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The Power of Gratitude

4 Ways to Develop an Attitude of Gratitude

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Here are some ways to start practicing gratitude to improve your well-being:
  1. Keep a gratitude journal. At the end of each day, write down 3-5 things from the day you feel grateful for. Simplicity is key. Your baby’s smile, a perfect sunset, the train arriving on time, or your best friend’s laughter. Relish the feeling you get when remembering and writing it down.
  2. Express your gratitude. Take the time to share your feelings. Not the simple, polite thank you, but the heartfelt emotions. Tell your friend how her support and sense of humor helps you get through tough times, and how much it means to you. Don’t take your loved ones for granted. Let them know how much you love them and why.
  3. Look for what is right about a situation, not what’s wrong. Sure you’re frustrated by the bus being late, but thankfully you have an understanding boss. Service at the restaurant is poor, but you are lucky to afford an evening out surrounded by good friends.
  4. Practice gratitude with your family and friends. Although you may not say grace before a meal, encourage each family member to report one thing that happened that day that they feel grateful for. When you hear a friend moaning and complaining, challenge him or her to find the hidden opportunity or silver lining to the situation.
The other night, lying in bed reviewing all this information, I reminded myself that when I took the aforementioned Survey of Character Strengths, gratitude was one of my strongest characteristics. So I put that strength to use and began to count the day’s blessings. I remembered that although the email technology drove me crazy that day, it also allowed me to connect by text message. How lucky I am to live in a time where communication is so easy. And although things weren’t off to a good start, my daughter has a job despite a difficult economy. Sure enough the next morning, her supervisor called with apologies for the delay and off to work she went. I remembered that when I felt at my wits end, my best friend readily met me for coffee, made me laugh and reminded me that although frustrating, life is good!

For today, the warm breeze, my outdoor office, and the singing of the birds in the trees all fill my heart with gratitude and joy! What are you grateful for today?

Ben-Shahar, Tal. 2007. Happier. New York: McGraw Hill

Emmons, R.A., and McCullough, M.E. (2003). Counting blessings versus burdens: An experimental investigation of gratitude and subjective well-being in daily life. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 84: 377-89.

Fredrickson, Barbara L. 2009 Positivity. New York: Crown Publishers

Lyubomirsky, Sonja. 2007. The How of Happiness. New York: Penguin Books

Seligman, Martin. 2002. Authentic Happiness. New York: Free Press
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Member Comments

  • Love this article! - 5/18/2016 9:36:52 PM
  • I think one thing we often overlook is expressing gratitude to the people who provides various services in our lives. Yes, they are getting paid to do so, but it is also nice to be appreciated. My family and I rely on city buses, and I taught my kids to always thank the driver. Now we've taught the grandchildren. We always greet the drivers, too. In a large city, many folks just board and disembark silently. Regardless of what others do, I want to express gratitude! - 5/3/2016 9:19:04 AM
  • Thank you for reminding us how important it is to be thankful. - 4/7/2016 7:35:27 AM
  • I' m so grateful I can enjoy the simple things in life and their are many. - 1/8/2016 7:17:52 AM
  • I am thankful for many things and feel grateful every time I go to an exercise class and know that I can do this! - 11/28/2015 12:13:19 PM
  • And to think, while psychologists are just now 'discovering' the value of this, God knew it before He even created our world 6,000 or so years ago. I think that is probably why He said, "In everything give thanks for this is the will of God for you in Christ Jesus"...Do you think maybe because He loved us so, and knew our makeup (since he formed us in our mother's womb) that He would try to help us out by warning us against what would cause us harm? I for one am so grateful for the person who helped me get to know this wonderful, loving, caring, comforting God by teaching me to read the Bible starting with the book of John, so I could know Him who is the Author of Hope. I wish I could say I was always grateful. Though growing up in the most free country in the world, being given an incredible education which allowed me to become a medical Doctor, eating and breathing the air God so graciously gives to us each and every day along with sunrise and sunsets to boot, I still accused Him of being responsible for all the evils that are in the world today. Now that I know the truth, I am grateful beyond words for the goodness and faithfulness of the One who opened my blind eyes and ungrateful heart. It is so true that the 'heavens declare the glory of God, the earth His handiwork'. We simply need to look up to see something to be thankful for each and every day. His Name shall be called Wonderful Counselor, the Mighty God, the Prince of Peace, the everlasting Father. - 10/23/2015 9:06:56 PM
  • Gratitude IS the BEST attitude! - 10/23/2015 6:24:24 PM
  • This is an article I will come back to and re-read. Plan to incorporate some of the ideas. Thank you! - 10/21/2015 7:33:32 AM
  • You've got to accent the positive, eliminate the negative, and don't mess with Mr. In-between had been preached from sermons since before the song was written in 1944; I have a hard time understanding why the concept hasn't caught on yet.
    I am grateful for having been born into a loving family, for always having a roof over my head (except when camping outdoors), and for living in a country with more assets than we'll ever need,
    8-) - 10/17/2015 3:46:02 PM
  • Many years ago when I was going through a tough spot and really down, my dad said something that has stuck with me since . . . . "Count Your Blessings" . . .

    It seems to transport my mind away from the thing that's got me down, and puts me back on track . . . so many blessings! - 9/18/2015 1:26:40 PM
  • I like to give thanks to Him everyday and for sending His Son to be our Savior. - 8/11/2015 10:03:05 PM
  • I thank my Heavenly Father all throughout the day and if I feel distressed or wake up in the middle of the night especially if I am distressed. I say thank you over and over again, so that the bad thoughts will not overtake me as they are attempting to enter my psyche. Works like a charm because sooner or later I'm back asleep, wake up refreshed all to thank Him all over again for another nights rest and with expectation for a greater day than the one before.. - 8/11/2015 10:54:47 AM
  • Wonderfull article this is!! Beautifull comments here. Thankfull people at Sparkpeople just make my day. I feel exactly the same way by the way, I count my blessings nowadays!! Thank you Jah, for everyday I can experience all of this awesomeness. - 8/10/2015 6:30:09 PM
  • Personally, I'm convinced that we were created to be grateful people. When I read the passages of Philippians chapter 4, for instance, the importance of exposing ourselves to God in all things through prayer is underlined by Paul telling us to do so with all thanksgiving. Indeed, thinking about and attending to everything that is good, acceptable and perfect is included into the concept.

    Or, as was pointed out in The Illuminati Papers [not a Christian publication, for those interested], here is a quick intelligence test: If your world is getting bigger and funnier, your intelligence is steadily increasing. If your world is getting smaller and nastier, your stupidity is steadily increasing.

    I'm grateful for being at SparkPeople, and to be a part of getting help and assisting others as I can. - 4/30/2015 5:59:43 PM
  • I am grateful for everyday with family and friend and everyday that I feel able to move my body and eat healthy. - 4/30/2015 4:10:02 PM

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