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Take Action Against Emotional Eating

Regain Control With Exercise

-- By Zach Van Hart, Staff Writer
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HEADLINE: Emotional Eating is a Problem

Your reaction: Tell me something I don’t know…

By now, you likely know what emotional eating is. You probably realize that emotions cause 75% of overeating. You're an expert on how to discover times and triggers of high emotions. What you’re waiting on are alternatives. Enter exercise.

Exercise is a great emotional outlet because it provides remedies for many of the emotions that trigger eating. Plus it’s a healthy alternative.

You’re in control
Different feelings can cause emotional spells. Loss of control is one. Maybe you’re going through a difficult break-up. Your company is downsizing. A family member is ill. You can go all day feeling like you’re losing control – until the moment you open the fridge. Now, the control is back.

Exercise can remedy this even better, providing the same in-control feelings that food does. You can decide which exercises you do, where you exercise and for how long, and the list goes on. Work out in the living room, or at the park. Break a quick sweat in 15 minutes, or walk for an hour. Unlike other areas in your life, this choice is yours.

Reverse the unhealthy trend
Hopelessness is another cause of emotional eating. You may feel unhealthy, overweight, and that you can’t do anything about it. So you turn to comfort foods, typically unhealthy ones, and simply add to the problem. Exercise is another way to deal with your emotions and to regain hope, only it’s a healthy version. All exercise holds some healthy benefits; there’s no exercise that will make you unhealthier.

Rely on others
What does food provide when you’re emotional? For most, it’s comfort. Why not turn to a friend or family member instead for that comfort? If you’re worried they won’t have time for you, that’s where fitness comes into play. Exercising with a fitness buddy or a group when stress and emotions hit benefits everyone. You are able to share your time and your feelings with someone you trust. Perhaps they have some great advice for you, or you may think of a better way to handle the issue just by saying it out-loud.

Plus, with this strategy, everyone receives the benefits of working out. It’s a win-win situation for you and your fitness buddy!

Comfort exercises
When emotions hit, some of us open the fridge and find our favorite foods to console us. Think about some exercises that you find comforting instead.  "Comfort exercises" are your favorites, the ones you always enjoy. They should be activities you look at as FUN, not as work.

You can have a different comfort exercise for each season (running in the winter, yard work in the summer) or for different times of day (push-ups in the morning, stretching in the evening). You can have several comfort exercises, or just one. Discover what exercises you truly enjoy, ones you look forward to, and lean on them when your emotions strike.

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Zach Van Hart Zach Van Hart
Zach is a journalist who regularly covers health and exercise topics.

Member Comments

  • the problem that i come up against is this: i know that exercising will have the same effect as eating, but going to the kitchen doesn't take as long. i'm a med school student, so i don't necessarily have time to change into gym clothes, go downstairs, and do a 20 minute workout every time i'm stressed out or frustrated (happens often)... - 4/3/2013 9:31:49 AM
  • My problem is that I don't have money to go to the gym, swimming, yoga or dancing classes (not even for one only) I do my exercises with the videos provided by sparkpeople and with fitness evolved, dance central - xbox. I can't share my problems (that are many for almost 3 years) with my family that is in another country and I don't have "friends" to share with either. Some days its only a hopeless felling that all I can think it's give up and just don't think anymore and go on automatic. Today specially was a really hard begging but here we go again and keep going the way I can. - 11/3/2012 12:01:38 PM
  • WELDEDLIFE, you should see a vertical bar to the left of the article. The third button up from the bottom of the list is "save".

