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Tame the Emotional Eating Beast for Good

3 Ways to Get Back on Track

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The good news is that your Emotional Eating Beast is a pretty dim-witted critter, and you can trick it into going back where it came from without too much effort, if you know how to do it. Here are some tricks that usually work:
  1. Play the Stalling Game. Your Beast has a very short attention span, and if you can manage to stall it for just a few minutes on its way to the kitchen, it will often forget why it woke up in the first place, and happily go back where it came from. So, instead of trying to fight it and tell it that it can’t have what it wants, just tell it to hang on for five minutes and wait until you’re done doing what you’re doing. If necessary, you can usually get away with stalling like this 2-3 times before things start to get ugly, and most of the time, that 10-15 minutes will be plenty long enough for your Beast to forget the whole business and go back to sleep.
     
  2. Play the Distraction/Substitution Game. If your Beast doesn’t fall for the Stalling Game, you can still use your superior mental capacities to keep the upper hand. The key here is to keep in mind that what your Beast really wants isn’t food, but emotional comfort. If you can find ways to comfort yourself that don’t involve food, the need to eat will go away very quickly. Find something you enjoy doing that’s simple and easy to do right away. Listen to soothing or inspirational music, take a hot bath or a nice walk around the block, logon to SparkPeople, grab the phone and chat with a friend, or do some inspirational reading—you get the idea. Think of the Beast as a young child who just woke up from a nightmare, and of yourself as the parent looking for a way to help your child calm down and realize that it was all just a bad dream.
     
  3. Play the Good Beast/ Bad Beast Game. Even though the Beast may seem powerful and overwhelming, it is just as afraid of you as you are of it. It knows full well that you can and, someday, probably will just tell it to go take a hike, and that will be the end of the game. To postpone this unhappy day for as along as possible, the Beast is always willing to negotiate with you if you can muster up enough nerve to stare it in the eye and demand some sort of compromise you can live with. If you keep your kitchen stocked with healthy snacks that won’t kill your diet and your self-respect, and you let the Beast get its hands on them, then you can both stay relatively happy—until that day when you’re ready to finally toss the Beast out and change the locks.
Once you have the immediate situation under control, you can start working on ways to prevent this problem from happening in the first place, by learning how to handle stress and powerful feelings without relying on food. There are lots of articles in the Resource Center on stress management and handling negative thinking. In addition, you’ll find some helpful ideas in these articles:

1 Step Back, 2 Steps Forward
What Is Normal Eating - Part 3
An Exercise in Self-Esteem

This article is Step 4 in SparkPeople's Mind Over Body series, a 10-step program to ending emotional eating and creating a permanent healthy lifestyle. View the full series here or continue to the next step.
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Dean Anderson Dean Anderson
Dean Anderson has master's degrees in human services (behavioral psychology/stress management) and liberal studies. His interest in healthy living began at the age of 50 when he confronted his own morbid obesity and health issues. He joined SparkPeople and lost 150 pounds and regained his health. Dean has earned a personal training certification from ACE and received training as a lifestyle and weight management consultant. See all of Dean's articles.

Member Comments

  • The first time I read this article, I liked it and gave the strategies a try. They worked...up to a point. After reading it a second time, I realized that the tips are a starting point, but will not solve the emotion eating problem for good, because they work against the "Beast" and not with it. The "Beast" is trying to communicate its wisdom. There is much to learn from the "Beast" if we will only listen. I wrote a blog post expressing my insights: http://www.sparkp
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    ual.asp?blog_id=6062344 - 5/21/2016 7:34:35 AM
  • I did this twenty years ago when I stopped smoking and it worked. Never thought to do it to stop the munchies! - 5/14/2016 3:16:34 AM
  • Good points, but they all go out the window when you're waiting on the results of a biopsy that will tell whether you have cancer or not. You'll do anything, and I mean anything, to alleviate the stress. - 5/13/2016 11:44:37 AM
  • terrific metaphor. you really nailed what it feels like. - 5/13/2016 10:45:20 AM
  • I'll be honest. The photo in this article made me crave glazed donuts. - 4/7/2016 10:46:45 AM
  • I find that eating high fiber food and eating healthy snacks, not waiting too long between eating, helps me. If I don't feel starving all of a sudden, I make better choices. Planning dinner ahead of time and having everything ready at a reasonable time makes a big difference to me, too. - 1/5/2016 10:50:38 PM
  • That was the best description I've ever read of what I feel like when I start to binge eat. Just knowing I'm not the only one who experiences this was very comforting. - 1/5/2016 7:37:52 PM
  • JUDYITHE
    Thanks for a great article that gave me a lot to think about and some coping mechanisms that I am going to use. - 1/5/2016 4:30:29 PM
  • I loved the article it really helps me understands in a better way . The beast has been out for a long time and now it is time to put it back in the cage . It's been a struggle for me but I am taking one day at a time. - 1/5/2016 1:45:53 PM
  • This is a great way to explain it. I do have a beast - I now need to recognize and IGNORE her. One step at a time. - 1/5/2016 11:13:02 AM
  • Good article. I like calling it "the Beast". I've gone as far as naming my "Beast" and sometimes talking back to her - when I'm alone. ;) - 1/5/2016 8:32:42 AM
  • Another approach would be to eliminate all wheat from your diet, and I mean ALL of it, including hidden sources, for 2 weeks. You will guaranteed have reduced cravings for carbs. Modern wheat contains opiates that cause you to crave more of it. - 12/30/2015 11:31:10 AM
  • This is the spot-on system I will use forever. When I first started on this lighten up path, I figured out most of the steps, but since I succeeded 3/4 of the way & started back sliding, I forgot them. You've given me fuel to again travel onward & liter. A million thanks. - 3/22/2015 3:42:34 PM
  • SEENA13
    Great Article - 3/1/2015 10:32:16 PM
  • I hope this article is going to stick with me - maybe thinking of my bouts with cravings as the "beast" - something to talk to and challenge - will be helpful. My problem is that of getting "a taste in my mouth for something", not really knowing what and eating some of everything trying to satisfy it. Thanks for a really good article. - 3/1/2015 12:30:41 PM

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