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Workout Ideas for Couples

Put Your Love to the Fitness Test

By Nicole Nichols, Certified Personal Trainer         
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Sure it might be tempting to eat an entire box of chocolates, splurge on a romantic dinner or skip the gym in favor of a movie this Valentine's Day, but you don’t have to let your love life derail your plans to get fit this year. With these workout ideas for couples, you and your partner can spend quality time together while you stay on track to reaching your goals in February and beyond.

The Benefits of Exercising with Your Partner
The two of you may be at different fitness levels and have different goals, but that doesn’t mean that you can’t exercise together. There are plenty of reasons to give it a try:
  • Safety. With someone else watching your form and being there to spot you when you need it, you’ll exercise more safely than if you were alone. Besides, who cares more about your safety than your soulmate?
  • Quality time. Couples spend most of their time apart due to careers and other responsibilities. Instead of hitting the gym alone, plan a workout time that fits both of your schedules. You’ll reach your fitness goals, without sacrificing that one-on-one time that every partnership needs.
  • A common interest. Add exercise to your list of shared interests and hobbies. The possibility for new, unique activities is endless and keeps things exciting. You can never have too much in common.
  • Motivation and support. Getting encouragement and praise from your partner is one of the best motivators. It’ll help both of you remain consistent and take care of one another.
  • A deeper bond. Exercise produces chemicals in the brain that evoke feelings of happiness, reduce stress, and also increase arousal and libido. Several studies show that men and women who exercise regularly report better (and more frequent) sex with their partners.
  • Respect and pride. Taking care of your body and your health shows the person you care about that you want to be your best for them—and that you want to be around for years to come.
  • Balance. In many couples, one partner tends to favor cardio (typically women) while the other tends to favor strength training (typically men). By working out together you can balance your workout program to include more of both. Let your partner teach you about the areas of fitness you’re unsure of and be open to new fitness experiences.
Wondering how working out as a couple might work in the real world—especially when you’re both at different fitness levels? Here are some great ideas to get you started:
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About The Author

Nicole Nichols Nicole Nichols
A certified personal trainer and fitness instructor with a bachelor's degree in health education, Nicole loves living a healthy and fit lifestyle and helping others do the same. Nicole was formerly SparkPeople's fitness expert and editor-in-chief, known on the site as "Coach Nicole." Make sure to explore more of her articles and blog posts.

Member Comments

  • My spouse and I recently took up ballroom dancing together (it was a birthday present for my 40th!! :D :D ) and we love it! There are also events around town that we can attend to try our dancing "in the wild".

    We also have a lot of fun playing exergames together on the Wii and Xbox Kinect (Kinect Sports, most recently).

    We've always enjoyed hiking together, and make it part of our anniversary every year (which, fortunately, is in summer).

    Every couple wants to live to a ripe old age together, and exercise surely helps make that possible! :) - 1/27/2015 12:07:07 AM
  • The couples at the gym usually show the state of their relationship. We warm up and stretch together then do our own thing. sometimes we do the side by side cardio machines, but he is running I am walking. There is another couple we see sometimes who lifts together, both of them are obviously serious about their weight program but they also work well together. It isn't for everybody, and we love hiking together and he rides bikes with me sometimes, other times I get my alone time out on the bike trial. - 1/26/2015 11:41:08 PM
  • You want to see the people doing the least-effective workouts at the gym?
    Look for the couples. - 1/26/2015 8:47:47 AM
    Has anyone tried a regular practice or exercise or routine that involves both people, and not just as an optional companion or in a competitive sport? Something close to ballroom dancing where both parties have responsibilities and movements in order to make a great performance, except the goal is fitness and exercise? - 10/31/2014 8:45:08 PM
  • BOBG01
    My wife has no interest in exercise so I got a dog :( Better than nothing, but still, not quite the same as working out with your significant other. - 9/10/2014 3:09:30 PM
  • I am so fortunate that my DH has been my steady workout partner for over 40 years of our marriage. We started out jogging outdoors together, then we started to have different paces so we moved our together time to the gym. After all these years I am so conditioned to going to the gym that I do it alone (when he had surgeries, for instance). But nothing beats our regular workout date times. I am so lucky in this respect. - 2/15/2014 8:10:33 AM
  • couldn't get my hubby to exercise with me to save his life or mine.
    He is so stubborn and not willing even to walk.
    He goes to his own gym but refuses to take classes or suggestions even from a young woman trainer... and from a guy, forget it.... so I just give up and go myself..
    He is 70 he will never change. - 9/23/2012 9:10:26 PM
  • Great article! - 8/11/2012 12:39:25 AM
    Thank you for this article. I got the idea to try yoga together with my significant other. :) I think he can't do most strenght excercises because of his back problems, but some yoga poses might be suitable. :) - 2/13/2012 2:55:33 PM
    Can this be added to the fitness tracker workout options? - 2/13/2012 12:09:58 PM
  • Um. Valentine's Day, remember? Romantic. I think one day out of the year I'd like the old man to pretend he's Richard Gere, not Richard SImmons. Candlelight dinner doesn't mean pigout at the all-you-can-eat, y'know. - 2/14/2011 4:13:32 PM
  • actually it did say play, and had geocaching in there, something I've enjoyed tagging along for, fun to go in a group and to let someone else navigate ;-) - 2/13/2011 12:28:24 AM
  • actually it did say play, and had geocaching in there, something I've enjoyed tagging along for, fun to go in a group and to let someone else navigate ;-) - 2/13/2011 12:27:58 AM
  • actually it did say play, and had geocaching in there, something I've enjoyed tagging along for, fun to go in a group and to let someone else navigate ;-) - 2/13/2011 12:25:54 AM
  • it didn't exactly say play, but the article DID say "Other sports." My husband and I used to do line dancing class and Ballroom dancing together, but the costs caused us to drop the ballroom classes after 4 years, and then we moved to NJ and haven't seen any line dance classes around. We will start a community ballroom dance class session in March, but it will be a group class that appears to be targeted at beginners, so may or may not be much exercise.
    We walk together to indoor dvd, as we are both fairly beginners and overweight enough that neither of us run, so this keeps our pace the same pretty much. - 2/13/2011 12:14:22 AM

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