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Break Free from the Scale!

How to Stop the Scale from Determining Your Self-Worth

How many times have you stepped on the scale, full of hopeful anticipation, only to be disappointed by the number staring back at you? Suddenly, that great feeling of accomplishment you had vanishes and you tell yourself that, again, you failed. No matter how hard you try, you can't lose weight. Sound familiar?

For so many of us who are trying to lose or manage our weight, the scale is our main tool for measuring our progress;  unfortunately, we often allow it to measure our self-worth, too.

While the scale can be a good way to measure progress, it shouldn't be your only indicator of health and change. In fact, using it as your only form of measurement can result in obsession, negative thinking and a possible decrease in your motivation level.

For people who weigh themselves daily (or even multiple times a day), the idea of giving up the scale can be scary. But I guarantee that once you do it, you'll be happier, have a more accurate self-image and better relationship with your body. If cutting yourself off from the scale cold-turkey is a scary—or downright impossible—proposal, follow this five-step plan to go from scale-obsessed to scale-free in just one month!

How to Ditch the Scale in 30 Days
1. Store the scale out of sight. Most of us keep our scale in the bathroom, and it's one of the first things we see in the morning. In fact, I bet before you're probably even fully awake, you hop on it to see if you dropped weight overnight. The first step in breaking free from the number on the scale is to put the scale away; out of sight, out of mind. Whether it goes under the bed, in a closet or in a drawer, get it out of your everyday sight. When you can't see it, you'll be much less tempted to hop on as frequently.

2. Start your day with a positive ritual. Because you might struggle with breaking the habit of getting up and not weighing yourself—even if the scale is out of sight—the next step is to swap a new behavior for your weigh-in ritual. Instead of stepping on the scale first thing in the morning, give yourself a pick-me-up! Whether it's listening to a high-energy song that gets you going, reading your goals aloud, giving yourself a short pep talk or reciting a quotation that resonates with you, take just a few minutes to get focused and pumped to continue making healthy changes.
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About The Author

Jennipher Walters Jennipher Walters
Jenn is the CEO and co-founder of the healthy living websites, and A certified personal trainer, health coach and group exercise instructor, she also holds an MA in health journalism and is the author of The Fit Bottomed Girls Anti-Diet book (Random House, 2014).

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Member Comments

    hi friend can you please help me by telling me how to inter my weight - 12/29/2015 2:46:36 AM
  • I hid the scales and they did not move. Now I weigh daily and I am doing great. I see little ups and downs but watching I need to see if I have gone up or down. I am happy there is rarely a jump over 1 or 2 pounds and at that point I drink more water, eat more fiber or take along walk with friends. Pat in Maine loves the scale now instead of hiding it. - 12/22/2015 10:27:17 AM
  • Weighing in almost every day is a must for me, to keep it in front of me and remind me that I have a goal. I have enough perspective to understand that a pound in either direction on a given day isn't a trend. All the same, I reward myself for my activity, not my results. - 11/2/2015 5:03:55 PM
  • Thank you for the article. I like the idea of doing something to motivate myself in the morning and in the evening and will try that out.
    I thought the Washington post article posted by RLKarman was interesting too. I tend to obsess over the number on the scale though so weighing daily probably wouldn't be good for me. - 11/2/2015 4:00:44 PM
  • ELICUKI1971
    i try not to weigh myself often but it gets to me not knowing - 11/2/2015 3:37:57 PM
  • Weighing myself every morning keeps me accountable. If the number goes down, great; if the number goes up, o-well. It doesn't define me. It's just a gauge. Instant feedback is a great learning tool, and that's kinda what the scale is. Particularly related to dietary choices. Trying to exercise-off a bad diet is a recipe for disaster. The scale reminds me of that, so I make diet a priority, and workout when I can.
    Having said that, if you're letting the scale give a number to your self-worth, don't even have it in the house. Give it to a spouse/friend to hide or donate it to charity. That is not what the scale is for. It is a weight-loss tool. That's all.
    No matter how heavy (or thin) you are, your value is not a number. - 11/2/2015 12:24:39 PM
  • 452134
    I just cannot measure myself yet. I hate to do that. - 10/4/2015 8:11:05 AM
  • I agree with everyone else, the scale is a necessary tool for reaching goals. I also agree with the author, that we should ALSO celebrate the non-scale victories. That having been said, Day 2 is not a good place to put this one; my day 1 was not a victorious day; I'm hoping tonight I can look myself in the mirror and say, Job Well Done on overcoming snackitis! 8-) - 10/2/2015 12:46:17 PM
  • I agree with Brooklyn Born. Actually, Cornell came out with a study that states you should indeed weigh yourself every day...

    e-weighing-yourself-every-day/ - 9/9/2015 4:39:13 PM
  • The scale is a tool that lets us know what we weigh. If the number that pops up is the sole indicator of how you will feel about yourself that day, then I say bury it in the yard because it has waaaaay too much power. Clearly it has taken me years to kinda/sorta figure out how I lose, and the scale has not truly helped or motivated ME! However, it can be an extremely effective and a powerful tool...fortunatel
    y we each get to decide what we will gain from stepping on our scale. Friend or foe...the power comes in choosing what works for us! - 8/10/2015 8:08:54 AM
  • No thanks. I need an objective measure of where I am and what my weight trend is. If I obsess about anything in life, it's my mind that needs adjustment. Ignoring the scale is how I gained the weight in the first place. - 8/10/2015 6:51:36 AM
  • this is just the advice i need as I have let the scale rule how i feel and what i eat i have been known to move to scale from room to room see what its says. weight today 159 next weight Aug 1 hope this works - 7/15/2015 2:06:47 PM
  • AZ1963
    I m a scale watcher & am still gaining weight. I will hide my scale & wait a month I want it to work. Need a menu of 1200 cal meals. Cant do it by myself - 6/24/2015 3:07:38 PM
  • Nope, I think for me, weighing myself every other day has helped me NOT let the scale creep up more than 5-6 lbs. Because I see them going up, I immed. do something to make it go down again. If I weighed monthly, I'd have a problem because my wt fluctuates so much, I'm small-framed so 5 lbs is a BIG wt gain for me.
    - 5/8/2015 7:12:20 AM
  • I'm with Brooklynborn on this one. Weighing weekly or monthly can freak me out because there are natural fluctuations, and if a spike up happens on 'weigh in day' it could feel horrible. I weigh daily, and find it kind of amusing to see the daily fluctuations. They mean that no day's weight is 'real' since it could go up or down significantly tomorrow... What's 'real' is the trend. So a fluctuating range of 200-203 lbs becomes a range of 198-201, becomes 197-200, becomes 196-199 etc. as long as the trend is in the right direction, I'm okay with it. - 5/8/2015 6:47:13 AM

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