SparkPeople Members Offer 20 Tips to Bounce Back After a Bad Day

By , SparkPeople Blogger
You've been doing so well. As in: seriously rocking this health and fitness thing. In fact, if you weren’t so modest, you might say you've been a meal planning, calorie-burning, goal-crushing machine. The numbers your doctor is watching are right where they should be, your before-and-after pics are on point and your regular weigh-ins are starting to include more triumph than terror.
 
And then, it happens: You have a bad day. Maybe it's just a not-so-good day, or maybe it's a very, very bad day.
 
When you're on a weight-loss journey, there are lots of different definitions of "bad day." It might include the obvious blunders of eating all the wrong foods or choosing couch time over gym time. But it could also mean overdoing it with too much of the right foods, not getting enough sleep or letting negative thoughts or influences deflate your mood or motivation. In a nutshell, a bad day occurs when you feel yourself sliding backward, in the opposite direction of your goals.
 
The good news? A bad day is just that—a day. Like so much else in this journey, it is fleeting and temporary. And in just a few short hours, you'll get to push the reset button simply by waking up to a brand-new morning.
 
Countless people—including hundreds right here on SparkPeople—have had bad days, and then come back stronger than ever. Next time you stumble, slip up or even take a headfirst tumble, let this list give you the gentle nudge you need to get back on track.
  1. Own it, log it, and make better choices today! – LUANN_IN_PA
  2. I try to analyze where I went wrong, and how I could do better. And I recognize what I did well on the same day that I overindulged. For example, yesterday I ate too much food at dinner. What I did well: ate planned meals for breakfast and lunch, ate my freggies, exercised [and drank] plenty of water. What went wrong for dinner: I attended a stressful meeting during the meal hour, the meeting went late and I was ravenous, so I picked up a fast food meal. What I could do next time to prevent lapsing: Take a healthy snack to the meeting, keep healthy snacks in the car and have dinner prepped and ready. – ALIHIKES
  3. It does help me to review why I'm here, reread some of my self-motivating blogs, look at my progress instead of my failures and determine to make yet another fresh start. Each day is a gift. – SABLENESS
  4. I say "That was yesterday and yesterday's gone." Really, we all have days when we eat and/or drink too much. Over the course of the week or month, it all balances out. When I have had a day like that, I just get back on track today. Don't go overboard and undereat, and don't go crazy at the gym either. – MARTHA324
  5. I started realizing that I could learn from setbacks in ways that I couldn’t have learned without that setback. In many ways, having a setback is great "adversity training." Let’s face it—life is not a smooth line of success as we all know. There are likely to be obstacles in your path that you’ll need to figure out how to surmount. – SPARKGUY
  6. I write it all down. What I ate, drank and how awful I felt. Then re-group and start over. I would eat a little lighter and do really light exercise [like a] slow, gentle walk out in fresh air. – SPUNOUTMOM
  7. Just eat normally at the next meal. No "I'll make up for it by skipping dinner!" And just exercise normally. No "I'll do an intense two-hour workout to burn the extra calories." – KRISZTA11
  8. I saw a quote here on SparkPeople a long time ago: "If you break one egg, do you throw the rest away?" I remind myself of this quote often—just because a brownie sounded good and I ate one, doesn't mean I am going to chuck the rest of my day and eat whatever I want, or have one bad day and chuck the rest of the week. Anytime is a good time to start again. – ASHLEEMICAHSMOM
  9. Forget about it. Don't feel guilty. I just educate myself more on what I can do to stay motivated and get back on track! – LISA_WAS_HERE
  10. I realized the most important step after a setback was to immediately set and reach the smallest of goals to get right back on track. – SPARKGUY
  11. You are not a machine who can eat right 24/7. Remember, you're trying to change habits learned over a lifetime. That's not going to happen overnight, in a week, a month or even a year. Change takes time.  –ARCHIMEDESII
  12. Control follows awareness. Tracking what you eat helps you to see where you need to cut back...and control what you are eating. If you don't track, you lose control! Just knowing how many calories you are eating is helpful. Knowledge is power! – SWILSON2347
  13. The first thing is to look at the situation and figure out the points where you "went wrong." Again, the idea isn't to beat yourself up; the idea is to search out other solutions so that you have them in your back pocket the next time you find yourself in this sort of situation. – NIRERIN
  14. When I physically feel bad after too much [or the wrong types of] food/drink, etc., I plan to drink lots of water the next day (ginger tea if my stomach is upset). That usually makes me feel better physically. Tracking all the food and getting back on the tracking system makes me feel better mentally. – GETULLY
  15. I "blow it" at least once a week; still losing weight. Why? I'm consistent the rest of the time. One meal, one skipped workout, etc. isn't going to derail me or shake me up…I'm in it for the long game! – JOSIEPOSIES
  16. Try to not beat yourself up. Tomorrow is a new day, so just focus on the good choices you know you are capable of. – ONETHM
  17. Give yourself credit for stopping, and for every positive choice you make. – KRISZTA11
  18. Start the day with warm lemon water. Then just go about eating and exercising as you normally would. – SARAH8711
  19. I think of setbacks as a stumble off the path...sitting on a log and breathing mindfully for a bit allows me to get back on my path. – ITSALLGOOD6
  20. Don't look at good health with an all-or-nothing mentality. If the only healthy thing you did for yourself yesterday was drink eight glasses of water, that's still a step in the right direction. – ARCHIMEDESII

