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6 ''Biggest Loser'' Lessons to Unlearn

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6. They compare themselves to others. Each week at the weigh-in, the person who loses the most weight gets "immunity" and the people who lose the least are likely to be eliminated. No one wants to be the one who loses the fewest pounds. Inevitably, someone gets discouraged because they compare their weight loss to the losses of others. This is part of the TV game, but in real life, comparing yourself to others is a losing game. The only person you should be concerned with is yourself. Everyone loses weight in different places and at different rates. Don’t let someone else’s victory or defeat determine whether you view yourself as a winner or a loser. Keep your eyes straight ahead as you eat right, exercise hard, remain consistent. If you do this, everything else will eventually fall into place.

Although it isn’t realistic for everyone to follow everything they see on "The Biggest Loser," the basic principles hold true: Making healthy food (and portion) choices, surrounding yourself with supportive people, and exercising regularly will lead to weight loss. Changing your habits into a lasting lifestyle will ensure that the weight stays off. Watching the show can be helpful and motivational—especially when you can determine what's realistic and what's just reality television.
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Member Comments

  • #7. They usually gain all the weight back when they can no longer keep up with the program. - 5/3/2016 5:23:04 PM
  • I knew this show was unrealistic from the get-go, and have watched only part of one episode. It's impossible for anyone not on game show or filthy rich to put their lives on hold for weeks. Does the show ever do follow up with any of the contestants? I wonder how many have fallen back into old habits without someone in their face 24/7?

    Bah humbug. Even Oprah, who once had a personal trainer and chef at home on staff, has now opted for Weight Watchers, one of the "slow and steady wins the race" programs. - 1/16/2016 11:36:53 AM
  • I initially was a fan of this show, until I started looking more into it and seeing the affect on the individual's family as well as themselves. In more opinion, losing weight that fast, to that extreme is not healthy nor for most it is not long lasting. - 8/9/2015 4:41:54 PM
  • I don't watch the show at all because I feel it is very abusive. Those so called trainers use very demeaning words to the contestants. I don't think God wants us to talk to one another in such a demeaning way. - 9/21/2014 4:16:58 PM
  • One thing BL does not say is the contestants aren't really weighed in each week - it's more like every two to three weeks, but they illude that these contestants are losing in excess of over 150-200 lbs in approx 4 months! I don't that is humanly possible. Not to mention that they are competing for a huge amount of money and fame. The show Extreme Weightloss is far more realistic and true transformation. - 8/24/2014 8:57:04 AM
  • Does anyone think that it is realistic though? It is a reality show. I think taking it as anything more than that does it a disservice. Beyond that though it can be entertaining and inspirational. Whether they are secluded or not people do get healthy there. to see the season where a 523 pound man lost 1/2 of his weight was inspirational. They don't all keep it off, but neither do people who follow traditional plans including Spark people. My advice take it for what it is, entertainment but there is inspiration to be had. Don't close your mind to that. - 7/22/2014 8:43:14 AM
  • Glad to read this. Totally agree and personally find the show distasteful. I think it should also be said that the participants are specially chosen, partly due to their body composition and likelyhood to quickly loose fat w this type of method. Not all methods work for everyone .

    - 2/8/2014 10:02:22 PM
  • I agree with NancyAnne. I think it sets a bad and unrealistic example of how to approach weight loss and gain a healthy lifestyle. - 2/8/2014 7:42:15 PM
  • Contraband. Imagine SP calling some foods contraband.

    If the average person tried to set themselves up to that standard, they'd be set up for certain failure.

    Good article. This article is something that needed to be said. - 2/8/2014 12:29:41 PM
  • I'm glad to see someone at SparkPeople say this, because it's what I've thought for a long time. The people who run this show are trying to put together an entertaining TV show, not educate the public or optimize life for any of the participants.

    I have seen people who believe that their only chance for a normal weight is to get on the show and have their lives seized and made over by an outside force. The real "reality" is just the opposite--finding the strength from within to persist with gaining a healthy lifestyle. - 2/8/2014 11:56:36 AM
  • While this article makes some very valid and well-worded points, it was obviously written a few years ago. (8 seasons? Ha!) Since then former contestants have come out and said that the weeks are more than a calendar week, especially in the beginning (so they have more time to lose weight), that many people are dehydrating and using laxatives before weigh-ins, and that they are basically starving themselves. Between that and the obvious set-up drama, I stopped watching the show. While it can be motivating in some ways, I think it sets a bad and unrealistic example for the most part. - 2/8/2014 11:51:49 AM
  • I was so afraid this was going to be a bashing of truths making me squirm. It was a very well put article of things we should be learning or have learned on this journey to a healthier lifestyle. I loved this. It is a fun show and like all tele shows (reality based or not) it's just not real. LOL

    thanks for sharing.

    My favorite tip is "competing against yourself and not others" I do feel bad about the contestants feeling about about these great weight loss against someone else, but it's also a game. hard to mix the two. - 2/8/2014 11:09:08 AM
  • I stopped watching BL early on because it made me feel awful to see the pain the contestants often were put to. I think a lot of reality shows are staged and faked, but I felt the pain these contestants were in was too real and something too hard to fake. I know people who have been in boot camp type situations, and humiliation and lots of pain did not improve them. - 2/8/2014 8:28:00 AM
  • Very good to see this article! It validates what I felt about the show. I know from where I speak; a lifetime of trying to lose weight. I identified every single one of those points before reading this. Thanks! - 2/8/2014 8:25:01 AM
  • I agree with everything you said. My doctor recently told me just about the same thing. You have a great, clean writing style. I hope to read more of your articles. Thanks! - 2/7/2014 9:20:29 PM

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