    I like this article and I think it is useful and true information. However, I need some tips for dealing with stress and emotions during periods when I don't have time to exercise. I am going through a period like that right now and it is extremely difficult because exercise is my stress reliever and when the days are so packed that I can't fit it in, my stress level gets out of control. - 10/2/2012 3:49:58 PM
  • Is there a way to favorite articles on spark for our accounts. This is one I want to keep and reread. - 10/2/2012 12:21:00 PM
  • Boy, this could have been written after an interview wtih me. Thanks for posting it and for the ideas especially about the exercise being another form of control...and a LOT healthier and more productive than mindless eating! - 9/29/2012 4:39:03 PM
  • Great article. I especially liked the idea of the comfort exercises/activit
    ies. - 9/29/2012 1:16:21 PM
  • CARRIEPIN
    Great article! I have slowly come to love exercise (I used to HATE it) because I've found exercises that are enjoyable to me. For me those are yoga, pilates, dancing and kettlebells. Last year I had lost 50 lbs when all of a sudden my husband lost his job and it was a very stressful time. I just gave up. Stopped exercising and began eating too much. I knew I was undoing all my hard work but just didn't have it in me to keep going. I'm back on track now but am prepared this time in case another very stressful life event happens. Yoga is my favorite "comfort" exercise. It feels so good to stretch and feel strong and balanced at the same time. Thanks for putting this into perspective! - 9/29/2012 10:20:29 AM
  • I am so thankful for this article.This is my biggest problem I have gained the 10lbs i have lost nthe last two weeks. I did it today. had a bad day cried into my snickers....liter
    ally. - 9/29/2012 6:00:37 AM
  • I never considered exercise to deal with emotions...makes sense - 9/23/2012 9:55:17 PM
  • I appreciated this article because I am an emotional eater also. I like the part about exercising to stay in control instead of turning to food. I have been doing that for years now & it does work. I will find myself reaching for the candy jar when I get under stressful & emotional situations. I have had to train myself to go for a long walk or run instead. By the time I get back I no longer think about eating to calm myself. It has taken a long time to cultivate the habit of exercising instead of reaching for food, but it has been well worth it. - 9/23/2012 7:46:22 PM
  • I noted the article said that comfort foods are bad, there are some healthy comfort foods (especially in moderation) - I think its when we make bad choices that that compounds the problem. - 9/23/2012 1:54:19 PM
  • Right now we are doing some remodeling in my house it has been going on 6months everything is just piled up. It drives me crazy, that I can't put stuff up and have my house in order. I feel out of control. So I think after reading this article , when I feel like a caged rat I will go for a walk to clear my mind and fit up spirits instead of eating. Thanks - 9/23/2012 11:39:06 AM
  • I am practicing acceptance and forgiving myself when I slip. Every day I get mentally stronger, and the hold carbs have had on me is losing its grip. - 9/23/2012 9:17:23 AM
  • I did actually find a way to conquer my own emotional eating. I found that most emotional eating and food addiction comes from trying to reduce anxiety or sadness, or fill ourselves up because we missed out on love and affection as a child (at least in the form we needed it). I was an emotional eater for much of my adult life. I tried every diet you could name. Weight Watchers, Lindora, South Beach, Atkins, HCG. And guess what? I lost weight every time. Usually between 30 and 50 lbs. But then I stopped dieting, and gained it ALL back. It was very frustrating! When I wasn't dieting I was constantly craving pasta, cheese, or anything crunchy. I wasn't so much a sweets gal. But I would come home at night after work and make several helpings of spaghetti or fettuccine alfredo and plop down in front of the TV. I finally figured out that I was eating to reduce some kind of subconscious tension, anxiety and a general unhappiness with my life. Then I decided to take a look at my life in great detail, and use emotional freedom techniques to rid myself of my emotional eating. I methodically examined all my memories from childhood to present and released any negative emotions I was harboring. The end result is I'm emotionally free for the first time in my life, and I'm very happy. I've lost 30 lbs and am still losing. I no longer crave high carb foods and look forward to eating salads and fresh fruits and veggies for my meals. I would encourage anyone struggling with emotional eating or food addiction to investigate EFT. I've also shared my journey, as well as all the exact techniques and exercises I used to get over my emotional eating in my book, ThinStead. If my story resonates with you, and you want to get over your emotional eating too, ThinStead is available on Amazon. If you can beat your emotional eating, you won't have to diet anymore, because you'll automatically be making healthier food choices every day. Doing the emotional work seriously gave me back my life. I feel freer and happier now than I ever have. It's been such a miracle in my ... - 8/16/2012 1:40:16 PM
  • SANDIBETTS1
    emotional eating is an issue for me almost every day - 7/12/2012 9:08:34 AM