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7 Things that Separate Weight-Loss Winners & Losers

How You Could Stay on Top of Your Game

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As you've probably figured out, winning at weight loss is about making long-lasting, life-altering change. Just like any sport or skill, you might start out a little rocky. Choosing healthy foods, trying different workouts, and finding the strategies that work for you will take a little practice.  As you find your stride, those habits will get easier and you'll start knocking down more barriers that try to get in your way. Your momentum will start to build and you'll be ticking away at your weight loss goals one by one. Soon enough, you'll reach a fantastic tipping point when you feel a shift in the energy and really enter "the zone"—the stadium starts to flutter, the crowd starts to cheer! And you are winning at weight loss!
Whether you’re focusing on your diet or hitting the gym, the commitment to long-term weight loss takes the mindset and mental stamina of a champion. You’ve got to have a supportive team and a great playbook to get on a winning streak. In this head-to-head match that lasts a lifetime, it’s all about preparation. Your success will be determined by how well you set your strategy and play the game.
We're opening the playbook on the weight-loss game. Here are the winning strategies you'll need!
Winners Set Small Goals
It seems so straightforward: Your main goal is to lose weight. So, now you can just decide how much to lose and power through to the finish line, right? Unfortunately, simply knowing how many pounds you want to drop may not be enough to help you win this game. Rather than only focusing on the end zone, a better strategy is to set lots of small milestones on your weight-loss journey. Perhaps you want to run a 5K, curl 20-pound dumbbells, squeeze more veggies into your diet, or fit into a smaller pair of jeans. All of these are great goals and tackling each one can keep you motivated to keep fighting the good fight. Plus, meeting these smaller benchmarks gives you the opportunity for more frequent pats on the back. If you only focus weight loss as your main achievement, you’ll miss out on celebrating all of the other small victories!
Winners Take Breaks and Timeouts
When you first set out to shed pounds, it is easy to overdo it. We all know that the best way to lose weight is by eating fewer calories and increasing physical activity. But, if you set too many harsh rules and regulations at the start, you’re likely to get overwhelmed by a too-strict diet and a tough-to-follow workout schedule. When you’re developing your weight-loss game plan, make sure that you pencil in time for breaks. Take a diet timeout to enjoy a slice of cake at friend’s birthday party. Schedule a relaxing soak in the tub on your day off from the gym. Be sure that your weight-loss rules include moderation and flexibility for you to spend some time (and calories) on the things you love in life. This will help you stay on track longer and reach lasting weight-loss success.
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About The Author

Megan Coatley Megan Coatley
Megan is a Board Certified Behavior Analyst (BCBA) with a masterís degree in applied behavior analysis from Western Michigan University. As a health and wellness coach, she combines her passion for nutrition and fitness with her professional talents to help others creative positive, lasting change and live healthier lives.

Member Comments

  • I love excercising. I've tried Tabata this year and have done HIIT 3x this year. When my ankle heals up I'm going to sign up for more HIIT classes. Even though I lose weight super slow, I still enjoy excercising. My main reason for excercising is to loose weight and its frustrating to see my weight stagnant. But I wont stop having fun and I won't give up. - 5/9/2016 9:36:00 PM
    Very good article. I have been "watching" my wt since I was a teenager, and have always tried to be healthy while losing. It has taken me a very long time to learn all of what was in this article. The most important thing I have learned is persistence. Never give up! - 3/30/2016 7:12:53 AM
  • KJAZZ185
    I think it is important to build in breaks. That's the best part of this article. So many people who struggle with weight deal with the "all or nothing" mentality. If you don't give yourself "permission" to let go once in a while, it can turn into a downward spiral. If you maintain some of your program for the day - say keep your workout schedule, but then go out with the family and eat what you want that night, it help to keep you grounded (vs. just leaving it all behind for a day or two).
    Thanks for this article. - 8/19/2015 9:06:51 PM
  • I think that the focus on the team part in the comments is misunderstanding it a bit.

