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Of course we know that obesity has reached epidemic proportions in this country- and now it's been spilling over to our kids. Obesity among children is skyrocketing, and getting a lot of attention these days, but I think people are still not sure of a couple of things: How can parents prevent their own children from becoming overweight, and what do you do when a child (or adolescent) is obese?
Jen (SparkPeople Community Leader)
I think the first place it starts is with parents. When I worked at the YMCA we had a program for severely obese kids, and 9 times out of 10 the entire family was obese too. So I think there is something wrong with that family’s lifestyle that needs to be addressed. A 10-year-old can’t go grocery shopping for himself. But if he is given healthy options at home and the parents provide a good example, he’s much more likely to continue that behavior—partly because it’s familiar. If french fries are familiar at home, then he’s more likely to eat that as he gets older and can make his own choices.
Same goes with exercise- if they are given a good example and not allowed to sit in front of the TV all day, they are more likely to continue that behavior.
I think parents can create a healthy environment without focusing on counting calories and losing weight. It's just about being healthy and getting active. I get nervous when I hear people asking for calorie recommendations for their kids. They'll get enough of that pressure from media and society—no need to create more of it at home.
Christie Hadley (Certified Personal Trainer)
I agree with Jen. The parent's habits really impact how the kids act. Also, where children play has changed. When I was young and it was nice outside, I wasn't "allowed" to be inside. We made up games and ran around the back yard. If we came in for too long we were sent directly outside. I actually overheard a mom say the other day that now, she’d rather have her children play inside. That is a big shift in attitude.
In my personal opinion, I feel that the focus shouldn't be on the "good" foods and "bad" foods, and children should never be put on a "diet." The focus should be on a healthy lifestyle—an eat to win attitude so a child can be the best soccer player, ballerina, or math wizard she can be.
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Member Comments
The reason I was ovweweight as a kid is that my folks were too busy taking care of the household or its finanances to watch me play outdoors and they did not trust the neighbors to do it. Maybe ther was too much tv, soda, and convenience foods too. They did not know better. They grew up in agricultural communities and had no free time or extra food as they were growing up. They did not want their kids to have it as tough as them. They did not know it would make us lazy and fat.
My generation can facilitate better food choices for our children, but where in the country can kids play all day unsupervised? - 4/21/2013 12:56:42 PM
I still believe that it was not just the food and exercise that was wrong - it was simply the wrong mix for MY body. My pre-8 year old body adapted fine with the level of growth and exercise. Then I hit puberty early, and that body didn't do as well with that environment, and neither did my emotional state and upheaval.
I'm disappointed that there are limited choices in the related "who's to blame" poll - I think that we are all missing the point. Coach Nicole got the closest in reminding us that many ADULTs are obese, and that population is growing, so naturally, so follows the results in rise of childhood obesity.
With less nutritious food, it's easy and fast for me to eat 3 or 4 times the calories and fat in ONE day that I need to maintain my weight. But it's hard for me to eat the same volume of foods that are more nutritious. Physically less possible, and, I think that because it is more nutritious, my body doesn't cry out for more and more food.
Just some thoughts..
Jocelyn - 1/29/2013 12:08:11 AM
I want a YMCA membership, but it is too expensive. I applied for financial assistance and they were only willing to reduce the monthy fee by $10. That certainly didn't do enough to make it affordable. I want to take my kids swimming and rock wall climbing... I want them to have these experiences and I want them to learn to enjoy the gym. But when you are on a fixed income it makes it pretty challenging. If Planet Fitness can offer memberships for $10 a month with no joining fee, why can't a non-profit organization like the YMCA offer something better than $50 a month and a joining fee for a family of 3? It's ridiculous. I do partly blame communities and society in general for this epidemic.
My son is in scouts and my daughter is in gymnastics. My son is overweight, but not obese. I don't buy many sweets for the house- but they get candy at school all the time, I can't be there with him to make sure he makes the right choices at lunch time, I can't... - 1/28/2013 9:55:52 AM
Take some responsibility - 1/28/2013 9:10:12 AM
Sorry, gurl, but this was a perfect opportunity for motivating you to kick some butt and get into shape, no matter what! You never quit, no matter what anybody says or does...You're in this for YOU, to get YOU to a healthy state...who CARES what others think?!
You might be walking into the gym out of shape, but eventually, you'll walk out IN shape...
Just my 2 cents...all the best to you on your journey!
- 1/18/2012 10:33:14 AM