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I was not very athletic in school. All elbows and knees and very little ability, I was usually the last one picked for teams. It was clear to me at a young age that my future lay in books, not basketballs, so I accepted my lack of athletic skills and concentrated on simply getting through gym class without causing my team to lose.

Fast-forward almost thirty years and I realized the pounds that had been steadily creeping up on me weren’t going to disappear on their own. I needed to get serious about my health before I started following in my mother’s footsteps with osteoporosis, high blood pressure and pre-diabetes. It was time to get to the gym.

Even though I knew I had to start working out, it took a few days to psych myself up and actually set foot in the gym. All of the old memories started playing in my head. Would I make a fool of myself? Would people laugh at me? How was I ever going to figure out all of that equipment? Maybe I should forget about the whole thing and resign myself to accepting my body the way it was, instead of putting myself through all this mental torture.

Then I realized that most of the problems I had in gym class all those years ago stemmed from my lack of knowledge. I didn’t remember a teacher ever explaining the rules of baseball and I was too shy to ask, so when the ball came my way I simply ducked because I didn’t know what to do. But now as an adult, I was much more confident and had the power to ask questions. I could do this!

I chose the gym closest to my home so I wouldn’t have an excuse not to go. Since it was within walking distance, I could never bail out of an exercise session because it was too much trouble to get there. So with new cross-trainers in hand and only slightly shaky knees, I signed up for a one-year membership.

My representative immediately put me at ease by giving me a tour of the facility and explaining all the rules and protocol. After showing me how to operate the cardio equipment (treadmill, elliptical, and stationary bikes), she left me on my own to find what I was most comfortable with. I selected the treadmill—I could already walk, so it seemed the natural choice for a beginner. Thirty minutes later I was sweating and happy. Even though I had stumbled a few times before getting into the rhythm of the machine, nobody had laughed at me or even seemed to notice. This gym thing wasn’t so bad after all!

I started going three times a week and noticed the same people there most of the time. This made me feel even more comfortable because even though I didn’t know these people personally, I wasn’t around total strangers anymore. It even got to the point of nodding a hello to the woman on the next treadmill or commenting on something we had both seen on the TV as we worked out. I felt like I was part of a tribe of people who were all trying to reach the same goal—physical fitness.

I made a lot of progress over the next few months but I still felt a little insecure around people in tip-top shape. All it took was a scan around the room to find a whole range of body types and fitness levels and I felt better. I was doing okay.

I ran into an old friend about six months after I started going to the gym and she was impressed by the changes in my body. I was noticeably slimmer and carried myself with more confidence. When she found out that I went to the gym regularly, she shook her head and said she would never be able to do it—she hated the whole idea and wondered how I had managed to become such a fan. It wasn’t hard to give her a list of reasons why I love going to the gym:
  1. Social enrichment. I love being around people who are trying to improve their health. We share the same ideals and values.
     
  2. Year-round exercise. I used to walk outside when the weather was good but stayed in at the slightest sign of rain or snow. Going to the gym meant not being limited by Mother Nature.
     
  3. Expert advice. Personal trainers are always right there to check my form and make suggestions. No more flying blind when trying to use a piece of equipment for the first time. I even had a personalized routine created with regular check-ins every 6-8 weeks.
     
  4. Classes. With a wide variety of group fitness classes available each week, I can choose between any of them and never get bored. For instance, I might go to kickboxing one week and take a step class the next.
     
  5. Nutrition education. My gym often offers sessions with a registered dietitian who gives solid advice on how to eat better.
     
  6. Variety of equipment. A gym offers much more equipment than I could ever afford to buy—and much better quality too.
     
  7. Goal setting. Setting a goal to lift a certain weight and achieving it is a great confidence booster. If I can do this, what other things can I do?
     
  8. Self-acceptance. Seeing people of all shapes and sizes helps you accept your own figure even if you need to lose a few pounds or haven’t exercised in years.
     
  9. Daycare. Many gyms offer affordable, onsite daycare services, so parents of small children can exercise without scrambling to find a babysitter.
     
  10. Fun! As children, we naturally exercise because we see activities such as running or playing volleyball as fun, not work. When you adopt the attitude that a fitness class is fun, you can look forward to exercise instead of seeing it as one more thing on your to-do list.
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A freelance writer, marketing consultant and life coach, Leanne often writes about health and nutrition. See all of Leanne's articles.

