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The Ever-Changing World of Making Love During Pregnancy

Why It's Different


From the Man's Perspective

I find my pregnant wife very sexy, but she has no interest in making love. What should I do? Your increased interest in sex is very normal, but remember so is her decreased interest. It could be that the morning sickness, nausea, vomiting or constant fatigue is the cause of her lack of interest. Or maybe she is overwhelmed by the idea of motherhood and the added responsibilities. Or perhaps she is having difficulty accepting the changes in her body that you find so sexy. Do not worry, whatever the cause, hopefully it is only temporary. In the meantime, do not push this sexual issue. Do increase the romance, the touching, the communication, and the cuddling. It will bring you closer together. Be sure to ask her what feels good and what doesn't, since there will be continued changes throughout the pregnancy. And remember to shower her with love, affection and tell her how sexy you find her.

If I just look at my wife the wrong way, she starts to cry?what's going on? Hormones, hormones and more hormones. Hopefully this will stabilize by around the fourth month and ease the weepiness and moodiness. But some women experience these outbursts through the entire pregnancy. Patience, understanding, comfort, support, and a shoulder to cry on should always be available. Remember this is not a permanent condition.

I have this fear that I will harm the baby during intercourse. You may see your unborn child as fragile; however, your baby is well protected inside mom. In a normal, healthy pregnancy, there is no danger in having sexual intercourse. In fact, the gentle rocking motion of intercourse and mom's contracting uterus may pacify the baby. And making love to your wife can actually do her a world of good too. Letting her know she is desired, and the physical and emotional closeness might be just what she needs.

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Becky Hand
Becky is a registered and licensed dietitian with almost 20 years of experience. She teaches prenatal classes and counsels individuals, helping women eat right and stay fit before, during and after their pregnancies.
Becky Hand

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