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Goal Buddies are Golden

Who's Your Buddy? Anybody!

By Mike Kramer, SparkPeople Contributor         
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It also helps if your buddy's schedule already works with yours, so you don't start off with a built-in excuse to break your consistency.

A motivating buddy supports and challenges. So make sure the person you're considering is just as committed and eager to succeed as you are. A twisted arm is not going to stick around long.

Look for someone who will be upbeat—even if you get discouraged—and can hold you accountable without passing judgment. You want a stress reliever, not a stress producer. Nothing kills consistency like negative energy.

The better the fit, the more you and a goal buddy can coach each other through those hazardous temptations. A good goal buddy will prevent you from falling off the wagon before you even start.

Community centers and gyms are gold mines for dieting, hiking, biking, running, walking and sports clubs. Sporting goods stores often host programs as well. Check the calendar and announcements section of the local paper. Online, look for community forums. To find a buddy on SparkPeople, click here.

Most of all, just ask around. Your buddy could be hiding in a most unexpected place. It could be your dentist, your cousin, your mechanic's hairdresser. Who knows? Think of it as fitness networking and don't be afraid to ask someone to "buddy up."
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As a writer and artist, Mike has witnessed countless motivational stories and techniques. See all of Mike's articles.

Member Comments

  • I could use a buddy to help me with this challenge. - 12/31/2015 8:27:28 PM
  • My ten and nine year old daughters want to be my spark buddies. 10 minutes of exercise a day? Bring it on! :) - 10/2/2015 11:00:32 PM
  • Lots of hugs. - 8/24/2015 1:26:48 AM
  • Weight loss buddies are great to help keep you motivated and to stay on track. - 6/30/2013 10:00:09 PM
  • My weight loss buddy has been awesome - even though we don't live in the same place and have never worked out together. We encourage each other, share our goals and hold each other accountable. Right now we have an ongoing wager to pay the other $20 if we miss work out days. Doesn't seem like much, but it keeps us working out. - 4/3/2011 6:17:33 PM
    I'm open to the idea of a buddy but I don't think I could be healthy about it. I'm very competitive. I think I would feel crushed if he/she succeeded when I didn't, and self-righteous and proud if I succeeded when he/she didn't. That's not helpful at all. - 7/19/2010 11:32:30 AM
    I agree completely. Check out my blog "What a difference a team makes" on my SparkPage where I tell you the progress I've made with my challenge team mates. We encourage each other, lift each other up when we fall, remind each other of the goals and that we are worth it. - 12/9/2009 2:52:46 PM
  • I agree with this article. My best friend has been my buddy through the last couple of months. She keeps me motivated and I am now at the point that if she has to miss a day exercise I am still motivated enough to continue without her. - 10/4/2009 7:28:35 PM
    looking for a buddy to share weight loss and healthy lifestyle

    am 62 year old grandmother and have 35 pounds to loose - 10/3/2009 1:46:35 PM
  • I am looking for a buddy - I am in my late 40's and have 20 pounds to lose... - 10/3/2009 10:08:25 AM
    Looking for a buddy who is in their 40's and has 40-50 pounds to lose. I'm located in Texas and eager to get this ball rolling. You be accountable to me, I be accountable to you. Our goals must be compatible and the focus straight forward.

    Are you in? Summer is here and Fall is approaching. Looking forward to a nice New Year's Eve.

    Please send a message if interested.
    ~Melissa~ - 7/14/2009 10:35:06 AM
  • I am looking for a weight loss buddy. I have 45 pounds to loose. Gained 25 pounds since January 2009 after my divorce... Guess I am an emotional eater... - 7/1/2009 9:34:59 PM
  • Is there a person who is in need of a buddy. Priscilla is looking for one. I just can't go it alone. If there is someone who lives in Delaware who has a lot of weight to lose let me know. - 6/28/2009 8:59:59 AM
  • I would love to find a goal buddy within my city or vicinity, that would be nice. Like the article. - 6/14/2009 1:44:21 AM
  • The hard part is finding someone with similar goals and managing schedules. I used to work out at the Y near where I used to live with another woman I ice skate with. But then I moved about 45 minutes away and it's just not possible. We still push each other on the ice, but it is the off the ice exercises I wish I had someone to work with. I also do not have any gyms near me as I live out in a rural area. I have everything in my house. I wish my husband would get into working out with me. But he is one of those people who never workout, can eat anything he wants and weighs probably 125 soaking wet and is not into exercising at all. - 6/2/2009 9:26:19 AM

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