One Man's Journey from Fit to Fat--and Back Again

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11/16/2011 6:00 PM   :  80 comments   :  13,984 Views

Growing up, I was not an athlete.

I did wrestle for a number of years, but I was more of a band geek. (Proud to say that too!) I've traveled the world "making music with my friends," as I marched in various marching bands and Drum Corps.   I was always fit, firm and muscular due to the demands that band and Drum Corps put on my body. 

Then, in 1998, I changed careers and got a desk job.  Things started to change.
I quickly grew accustomed to sitting all day.  Sitting behind a desk got easier and easier. It also got easier to sit on my chair at home and do nothing.  

I lost my mother in February 2001 and I started eating, much more than normal.  I never knew I was an emotional eater, but there I was, eating away the grief and loss.  As time moved forward, and my habits did not improve, I slowly grew to my top measured weight of 264 pounds.  I knew I wasn't healthy. I couldn't walk up a small flight of stairs without being winded, I had no energy and I made poor eating choices most of the time. I didn't like what I saw when I looked in the mirror.  I avoided having my picture taken.  In fact it was the picture taken for my security badge at work that scared me into action.  My swollen face and eyes were not a pretty sight! 

That just begs the question words, why, when, how, what?  I simply can't come up with a better answer than I got tired of being fat.  Why at the ripe ole age of 40 did I decide to take my life back? Why, when I knew it was going to take so much discipline, so much work would I make a life changing decision?

I made this decision for me.

Now, let me give you three more reasons I changed my life.  My wife and two daughters.  My wife deserves a husband who is willing and able to help out around the house. I believe she deserves a husband that she can be proud of, who can come home from work and have the energy necessary to help with dinner, kids, activities, etc. My daughters deserve a Daddy who doesn't sit in his chair asleep all the time. They deserve a daddy who has energy to play with them, get on the floor and wrestle, tickle, and not be a grump all the time. They need a role model.

So I made the decision on December 28, 2009 to take my life back!


Me, before


I made radical changes in my life. I'm not sure what my calorie intake was before I started, but I know it was really high! I started logging everything I ate (SparkPeople Nutrition Tracker). The beautiful thing about this is that I was not starving myself. I had a healthy breakfast and a good lunch that I kept varied between salad, soup or sandwiches most days.  I stopped eating out every day.  Thankfully I have a wife who is on board with the new lifestyle (she lost more than 70 pounds herself) and is cooking healthier dinners.  I am practicing portion control and try to put the fork down between each bite.

Keeping in mind that I made radical changes, I also started moving, A LOT.  I began walking each day. The coldest day I remember going for a walk outside was 27 degrees.  Yes, it was cold, but I had to do it! I would be out my door by 5 a.m. for my first walk of the day, and then do it again in the evening.  I parked farther from the door while out running errands.  I walked with a quicker pace to get my heart rate elevated as much as possible. 

After two months I added elliptical workouts to my routine and grew to love that machine!    I joined my wife and began doing high-impact intensity workouts.  WOW!  I got addicted to that right away!  Running didn’t enter the equation until months later.  Running became my time for reflection, prayer, anger management, problem solving, etc.  I can’t imagine my life without it! 

I added DVD workouts in the summer of 2010, stopping after one series due to a major sports hernia.  I had probably developed this hernia years before, but with my increased activity, it became something I needed to deal with.  Surgery and recovery slowed me to a near halt for about 14 weeks.  Then I got right back to it, moving and grooving, shaking and quaking!

Less than one year after I started, December 10, 2010, I hit the 100 pound lost mark.  There was no magic pill that solved my weight problems.  Time, hard work, and determination were the tools that got me here.

Now that I am in the maintenance phase of my weight-loss journey, it’s all about simply making sure I remember my triggers for overeating and exercise--and the power I have to control it!  I still cross train 3-4 times a week and I run 4-5 days a week. 

I am in training for the Dallas White Rock Marathon on December 4.  The day I made my decision to start my journey I stated that I would complete this very race.  Now I’m set to do that very thing--and finish it!

Logging in to SparkPeople every day was and continues to be an important part of my journey.  It is where I tracked my food, find great recipes, get advice, am held accountable, find encouragement, and give encouragement to others!  It is amazing how much stronger you feel when you are supported and held accountable.  There are SO MANY people who are dealing with the exact same issue that you are.  The support is incredible, USE IT!

I’d like to leave you with three success factors that worked for me:
  1. Know WHAT/HOW much you eat (track it with SparkPeople.com)
  2. Shuddup and sweat – you have to WORK it off
  3. Do it every single day – make it a lifestyle
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Jerome, who lives in Dallas with his wife and two beautiful daughters, has lost 100 pounds using all that SparkPeople.com has to offer, especially the Nutrition and Fitness trackers. Since starting his own journey in late 2009, he has discovered his passion for helping others become healthier and happier. Showing as many people as possible that there is a healthy way to lose weight and keep it off is what keeps him going.  Jerome has fallen in love with running and has completed numerous races from 5K to Half Marathons.  Together, we CAN win the battle against obesity!
 