Member Comments

  • I really don't like the gym that much. I am not a social person. I find that it is always the sweaty, smelly person who wants to take the treadmill right next to me when there are 20 open ones. And I had to change the time I went because there was this guy there that just irked me to no end and the thought of even seeing him there was getting on my nerves. - 1/5/2013 3:37:58 PM
  • I take a variety of classes at the gym to keep it interesting. The machines (treadmill, bike, elliptical) are there for back-up in case I don't make it to a class I like. This strategy has definitely kept me more interested in going than my previous gym memberships (and I've had quite a few). :) - 9/1/2012 8:48:53 AM
  • Good article! Easy to relate to and authentic. - 7/7/2012 12:58:16 PM
  • I love going to the gym! After going to Spin classes for 2 years I took it to the next level and became a Spin Instructor! I am in my late 40's so initially I was intimidated. I have learned age doesn't define us. I didn't join the gym for socialization but I have discovered it was a nice place to network and talk to people other than those I work with. I am inspired when I see older folks working out. It's exciting to see people transform their lives whatever size they are! - 7/7/2012 10:14:16 AM
  • So motivational!! I just joined a gym this morning and have my first personal training session tomorrow! Wish me luck! - 5/14/2012 4:49:16 PM
  • I never thought I would enjoy going to the gym but once I realized that I needed to take care of myself to avoid illnesses I learned to enjoy the gym. I've made many new friends because it is now a positive instead of a negative. I'm adding years on to my life. - 5/9/2012 3:18:11 AM
  • AVERYSILLYGIRL
    I don't care to join a gym but recently joined a (free!) 5K training program. It's just for women and it's been so encouraging and FUN! I am looking to continue a similar program after the race is done. This is saying a lot since I really don't love running. :) - 3/25/2011 9:28:38 AM
  • I'm thinking about joining the new gym in my neighborhood. I never thought of myself as the gym type, but it's so convenient and affordable, and would really help me with my fitness goals. This article is pushing me towards taking the plunge and joining. - 1/12/2011 3:43:45 PM
  • This is a REALLY well written article! I especially appreciate your ability to voice what so many people "fear" and to bring solutions and celebrate the improvements that come with regular exercise. GREAT JOB and CONGRATULATIONS! - 12/17/2010 12:33:14 AM
  • 1. The gym had mixed results for me.
    2. I felt at home at the gym, but there were a lot of triathlete types and a lot of far younger people with much energy to burn ... made me tired just looking at them.
    3. I found I liked yoga a little too much for a gym environment (can't afford many classes, nor to go to both studio and gym, nor to multiple studios), but it is ironic that I loved the "hands off" approach to yoga adjustments characterized by the gym, and more times than not, miss it. ~~~~~~ Any vinyasa yoga instructors reading this: please don't sneak up on us 'gym rats in disguise. ' If we do a posture not to your liking, we are not committing a crime in a parked car in the darkness, and do NOT appreciate the sneaky "policeman approach" ....
    - 4/8/2010 3:45:48 PM
  • I agree with the reasons given in this article, except for the first one. I have found that most folks are either oblivious or apathetic to others around them in the gy, Most just want to get in, work out, and get out without any interaction with other human beings. - 3/25/2010 4:10:07 PM
  • BAMAJAM
    Indeed there are many benefits to gym membership...howe
    ver, in these difficult economic times, there are many folks who are stretching the dollars to pay rent and utilities. Being dedicated to the rewards of fitness, one can exercise with a neighbor and enjoy friendship! My neighbor and I walk daily (even in rain)...and we keep one another motivated. SO. . .if the expense of a gym is not in your budget, then try to find a buddy for exercise. We all know that good nutrition and exercise are key to good health, so staying committed to this goal makes perfect sense. - 3/25/2010 10:23:23 AM
  • Appreciate your article on loving the gym. I have tried more than once to stay committed to getting in the car and driving to the gym over the years. For me, working out at home, going outside, mixing up my routine, taking a fitness class ever so often works best for my accountability. I am impressed with all of you gym folks! - 2/8/2010 2:40:52 PM
  • I like going to the gym and try to go about 5 -6 days a week but if I don't make it I will try to do an in home exercise tape. Also clening the house helps when one doesn't have the time to get over to the gym. I also like to walk along the river. - 12/30/2009 9:53:39 PM
  • I prefer to do my workouts outside whenever I can, or at home. It's much cheaper and more convenient for me. - 10/7/2009 11:14:16 AM
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