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People Who Lose the Weight Have These Core Beliefs

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I'm sure you have heard people say, "Losing weight is easy. Keeping it off is the hard part."
 
Well, I disagree with this statement. I think losing weight is hard, but keeping it off is even harder!
 
Permanent weight loss requires a lot of change.  And for most, change is difficult.  You have to change what and how much you eat. You have to change your activity and exercise habits. You might have to change your sleeping habits, daily schedule and shopping habits. That's a lot of change!
 
However, the most important changes you can make aren't about what you do, but rather how you think.  If you don't change your mindset, there's an awfully good chance you won't change your body—and certainly not for the long term.
 
People who have reached weight-loss goals and kept off the pounds often experience mindset shifts. They think differently than they did before. Here are some common attitudes and beliefs that show up time and time again when talking with successful "losers."  If you were to interview them, this is what you would hear.
 
1.   I believe that I can do it. I am responsible for—and in control of—my destiny, and I am fully committed to getting there. I have a clear vision of how I want to live my life: healthy, vibrant, thin and active. I strongly believe in the possibility and the permanence of that vision, and I am confident that I am capable of achieving it. Exercise and eating healthy aren't things I do when it's convenient; they are what I have decided to do no matter what. I recognize my results are dependent on my own actions—not other people's or outside circumstances.
 
2.   I am proactive rather than reactive. I think in advance about how I will eat and exercise during for upcoming day. If I know I need to go to the gym straight from work, I make sure my gym bag is packed and in my car. When I'm going to have a hectic day at work, I pack a healthy lunch from home. I look at restaurant menus online before getting there so I know the best choices beforehand, and that's what I order. I take time at the beginning of each week to plan my meals, figure out when I can get to the grocery store and schedule my exercise.  And I always have a Plan B so I can stay on track in case something unexpected happens. 
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Ellen Goldman Ellen Goldman
Ellen Goldman has bachelor's and master's degrees in health and physical education. An AFAA-certified personal trainer and certified wellness coach, she is also the founder EnerG Coaching, LLC. Through one-on-one and group sessions, Ellen helps individuals make positive lifestyle changes, lose weight, manage stress and attain work-life balance. Visit her at www.EnerGcoaching.com.

Member Comments

  • This is one of the BEST articles I have read on SP !!! It is exactly what I have come to live by since my journey started back in 2010 and decided I needed to change the way I think. The mindset is definitely the ONLY way to make permanent changes work !!! No matter what the change is !!! - 10/4/2014 10:15:02 AM
  • Great article and came at perfect timr...I was starting to lose my focus!! Thank you
    - 10/4/2014 9:09:29 AM
  • Thank you! I really needed this as I've been losing the mindset to keep going. I realize I need to be more self compassionate and see myself at my goal to get there. Thanks for the reminder! - 8/23/2014 7:14:29 AM
  • Great read, but I agree with a few others about the thin word being used. Thin does not necessarily mean healthy. But this was a great article! - 8/8/2014 2:10:01 PM
  • I think this is one of the BEST articles on SP because you definitely have to change your mindset in order to change your habits.

    Well said !!! - 6/21/2014 9:10:11 AM
  • The word "thin" is only used three times in this article and it is always used with other words like "healthy" or "active". She never implies that you have to be skinny but a healthy fit person will be thin, not skinny, not emaciated, but showing some muscle tone, able to move and be active, at a healthy weight, and feeling good about themselves physically.
    She isn't talking about Hollywood thin. She's talking about healthy thin. - 6/21/2014 7:54:05 AM
  • MADMSKI
    I am a little offended by the term "thin" being used several times in this article. I am not just trying to downsize but I am trying to get healthy. THIN DOES NOT MEAN HEALTHY!!!
    And if we mentally picture what thin means in society standards we are all in trouble. - 6/10/2014 3:14:23 PM
  • SHARIEANNE
    The other thing I do to keep motivated is to wear fitted clothes (pants with a button/zipper vs elastic) to keep track of how things fit. - 5/26/2014 11:55:55 AM
  • SHARIEANNE
    The other thing I do to keep motivated is to wear fitted clothes (pants with a button/zipper vs elastic) to keep track of how things fit. - 5/26/2014 11:55:46 AM
  • Really liked your article. It's like a long affirmation to me.
    Thank you - 5/19/2014 10:28:45 PM
  • Thanks for sharing! I really needed this article today. - 5/19/2014 2:26:54 PM
  • I agree with most of this...except #1. While for some people, belief that you can do it is key, for me, as a addict and a compulsive overeater, it is very important for me to keep in mind that I CAN'T do it on my own. I have plenty of data to back this up, for me, believe me! If I try to keep from eating compulsively out of my own willpower, inevitably I will have a lapse that will lead to a full-blown relapse. It's counter-intuitive
    , but keeping in mind the fact that I am an addict and need help in order to stay healthy is what keeps me sane. The commonality is that I BELIEVE in something, it's just not my own will power. Instead, I believe that a power greater than myself can restore me to sanity when it comes to food. - 4/24/2014 9:46:26 AM
  • RWEINZATL1
    WOW. Excellent article. I am 31 years old and I know that I need to change my lifestyle. I am afraid that if I don't my life span will be shortened. I need to read this article everyday. Thank you so much. - 4/18/2014 8:52:49 AM
  • It has taken me awhile to realize that thoughts become actions and actions can become good habits. I now buy whole wheat bread, bagels, and sandwich thins. I am eating more fruits and vegetables. I am using my SPAT to keep moving, even though I have to do chair exercises instead of just taking a walk or a run. These new habits which are making a difference in my life. New lifestyle changes, like getting more sleep has helped as well as dealing with the stress in my life. I feel better. I see NSVs. And best of all is that I think I am beginning to lose some weight. - 4/10/2014 3:07:38 PM
  • Ok. I have done that and lost weight. And done that again and lost weight. A change in self esteem always happens when I succeed. Empowering. I get complimented, etc. Most important, I feel good. Healthier. Feel accomplished, etc. And then for whatever reason, I take one cheat and all those months go down the drain. Why? How can I stay the course and lose the weight . Finish line advice. ? - 4/10/2014 9:14:42 AM

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