    I've lost a considerable amount of weight, and have started getting muscle definition for the first time. I have friends, family, and co-workers who are now talking to me about what I've done and how I've done it. We compare notes and discuss what's been hard and how to overcome those difficulties. And I feel more motivated to keep going on the right path so that I don't let them down. I think this is more what is meant. - 8/12/2015 12:14:31 PM
  • Sorry, but weight loss is not a sport. There is no room for competition in weight loss - some people lose quicker than others. The goal is not to be the fast loser, but the person who hangs in there and loses for the long term, learns how to eat and exercise for better health. The person who is losing 1/2 pound every 2 weeks can become frustrated and give up if they are constantly compared to someone who is losing faster. That is not healthy.

    Reality is not "The Biggest Loser." No one should be shamed if they let their "team" down.

    Whatever happened to personal accountability? I can be just as successful, even more so, when I focus on my needs, rather than my contribution to the team's success. - 8/11/2015 3:48:57 PM
  • Like others, I'm not big on the "team" one. I am perfectly happy to keep my fitness and weight private, thank you! The last thing I want is anyone comparing and judging me!

    However, I wholeheartedly agree with taking timeouts/breaks. So many articles and advice on this website stresses how to keep going even when you're not in the mood, but the truth, for me, is that when I try to struggle through it, I end up quitting for long periods of time. However, if I take a day to just relax & eat how I wanna eat, I am usually back on track by the next day. - 8/11/2015 11:29:21 AM
    I do fine all day but when at work and when I first get home. I have fibromyalgia, restless legs and muscle spasms, so I am up alot at night in pain and I graze all night long. I t has cost me gaining over 70 lbs and I am trying to get back on track. I just don't know what to do I have to get control. I had lost 154 lbs and slowly am gaining it all back. I have depression anyway and this does not help. - 1/23/2015 8:46:39 AM
  • A few comments disagree with the need for a "team" Maybe I don't need a competitive team, but having a supportive, encouraging team sure helps. I was able to take off the weight while being a "spark hermit" using the resources and never interacting with anyone. But I don't think I could have maintained for nearly 5 years without this community. There are so many yo-yo stories out there, each very individual. I want to learn from them and stay exactly where I am. - 9/27/2014 3:08:05 PM
  • Nothing is a fit all,for me I find myself slipping if I do not meet with my
    TOPS group and weigh in. Accountability is important for the long haul on my journey.
    Self discipline is one of my always projects. - 9/26/2014 11:52:56 AM
  • Seems like a restating of what is often stated. I disagree with the comment that you need a team to loose weight. Huh? I didn't need a team to gain weight. I understand that it is great to connect and have support but a team is not mandatory. - 9/26/2014 9:18:53 AM
  • Recording keeps you focused not only on where you've been, but also where you're going! - 8/1/2014 8:18:36 AM
    Thank you so much - 7/31/2014 8:01:10 AM
  • Thank you so much for these very helpful tips. I think the hardest thing for me is sticking with it for the long haul. I know I CAN and WILL lose all the excess weight, but I just get so depressed thinking about how far I have to go. I think when I truly accept the fact that it will take time, and that I am enjoying all the things I'm learning and overcoming along the way, I will be much more successful in my journey and happier with myself. - 6/5/2014 3:11:28 PM
  • Thanks for sharing. - 11/21/2013 6:11:47 AM
  • I agree with most of this article, except for the "team" aspect. I have no competitive spirit, I don't like comparing myself (successes or failures) with other people. I prefer to exercise alone rather than with friends. Yet, I am consistent in my eating choices, I swim 6 days a week, and also do other exercises. I consider myself a success.

    Successful weight loss does NOT have to be a team activity. If you're a private person, or just don't like to share, you are NOT a failure if you don't buy into the team aspect of weight loss. Some of us just like to march to a different drummer. - 11/16/2013 11:27:59 AM

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