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  • 30
    Fantastic story - very inspiring - thanks for sharing!!! - 11/17/2011   5:30:08 AM
  • 29
    Great blog! Very inspirational. You have done a fabulous job, you look sensational! Thanks for sharing! - 11/17/2011   5:11:39 AM
  • 28
    I've got three reasons of my own! - 11/17/2011   3:19:41 AM
  • 27
    Brother, I am SO proud of you. You continue to inspire me, and I can't wait to hear all about your success at the upcoming marathon. And I look forward to running with you at New Years! - 11/17/2011   3:11:24 AM
  • 26
    Yo, Jerome! Awesome blog, congrats on getting the recognition you deserve! Your hard work has totally paid off. Good luck at the marathon! - 11/17/2011   2:44:01 AM
  • JULIA1154
    25
    Thanks for a refreshing viewpoint and inspiring read. Best of luck with the marathon and congratulations to both you and your wife. Reading this blog, your commitment to your healthy lifestyle shines through and I know your daughters must be benefiting from your example. - 11/17/2011   1:18:51 AM
  • 24
    So inspirational! Congratulations! I'm going to remember your "3 success factors." I know you'll keep it off with the lifestyle you'd adopted. Good luck and have fun with the Dallas White Rock Marathon. - 11/16/2011   11:58:20 PM
  • 23
    Jerome you are not only my mentor but my friend. I'm very glad I have you to encourage me and to cheer me on my own weight loss journey. You are amazing. Thank you, Thank you, Thank you!!!! - 11/16/2011   11:39:10 PM
  • 22
    Thanks for sharing your success story. - 11/16/2011   11:38:08 PM
  • 21
    Such an inspiring blog and it is nice to have a man's perspective - from a fellow Texan no less! I am beginning to add jogging to my exercise program - slow going for me at this point as I am finding it very challenging. - 11/16/2011   11:34:05 PM
  • BARRISTER2011
    20
    What a great Blog!

    Good Luck in The White Rock Marathon!!! - 11/16/2011   11:08:21 PM
  • 19
    Way to go Jerome !!! - 11/16/2011   11:07:27 PM
  • 18
    Way To Go Jerome! - 11/16/2011   10:51:21 PM
  • 17
    Keeping the weight off is the hardest part, so I wish you well on doing that. The average American will gain 8-16# during this Holiday Season, so we have to work at this daily to stay where we are. LOL - 11/16/2011   10:21:04 PM
  • 16
    Congrats! You are an inspiration to all on Spark! - 11/16/2011   10:14:45 PM
  • 15
    Thank you for writing this! I am a first time mom trying to get back into shape post pregnancy. I've lost 45 lbs. and have 20 lbs. more to get back to my pre-pregnancy weight. There are days I feel like quitting, but it's articles like this one that keep me moving forward. - 11/16/2011   10:10:20 PM
  • AUTUMN_WILLOW_7
    14
    Congrats to you and your wife for changing your lifestyles and getting healthy! That's very inspiring! - 11/16/2011   10:07:34 PM
  • 13
    You (and your wife) are inspiring! - 11/16/2011   9:58:33 PM
  • 12
    Hey!!!!!! I Know This Guy!

    You da'man, J-man!!!

    Tony - 11/16/2011   9:51:54 PM
  • SHERRELLE77
    11
    What a great motivation you are!! Thank you so much!! I use to be into sports when I was in my teens but since I have had 4 children which includes a set of twins, it has been difficult to get the weight off. Its not from lack of time because I have the time but the push to keep it moving. I'm striving to do my best and keep up the pace. Wish me luck.

    Best Regards,

    Lineeka - 11/16/2011   9:45:48 PM
  • 10
    Woo Hoo Jerome! Awesome! So proud to call you a spark friend! - 11/16/2011   9:45:09 PM
  • 9
    Thanks so much for sharing your story. I'm just getting started on my journey but feel a 'kinship' with you, I'm just a little behind. The point is, a plan, determination and consistency will produce the desired results. Onward and downward (weight) fearless ones. Thanks again. - 11/16/2011   9:20:56 PM
  • 8
    What a completely delightful account of a successful journey! Thanks, Jerome! - 11/16/2011   9:10:49 PM
  • 7
    My journey has barely began so seeing your results is a real encouragement. I am determined to get healthy and maintain a healthy lifestyle. Like you I have a supportive spouse. I think that will help me to meet my goals. - 11/16/2011   8:14:04 PM
  • 6
    Hi Jerome,
    I just logged onto SP to track my food intake today when I saw a flash go by on my screen, and I said "hey, that young fellow looks familiar", and quickly clicked onto the blog...and yep...it was Jerome. Great blog and thank you for the continued inspiration. When my efforts seem to "wane", it's SP people like you, that get me "geared back up again". Keep up the good work! - 11/16/2011   7:28:45 PM
  • 5
    Congrats on your awesome journey! I hope to hit the 100 pounds lost very soon, and hearing that you did it keeps me motivated.

    But I have to say, 27 degrees is nothing! That's a warm day here :P Try walking when it's a windy -5 degree day and see how you like that. - 11/16/2011   6:55:03 PM
  • 4
    congrats to you and ur wife for finding the will to change. - 11/16/2011   6:50:15 PM
  • 3
    congrats jerome! you have done a great job, you are an inspiration to more people than you will ever know. keep it up - 11/16/2011   6:42:42 PM
  • SP_COACH_NANCY
    2
    What an honor and privilege to not only call you an inspiration, but a friend as well. Your enthusiasm for healthy living is contagious and yes "Together, we CAN win the battle against obesity!" GREAT BLOG, Jerome!!! - 11/16/2011   6:28:07 PM
  • 1
    I can't believe that it says I am the first to comment. I just want you to know that I was here cheering for you all the way as I read this blog. You are amazing and I am so glad you did this for you and decided to share this with us. I can't tell you any ideas on what men want to hear, but I know we all like the "YES!" attitude you have. Congrats to you and your healthy family. Way to go wife..she rocks!

    Hugs,

    K - 11/16/2011   6:17:24 PM

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