3 Symptoms Your Husband Shouldn't Ignore

By , Robin Donovan, Health Writer
Your husband says he has a nagging pain below his ribs, chest tightness that won’t quit or has simply been feeling sluggish lately, but doesn’t feel like calling his doctor (or doesn’t have one). Here are three symptoms he (and you) should take seriously.
Chest Pain
Causes of chest pain range from everyday muscle aches to life-threatening heart attacks. Sure, it’s embarrassing to head to the emergency department only to be told you pulled a muscle, but if your problem is a blocked coronary artery, for example, you’ll want to get to the hospital ASAP to prevent heart damage.
Still tempted to suss things out yourself? Chest pain that comes and goes is less likely to be serious, as is stabbing pain limited to a very specific part of the chest. (Please note: It's less likely, not impossible, that these are symptoms of a cardiac episode, so seek medical attention for any chest pain.) A common heart attack symptom is severe, crushing pain. If you feel this, call 911 rather than spending extra time driving to the hospital.
Any chest pain could be serious and not every heart attack is accompanied by typical symptoms, so watch for nausea, sweating, anxiety, fainting and indigestion, especially when coupled with discomfort in the chest, jaw or left arm.
Bloody Stool
This is a symptom with a high “yuck” factor. No one wants to hear about what’s happening behind the bathroom door? But blood in the toilet bowl (which can also appear as a very dark or almost black stool) can be a symptom of gastrointestinal bleeding, ulcers, colon cancer and a host of other nasties—or a harmless hemorrhoid.
Visit a physician to follow-up on this sometimes-serious symptom and keep track of a few key indicators:
  • Is there blood in every stool?
  • Where do you see the blood? In the stool, toilet bowl or toilet paper?
  • Are stool streaked with blood or tarry?
  • How much blood does there seem to be?
Although we typically associate depression with symptoms like sadness and disinterest in everyday activities, low energy, fatigue and irritability can be harbingers of depression in men. Because depression can exacerbate a host of somatic symptoms, including lingering aches and pains, men should address persistent listlessness that interferes with their enjoyment of everyday life.
Depression in men can be exacerbated by desires to “tough it out” and a reluctance to seek medical help for vague symptoms like irritability and tiredness. Yet, untreated depression can lead to issues from workplace absenteeism to addiction and even brain atrophy. Luckily, addressing this issue can begin quite simply; many primary care providers can provide a basic screening during an annual physical.




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I worked on a crisis line for 20 years. You'd be surprised how often guys would call in knowing they have a problem, but don't feel comfortable seeking help for themselves. My husband gets like that sometimes. I just encourage him to go to the Dr. if he feels something is going on. Most of the time, I don't read comments on these articles. People can be so....rolling my eyes! Report
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Chest pain nothing to mess around with. My husband had a heart attack and quadruple bypass at 42. Report
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When my husband turned 50 I "suggested" he have his first colonoscopy as well as our doctor. In May of 2013 at the age of 59, he commented that his bathroom pattern had changed and was seeing blood. In June 2013 he was diagnosed with Stage 3 rectal cancer and had 98% of his rectum removed. He spent his 60th birthday with a 2nd round of chemo. At this time he is in remission. It doesn't hurt to make a suggestion unless you know suggestions aren't appreciated. This article is simply good information to know. Report
It says to call 911 rather than drive to the hospital.

I called 911, and we waited and waited and waited. After some 45 minutes of waiting - we had an emergency here in which time was of the essence - I called 911 again, and the guy apologized and said that there would be an ambulance on the way.

The ambulance showed up, but couldn't leave because they had to wait and wait for the paramedics to get here.

It was over an hour before the ambulance left for the hospital. Not good. We had a very serious medical condition happening, and it's just dumb luck that my partner didn't have to have his arm amputated because of too much time passing.

I'm not confident in 911. If I ever have to call again I will ask how long till there will be an ambulance. If it's going to be an hour or more, as was the case, then I'll drive. Report
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Warning! This proposed conversation is a potential mine field! Just think of how you would react if your partner started this conversation with you. Also, I agree with JCEDIT89. It is strange that this article is addressed to women. Why are men not expected to take responsibility for their health? We are not caregivers. We are spouses and partners. It's insulting to men to think that they cannot recognize and deal with these issues on their own. Report
My boyfriend has the first two and has joined me on establishing a healthier lifestyle. Even got him to join me here on SP, Report
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Why is this being addressed to women? Can't grown men take responsibility for their health and well being??? Report
My husband and I are on the same page, with health issues. He eats healthy, like I do. We try, every day, to do what's right. My husband goes to the gym every morning for about 2 hours, and was doing this long before I met him. Report
My husband has the first two problems and I've tried talking to. Him about it and he doesn't care so what else can I do except for keep getting healthier for my two young children who may very well end up not having a father/ daughter dance at their wedding (4 now) Report
Thank God I only have the too many pounds but at least I am working on that. Report

My husband has all of these, but we are uninsured and trying to get disability for him. I worry so much that he's also starting to show signs of diabetes. Report