I’m sure you can guess the rest of the story. I ended up telling my therapist I felt pretty silly getting all caught up in my own worries after hearing about this woman’s troubles, and was feeling grateful that my life wasn’t really as difficult as it could be.

I can’t tell you that this single incident “cured” my problems with depression and anxiety, but it definitely did change my thinking about the power of gratitude, and gave me a great tool I still use whenever I’m starting to feel a little down.

It’s incredibly simple. Just sit down for two minutes and think about what you have to be grateful for today. Come up with 3-5 things that make your life better than it would otherwise be at that moment, and write them down. These don't have to be big things--in fact, this will probably work better if you focus on little things that change from day to day. Putting the same things on your list every time will make the exercise less effective. So you might include something like being grateful for not having a headache, or enjoying your morning coffee that day, or having a pleasant moment with a family member or friend.

If you have the time, think for a minute or two about how and why you have those things in your life, and how to keep them there. If what you’re grateful for is having certain other people in your life, think about how you can let them know how you feel.

If life is pretty hard right now, this may feel a little artificial, trivial, or phony at first. But do it at least once a week anyway–fake it until you make it, if you have to.

If life is really hard today, and things to be grateful for don’t spring to mind, go spend an hour volunteering at the local food bank, soup kitchen, or homeless shelter–or anyplace where you’re likely to find other people having a hard time. Or get on the message boards at Sparkpeople or another site you’re involved in, look for someone else having a hard time, and say something encouraging to them.

The distance between a bad mood and a good mood often isn’t nearly as far as we think it is, and the shortest route is often to practice a little gratitude for what you already have.

You don’t have to take my word for it–there is lots of scientific research supporting the practice of gratitude. And there is a pretty large and active community of gratitude practitioners on the SP message boards you can talk to about this.

Why not give it a try yourself, right here, right now.

What do you have to be grateful for today?

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Great article, very practical, positive way to look at life on a daily basis. When people are struggling through the day they are not always able to think clearly on how they can use a positive to counteract a negative situation they may be in. I am so thankful for Sparkpeople and for the friends I have been able to connect with, this have been such a positive experience for me. Thank you Sparkpeople and friends. Report
I'm grateful to be able to recommit to a new way of living every morning! I'm grateful for Spark People - a program that perfectly fits ME! I'm so grateful for my loved ones, especially my partner, my little grandson, my daughter & her husband, and my mom. And I'm grateful to be back in college at age 56! Report
This article came at the perfect time for me. Thank you!
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I'm grateful that

I got to the beach today.
My son said "This has been a good day".
The sun came out.
I got some dishes done.
I got enough sleep.

What a great idea!
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having 2 wonderful and energetic kids,
a great job,
a house, and
a supportive family:) Report
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for a roof over my head.
for a car that runs.
that I'm still in business.
that I'm healthy enough to work.
for a really good friend who takes time to help me declutter my storage unit.
I am commiting to doing this each morning to begin my day off on a happy note. Report
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This is a great article.
It really makes you stop and think. Report
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I have the day off, but I have a job.
I'm spending most of the day with my daughter.
I'm spending the other part of my day with a man who loves me.
The man I'm in love with sleeps next to me every night. Report
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Awesome article. Sometimes we get so caught up with our own troubles that we forget to be grateful for the things that are actually going great in our lives. Report
Very timely reminder! wishing you many things to feel gratitude for today! Report
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My bedroom
I am going to college
I have two weeks off before college starts again
My son calls me
I love my neighborhood in the morning - all the birds singing
I am grateful for my family
I can pay my bills today
I have two pairs of running shoes, a bike, and yoga tapes that I can use
I am healthy
I live in America
I have all my senses
my legs
my arms
I can pray
I know God has pretty big shoulders and he can handle all my stuff better than I can

Yeah, Life is Good.

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This is an amazing article.
Things I am grateful for: 1. My husband
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What a wonderful gift! Thank you for sharing!
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Each and every one of us has had to face trial and tribulation in life. The greatest lesson in life that I learned from my Dad in facing anything was to....
"Count Your Blessings."
....Things could always be worse, and there are always others much worse off than myself. Being grateful for life and the blessings I have are enough. Report
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I think this is a great tool I will use it- and thanks! Report
Today I am grateful for:
1. My Faith.
2. My beautiful husband.
3. My 6 children
4. My church family.
5. My job.
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I am grateful for SparkPeople! Report
Years ago when I was 17 and invincible, I was having tests for my heart, and was nervous about the tests, and what they would find. I was befriended by a beautiful little girl-the most perfect blue-eyed blonde with peaches and cream skin little girl I had ever seen! Long story short, she made me feel better about MY tests, saying that everything was going to be ok.
The next day, I was getting ready to go home after my tests, and asked about my little friend. The charge nurse told me that she had just gotten back from recovery and was in her room. I was so wrapped up in my own issues that I didn't stop to even ASK this little angel why she was here. I asked the charge nurse what she had done, (this was before all the privacy issues) and she told me that this perfect little girl had her leg amputated from the knee down, because of cancer! I was floored-here she was trying to make me feel better, not even mentioning why she was there!
I went to her room, we hugged and cried, and she again told me that everything was going to be alright.
Then and there, I decided that someone always has it worse that I do, and I should count my blessings EVERY DAY!!! I'm allowing myself (as anyone should), to moan and be cranky if I don't feel well, but only to a point. Sure, I feel crappy now, but it will pass. My little angel had to deal with a whole new life change.
That was 28 1/2 years ago, and I still get choked up when I think of her, and the lesson she taught me.
Enjoy every day to its fullest, and try to make others smile. Life is WAY too short to be miserable. Report
You are spot on...grateful is the name and giving is the game.

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1. The beautiful blue sky
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3. My mother-in-law, for babysitting my toddler so that I could go out for the morning and have some wonderful one-on-one time with my daughter
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This is such a good story. Like our friend in the story, I have had the same similar experience. I too have suffered with depression/anxiety for years. Therapy helped, but one thing that brought me out of feeling really down, was to think about my step-sister. She married a wonderful man, had four wonderful children. Then at 26 my brother-in-law fell on a construction job and was paralyzed for life. Shortly after my sister learned her second born was developmentally challenged and would never progress pass a 4 or 5 year olds ability. Eighteen years later, her eldest son fell from a construction job and was killed instantly. To top it off, she was diagnoised with M.S. When ever I felt sad all I had to do was think of her and quickly realized how very blessed I have been, and how many wonderful things have happened to me. I am so blessed and so forturnate. My sister passed away a month ago, but I will never forget her.

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1) My parents who love me unconditionally (even though I may have disappointed them from time to time)
2) My son who is healthy and loving
3) My health (thank you God for blessing me)
4) Having a steady job that allows me to provide the necessities
5) For Sparkpeople for providing a site that allows me not to feel as though I'm all alone in not only my weight loss struggle, but in life's struggles.....

let us all count our blessings!!

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