SparkGuy's 7-Step Setback Formula

We can think of no better way to wrap up this list than by sharing SparkGuy's own action plan for recovering from a bad day.
  1. Give yourself a pep talk, including forgiving yourself if necessary.
  2. Review your reasons for being healthy and fit, your goals and vision collage—so that you can build determination to overcome setbacks by knowing what you are fighting for.
  3. Think about what you can learn from the setback and write those lessons down in some form of a journal.
  4. Ask for help and support from someone if you need it (including the SparkPeople community).
  5. Set a small goal—the smallest possible goal that you can reach quickly. Most importantly, write it down.
  6. Go reach that goal and check it off your list.
  7. Repeat steps five and six as many times as possible until you feel like you are back on track!
How do you recover after a bad day?

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Comments

MNABOY 8/7/2018
Thanks Report
MSROZZIE 8/5/2018
Good need-to-know information! Report
JIACOLO 8/5/2018
It is a great reminder to not let an off day deter you Report
HAPPYDAZ1 8/5/2018
Great ideas and certainly better than beating myself up over things. Thanks for sharing. Report
HOLLYM48 8/4/2018
Great article! Report
TOMATOCAFEGAL 8/3/2018
great tips. Report
SLASALLE 8/2/2018
I always remember something Coach Nicole says: One step back, two steps forward. It's similar to Spark Guy's principles. Coach Nicole said to do two small things ... drink a glass of water, or go for a short walk - whatever your thing is, but two small positive steps forward. Report
JIACOLO 8/1/2018
Great suggestions! An off time should never deter you from the hard work you have put in! Report
1CRAZYDOG 8/1/2018
The most important thing is . . . don't quit!!! DO NOT QUIT! Report
DEBVNE 8/1/2018
These suggestions are spot on...the insight and common sense are commendable. On my less than lovely days, I make it a point to end the day on a positive note. It might mean guzzling water, journaling thoughts, or taking a quick stroll to clear my mind of any of the “can’ts” that are clouding my thoughts. I will clearly use these nuggets of wisdom as well. Report
PLCHAPPELL 8/1/2018
Good suggestions Report
JAMER123 7/31/2018
Great tips to find our way through a bad day and see some progression. Report
_CYNDY55_ 7/31/2018
Great, thanks! Report
ARNETTELEE 7/31/2018
Great article Report
SPARKFRAN514 7/31/2018
Putting spark guy questions on my journal to go over when i slip and slide on the journey . its always good to be reminded we are not perfect we are human. i have read several blogs where the writer say they never had a slip is a blog I stop reading . Report
TAYLORMDAVIS 7/31/2018
This was very helpful thank you!
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AJB121299 7/31/2018
nice Report
MRSMCGOOFY 7/31/2018
Thank you for the excellent advice--all words to remember! Report
97MONTY 7/31/2018
great advice Report
AZMOMXTWO 7/31/2018
thank you Report
RHVICK 7/31/2018
Some great (and sensible) time here. Thanks! Report
-POOKIE- 7/31/2018
Great points Report
PICKIE98 7/31/2018
We strive for progression, NOT perfection. Report
FERRARIFITNESS 7/31/2018
Excellent advice. Accountability will take you all the way! Report
SHERRIE170 7/31/2018
Great tips. I need to be motivated!
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NEPTUNE1939 7/31/2018
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REDROBIN47 7/31/2018
Thanks for all the great suggestions. Nice article Report
AMYRCMK 7/31/2018
Thank you Report
LIS193 7/31/2018
Great tips! Report
DJ4HEALTH 7/31/2018
Thanks for the tips Report
2DAWN4 7/29/2018
Love all the tips! Report
RHOOK20047 7/29/2018
Thanks for the helpful hints. Report
GINA180847 7/29/2018
Great encouragement!! Report
DMEYER4 7/29/2018
thanks Report
GREENSPRINGS2 7/29/2018
Very motivational! Report
JIACOLO 7/29/2018
Great suggestions! One off day should NEVER deter from working on a healthier you! Report
SCOOTERTVRPV 7/29/2018
useful information; thanks Report
USMAWIFE 7/29/2018
great suggestions Report
ZRIE014 7/29/2018
helpful hints Report
EVIE4NOW 7/28/2018
good advice! Report
PATRICIAANN46 7/28/2018
What a great way to encourage us. We know that each day is a challenge and that how we cope with that will lead to a more successful (and less stressful) journey. Thank You. Report
RHOOK20047 7/28/2018
Thanks for the great information. Report
RHOOK20047 7/28/2018
Thanks Report
RAPUNZEL53 7/28/2018
Thanks. Report
KHALIA2 7/28/2018
We all have bad days. Like the commercial says, "nobody is perfect." Get up brush yourself off and keep going. Report
MUSICNUT 7/28/2018
Thanks for the great suggestions! :) Report
NANCYPAT1 7/28/2018
Great tips! Report
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Great tips! Report
NANCYPAT1 7/28/2018
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