Confession: I Can Run 10 Miles, But I Can’t Do a Sit-Up
I am a creature of habit. Once I get into an exercise routine I like and works well for my schedule, I tend to stick to it. For years, my primary cardio activity has been running. I regularly change up the distance, speed and route to keep my workouts challenging. I like that I’m good at running (I’m not fast, but I’m consistent) and it’s something I enjoy. But I also know that variety is important.
My husband had been bugging me to try a new fitness class at his martial arts studio. After months of making excuses (“I don’t have time”, “I don’t think I’d like it”, etc.) I decided to give it a chance. Within the first few classes, it was easy to see the areas where I was very fit, and the areas where I clearly was not. I like feeling strong and fit. I like it for myself, I like it as a positive example for my kids, and I also feel a certain amount of pressure to be fit because of my job. I think I hesitated to try something new because I was afraid it would show me (and everyone around me) my weaknesses.
I can do high knee runs all day long, but when it was time to get on the floor and do sit-ups, that was a totally different story. One of the exercises during my second class had us lying on the floor with a partner above. I was supposed to reach up (into a full sit-up position) and touch their hand, then return to the starting position. I’m not a fan of sit-ups, so I never incorporate them into my own workouts. But for the sake of the class, I wanted to try everything they were suggesting. We were supposed to do 30, and I couldn’t do one. Not one single sit-up. What’s worse is that as everyone else finished their set, they started to turn toward me to cheer me on. It was a great gesture, but at that moment I just wanted to run and hide instead of trying to push through an exercise that I knew I couldn’t complete.
After the class, I walked in the house and my husband asked “What’s wrong?” I burst into tears and said “I’m so embarrassed that I couldn’t finish the workout! Please don’t ever tell them I’m a trainer!” I know that I was being irrational, and it’s normal that I’m a regular person who can’t do everything. But in that moment, I was disappointed in myself.
I started thinking about all of the members I work with every day who say they are embarrassed to go to the gym or don’t want to take a walk around the neighborhood for fear that others will see how unfit they are. For a few minutes during that class, I knew how they felt. It’s hard to come out of your comfort zone, no matter what the reason. But regardless of your current fitness level or your goals, it’s a good idea. Doing something new has shown me the areas I need to work on, so even though I continue to struggle, that class has become a regular part of my workout schedule.
Have you ever had to step out of your comfort zone and try something new? Were you glad you did it? Why or why not?
My husband had been bugging me to try a new fitness class at his martial arts studio. After months of making excuses (“I don’t have time”, “I don’t think I’d like it”, etc.) I decided to give it a chance. Within the first few classes, it was easy to see the areas where I was very fit, and the areas where I clearly was not. I like feeling strong and fit. I like it for myself, I like it as a positive example for my kids, and I also feel a certain amount of pressure to be fit because of my job. I think I hesitated to try something new because I was afraid it would show me (and everyone around me) my weaknesses.
I can do high knee runs all day long, but when it was time to get on the floor and do sit-ups, that was a totally different story. One of the exercises during my second class had us lying on the floor with a partner above. I was supposed to reach up (into a full sit-up position) and touch their hand, then return to the starting position. I’m not a fan of sit-ups, so I never incorporate them into my own workouts. But for the sake of the class, I wanted to try everything they were suggesting. We were supposed to do 30, and I couldn’t do one. Not one single sit-up. What’s worse is that as everyone else finished their set, they started to turn toward me to cheer me on. It was a great gesture, but at that moment I just wanted to run and hide instead of trying to push through an exercise that I knew I couldn’t complete.
After the class, I walked in the house and my husband asked “What’s wrong?” I burst into tears and said “I’m so embarrassed that I couldn’t finish the workout! Please don’t ever tell them I’m a trainer!” I know that I was being irrational, and it’s normal that I’m a regular person who can’t do everything. But in that moment, I was disappointed in myself.
I started thinking about all of the members I work with every day who say they are embarrassed to go to the gym or don’t want to take a walk around the neighborhood for fear that others will see how unfit they are. For a few minutes during that class, I knew how they felt. It’s hard to come out of your comfort zone, no matter what the reason. But regardless of your current fitness level or your goals, it’s a good idea. Doing something new has shown me the areas I need to work on, so even though I continue to struggle, that class has become a regular part of my workout schedule.
Have you ever had to step out of your comfort zone and try something new? Were you glad you did it? Why or why not?
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I've learned to laugh when I can't do what I think I 'should' be able to do--and, recently, it's been a REAL laugh, not a cover-up for crying. I'm (finally!) learning I'm not perfect, not ever gonna be perfect, and that's perfectly ok.
I try to step/swim/move out of my comfort zone every now and then (and I envy you a husband who pushes you in that direction). The view from the new is often very worth seeing. - 9/17/2012 8:31:30 AM
-fitness-class-here class. By taking the risk of embarrassment, I learned that I am more capable than I thought, and I have never felt judged in any of these classes. Now I have new ways to work on flexibility, stress relief, and cardio. - 8/5/2012 3:24:41 PM
I have been over my comfort zone since I started this journey and i'm so glad I did. I love being able to just do the workouts without feeling like they are chores. I choose to workout and have fun with it. If I start any program that has me hating to put the dvd in I stop it. I enjoy cardio dancing the most. Walk a lot too when it's not as hot. And I normally strength train 4 times a week. I've come a long way and Thank God for the progress. Thanks for sharing and don't worry about doing that sit-up...try an alternative that gives the same results. - 8/3/2012 8:34:27 PM
To answer the question: Yes. I have stepped out of my comfort zone to fill unfilled volunteer jobs, to try new exercise routines, and to help people find their sexual orientation. Usually I succeed and I'm glad. But every once in a while I try running again, and I fail again. - 8/3/2012 4:57:06 PM
Yes, it's annoying or embarrassing.When I was in junior high, once I got an " F" in P.E.
I came everyday. I did below the chart ( my age / average ) of alot of the things, except for running. I really messed up on throwing the ball.
For years I felt like a reject. Then I went to an aerobics class. I could complete against myself and improve.
Frequently one can get better and better.
As for the things, ya can't do at all... there is usually a reason like a back problem or doing it incorrectly.
Most of us aren't in school anymore. How cares, unless you really do. Not because of others, but you.... - 8/3/2012 12:14:22 PM
Also, Zumba - I was always interested, but was entirely too afraid to go and check it out. I'm not sure what made me want to do it, but one night I took a friend with me...and the instructor was so awesome, it only took that one class to get me into my comfort zone. I'd like to think belly dancing has helped - I can translate some of the Zumba moves into belly dance moves! ;-) - 8/3/2012 11:38:18 AM
- 8/3/2012 10:32:44 AM
I discovered later I can do block long sprints which felt pretty good and I'm working on developing some distance! - 8/2/2012 4:28:44 PM
My biggest leaps were taking up pole exercise. It is amazing how challenging it is because you are lifting your own weight. Then after I got good at that, I took up aerial silks--even more challenging than pole because move while you are flipping upside down in the air. At least the pole is stationary! I still want to do aerial hoop (lyra) and trapeze! I have to go to another town to try those or I would have already done it! - 8/2/2012 1:33:08 PM
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