Spring Cleaning Your Life
Just a few short days ago we ushered in one of my favorite seasons of the year. Spring to me is like a rebirth of sorts. For many, me included, this is the one time of year I rummage through the rooms, closets and garage to find items no longer needed and freshen up those still in use. I take the blankets off the bed, flip the mattresses and do a thorough cleaning of each room from top to bottom. It's a cathartic ritual to clear myself of the material clutter that keeps me from appreciating the simplicity in my life.
It is also a time I like to take inventory of where I am in my life's journey. How am I managing with my eating, exercise, stress management, sleep, etc. It is a journey in letting go of things that are no longer necessary-guilt and perfection being two big ones I can think of off-hand, while working to clean up those they have been tucked away for a while--self-esteem and positivity.
This year ranks as one of the most stressful years of my life, but what I am discovering is that I am a much stronger person than I ever gave myself credit. I am learning to dig deep within me to de-clutter all the negativity and to find the positive side of life. It isn't always easy, however with the support and encouragement from my great friends, I am literally getting through each day one minute at a time.
Five weeks ago I lost my mother-in-law to liver cancer and my world was turned upside down. Giving myself permission to grieve is not a sign of weakness, but one of release, much like a spring shower. Just like we have to sweep the cobwebs out of the corners of our home, same is true with those in our life. Learning to release those things that keep us suppressed allows us to move forward.
Letting go of all the clutter in my life allows me to focus on the important things. The trivial things are just that---trivial. But when I put the focus on those things that have meaning in my life, it helps me move in the direction that was meant to be.
So I hope you will take some time to clean and de-clutter not only your home, but your life as well. Your life does not have to be immaculate or spotless in order to make progress. You just have to accept that there are many things in life we can control and many that we can't.
HAPPY SPRING!
Does this time of year usher in the need to re-evaluate your life? Do you take time to clean up the clutter in your life, not only physically but mentally as well?
It is also a time I like to take inventory of where I am in my life's journey. How am I managing with my eating, exercise, stress management, sleep, etc. It is a journey in letting go of things that are no longer necessary-guilt and perfection being two big ones I can think of off-hand, while working to clean up those they have been tucked away for a while--self-esteem and positivity.
This year ranks as one of the most stressful years of my life, but what I am discovering is that I am a much stronger person than I ever gave myself credit. I am learning to dig deep within me to de-clutter all the negativity and to find the positive side of life. It isn't always easy, however with the support and encouragement from my great friends, I am literally getting through each day one minute at a time.
Five weeks ago I lost my mother-in-law to liver cancer and my world was turned upside down. Giving myself permission to grieve is not a sign of weakness, but one of release, much like a spring shower. Just like we have to sweep the cobwebs out of the corners of our home, same is true with those in our life. Learning to release those things that keep us suppressed allows us to move forward.
Letting go of all the clutter in my life allows me to focus on the important things. The trivial things are just that---trivial. But when I put the focus on those things that have meaning in my life, it helps me move in the direction that was meant to be.
So I hope you will take some time to clean and de-clutter not only your home, but your life as well. Your life does not have to be immaculate or spotless in order to make progress. You just have to accept that there are many things in life we can control and many that we can't.
HAPPY SPRING!
Does this time of year usher in the need to re-evaluate your life? Do you take time to clean up the clutter in your life, not only physically but mentally as well?
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Comments
Best wishes and so sorry for your loss - I pray your memories will sustain you and your husband. - 4/2/2010 9:06:19 AM
I do need to spring clean my home as well as my life. Both are very cluttered and it causes more stress then needed. And if I'm stressed, I eat and get lazy. I read another article today in a magazine that basically said the same thing, declutter your home and your mind too. I think this weekend may be a good time to start! - 4/1/2010 8:06:22 PM
♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ - 3/31/2010 3:04:57 PM
As for decluttering, we moved a month ago, and I was determined to keep only the things we need or that are sentimental to my husband and me. It has made me feel so much better not having to worry about closets being overstuffed and pans falling out of the cabinet when we open the doors!! (HA-HA) I love knowing where everything is and having a place to put it when we're finished with it!
I love the idea of "Spring cleaning my Life" as well! I know it will make me feel better. I am going to share that with my husband tonight and see if he will be my partner in doing that, too!
Thank you, Nancy for your inspiration to all of us!
Bamamom00 - 3/31/2010 1:26:06 PM
You are in my prayers. - 3/30/2010 2:53:55 PM
As I am getting older, my main thing is to de-clutter the house. If the kids don't want it, ask the office, after that, it's charity or the "too good to waste" space at the dump; they are waiting there with open arms. I feel better as well.
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- 3/29/2010 10:34:55 PM
Thanks for the thoughts and good luck to you and your family. - 3/29/2010 4:24:41 PM
Happy Spring!
Maureen - 3/29/2010 1:08:11 PM
I have a hard time with clutter. Thanks to flylady.net I have really reformed my life - ridding it of material clutter & emotional clutter. One lesson I've learned is that it's the choices I make everyday that keep the clutter at bay & make room for love.
Thanks again for sharing - 3/29/2010 9:38:55 AM
- 3/29/2010 7:48:27 AM
on a more personal note I am very sorry for your family's loss. the reason I moved here was to help out my grandmother but she passed away before I got here. - 3/28/2010 6:50:11 PM
Enjoy the time you have every day and don't sweat the small stuff! - 3/28/2010 5:23:12 PM
Sorry to hear about the loss of your loved one. I am glad that this helped you to get through it though. - 3/28/2010 5:18:24 PM
I have started in my bedroom.. That is where my book shelves are - and have gotten rid of about 20 books so far. My goal is not to have any more books than will fit on those shelves. So i still have a way to go. Some books I discard and some I have taken to a used book store here. - 3/28/2010 3:38:57 PM
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