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Become Your Own Best Motivator

Take this Quiz, Never Lose Your Motivation Again!

-- By Dean Anderson, Behavioral Psychology Expert
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There are several kinds of motivation problems that people run into, and each requires a different set of strategies. Let's start here with a little quiz to find out which motivational problems you might be dealing with.

Get out a small piece of paper to mark your answers to the following five questions. Respond to each statement with "True" if you think it applies to you more often than not or "False" if you think it doesn’t apply most of the time. Next, indicate on a scale of 1-10, how big of a role you think the statement plays in your motivation problems. If you think it plays almost no role, give it a one. If you think it is by far the most important factor in your motivation problems, give it a 10.

1. True or False: My motivation seems to depend on what the scale (or tape measure, fit of my clothes, etc.) says. I feel motivated when I see results, but unmotivated when I don’t. SCORE (1-10): _____

2. True or False: I feel like I am in a constant battle with myself. In my “normal” state, I want to eat whatever I like, whenever I want it, and/or my body just naturally gravitates towards the couch. It’s very hard to make myself do what I know I need to do. SCORE (1-10): _____

3. True or False: I really want to eat healthy and exercise most of the time, but I just can’t seem to resist the temptations that I run into most days. SCORE (1-10): _____

4. True or False: I think I would do much better if I had more control over my life and my time. There are just so many demands on me that I can’t fit exercise and healthy meals into my day as often as I want to. SCORE (1-10): _____

5. True or False: I do well for a few hours (or days or weeks), but then I have a bad time and things really go downhill. All I see is what I did wrong, not all the things I did well. I get flooded with negative feelings, and just want to give up. SCORE (1-10): _____

Interpret Your Results: Identifying Problems & Solutions

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Dean Anderson Dean Anderson
Dean Anderson has master's degrees in human services (behavioral psychology/stress management) and liberal studies. His interest in healthy living began at the age of 50 when he confronted his own morbid obesity and health issues. He joined SparkPeople and lost 150 pounds and regained his health. Dean has earned a personal training certification from ACE and received training as a lifestyle and weight management consultant. See all of Dean's articles.

Member Comments

  • Awesome. - 8/28/2012 9:04:04 PM
  • Great Article! Very helpful - 4/25/2011 1:03:19 PM
  • Yes a very good article and one that I think is going to be the one that gets me on the right track. - 4/13/2011 10:30:24 PM
  • Yikes, I answered True to all the questions. The funny part is I already knew this stuff about myself it is just very difficult to change. But I keep trying and there were some great strategies in the article to work with. - 5/13/2010 2:25:22 PM
  • Powerful article, thank you so much. I have been on Sparkpeople for a while - but this is the best and most appropriate article I have read, it may change my life!!!! - 5/6/2010 6:21:51 AM
  • Great article, it did help me understand some of the motivational issues. My main problem is I really enjoy being on the computer and have trouble getting away, then when I do there is always pet stuff to do. But I'm going to start making a mile walk to the store and back. - 5/5/2010 3:56:43 PM
  • Oh la, I've scored close to 10 on each and every question. - 5/5/2010 2:12:35 PM
  • Great article and quiz. I am also encouraged by the fact that I think I'm finally getting it! My "10" is number two and one of the big differences between this time and all the other times I've lost weight is that I'm trying really hard not to deprive myself. I realize that I can't be successful long term unless I meet ALL my needs and desires...includi
    ng those for yummy and not always healthy foods! - 5/5/2010 12:48:25 PM
  • Thank you, SparkPeople for this series of articles. Joining this site was on of the best moves I made, this year. - 5/5/2010 11:59:30 AM
  • ROTY2008
    This is such a great article. I wish I had seen this before now, but now I can truly say that life is going to be so different now! - 5/5/2010 11:28:37 AM
  • This is great advice! The "I" statements are so important to ANY relationship. This is simply a relationship with yourself! - 3/28/2010 7:41:31 PM
  • This is great advice. It all starts with you. - 3/17/2010 12:37:22 AM
  • it all sounds good and I need to do it but I never seem to be able to stick to it - 5/21/2009 1:31:18 PM
  • DARKLING56
    I guess I am doing okay. I have two goals as I start to this journey: 1) to be able to walk around the grocery store without needing to actually sit down during the task and 2) to walk my dogs around the block.

    Right now (Day 1 of my new life) I am unable to do grocery shopping easily. I have to sit down or rest against the side of shelves and refrigeration boxes. I even sit for 10 minutes or more in the deli section on a real chair before I go to the check out. And if I forget something at the other end of the store I REFUSE to go back to get it because its such a long walk. All I want to do is to make groceries without it being such a chore.

    The other thing I want to do is walk my dogs on a leash. I dont currently do it because my legs and back and hip hurt after walking about half a block.

    I need to be able to do both these things to feel as if I am making my way thru the muck. Does this make sense? - 1/15/2009 5:42:15 PM
  • DARKLING56
    I wanted to do this one but when I started considering the questions/stateme
    nts I realize that I since I have never tried to diet before, I have no clue about motivation. I dont know what my triggers are. ACK.

    Has anyone else ever had this realization? - 1/15/2009 5:36:26 PM