How do you feel after an argument? Upset, worked up, unpleasant are probably a few adjectives that best describe your feelings. The funny part is, most arguments probably start over something tiny, like who left the can opener out. The point being, disagreements usually do not end pleasantly. However, thatís the whole point of coming to a compromise; so both parties walk away with some kind of satisfaction. Sometimes you may come up on the short end of the compromise, but thatís just how it goes. But even that beats the alternative, because no one likes arguments or how you feel afterwards.