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Strength Training: Good for Muscles, Great for Bones

Lift your way to Stronger Bones

-- By Daphne Stevens, Ph.D., Life Coach
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My doctor frowned last spring as he studied the test results. "You have a little bone thinning," he said. "It's time for you to start some resistance training."

The news didn't surprise me. My grandmother was stooped by the time she was in her fifties. My mother suffers from compression fractures in her back. She always enjoyed being out in the world, and it hurts me to see her housebound now. I definitely have the pedigree for "thinning," as my doctor euphemistically put it.

Yet I defied his advice. "Resistance training? I get resistance from my children, my husband, and now from my parents. How much resistance does one person need before they develop strong bones?" I make lame attempts at humor when my feet are in the stirrups. Besides, I've always exercised regularly. I've jumped around like a spastic marionette, flinging my limbs about and wheezing asthmatically in aerobics classes for the past twenty-five years.

I reconsidered the doctor's advice when, recovering from surgery, I realized how limited I was in upper body strength. And witnessing my mother's anguish - the pain it causes her to get up out of a chair - has left me helpless, wanting both to improve my own health, and to do something in honor of her suffering. Intercession for me often takes the form of exercise - I walk two miles on behalf of a grieving friend, and I swim laps the way other people say Hail Marys. I decided weight training wasn't a bad idea.

Two mornings a week now I meet at the gym with a personal trainer. She challenges me to do things with weight machines and dumbbells that I didn’t think were possible. Miriam is a cheerleader in this bone-building project. "Okay, let me show you the form," she says, jumping easily onto a contraption designed by war criminals. "Let's go for fifteen reps." She leaps off the machine and looks expectantly at me. I hesitate for a half a second. After all, I'm paying this woman to get me in shape. She should know (…shouldn't she?) what is too much and what is just enough? I enjoy the luxury of putting my busy mind on hold and doing what I am told.

I've surprised myself, these past few months. I'm up at dawn, ready to go. Undiscovered muscle groups are announcing their presence. They sing, "We're here!" during the workout and in the pleasant soreness that comes the day after.
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Daphne Stevens, Ph.D. Daphne Stevens, Ph.D.
Daphne is a life coach and author of Watercolor Bedroom: Creating a Soulful Midlife. For more information about her workshops and coaching services, go to www.daphnestevens.com.

Member Comments

  • For the soreness, you don't know how to breathe during exercise and a warm up or cool down that significantly reduces soreness, also helps in lung expansion to impress your doctor. Arms out to the side, while doing a toe rise, lift your arms (angel wing style) up over your head, inhaling on the way up, hold for 15-30 seconds, exhale on the way down (reverse of what you just did). I found I have 1/3 the soreness due to anaerobic reactions when I do this. (I hate his idea of diet, but part of Dr. Stillman's 15 minutes in his 14 day shape up program). And for some of us with the resistance/streng
    th training, the Hail Marys are necessary just to get us through it :) ! But to hear your praise (altho a stubborn lil cuss about what's good for you) is motivating and wonderful. Great article. - 4/10/2013 10:10:34 AM
  • I so loved the last paragraph because that is exactly how I feel, too. At 64 I am seeing many friends who are just a bit older than me succumb to various illnesses and health problems, many of which are secondary to poor nutrition and refusal to exercise. They have reached their "point of no return" where their impairments due to lack of exercise are now their reasons for not exercising. My greatest motivator to exercise is seeing it as a means of thanking God that I still can. Because I know that the day will come when I can't, I rejoice in doing what I still can. - 1/5/2013 12:07:58 PM
  • 50ESMERALDA
    anyone else having trouble with the large sized ads on this article? I have tried to close it and just about everything I can think of but it sits over half the article on two of the pages - 9/5/2012 6:08:28 AM
  • Really nicely written. Thank you. - 8/12/2012 1:49:13 AM
  • I have cardio 6 days a week. Starting in Jan this year I started circuit training,. It's doing a lot of machines one right after the other . Just last month kicked it up with an added weight lifting session. I like to say I am 70 going on 50. - 5/13/2012 1:43:13 AM
  • This article is so about me. I am working hard at my strength training to help prevent ostio........plan
    ks, pushups, bridges are all in my workout. I am thinking swimming but be a good idea too. thanks for the push! - 5/12/2012 11:55:06 AM
  • Love the dialog. I'm expanding my workout and wanted to do some toning resistance training. - 5/12/2012 9:30:18 AM
  • WANNABPRETTY
    interesting article...thank u for posting - 3/25/2012 8:03:15 AM
  • BROCCOLIROSE
    I absolutely LOATH strength training.....I do it but loath it! Thank you for this article...a gentle reminder of why ST is so important.....I can't promise to learn to enjoy it but I will promise to quit loathing it as much! - 2/15/2012 11:55:41 AM
  • Great article! I'm guilty of neglecting strength training, too - cardio I can do all day, every day, but when it comes to push-ups...

    But I'm resolved to work harder at it, because of the history of osteoporosis in my family, and because of the increase in metabolism that comes from developing muscle tissue. Thanks for the reminder! - 1/20/2012 11:15:12 AM
  • Fantasic read - thanks so much for sharing this.

    I have been guilty for too many years of not doing nearly enough strenght training, being a self-confessed cardio junkie.

    At 42 years of age and with both my mum and grand-mum surrefers from osteo-arthritis, I am even more inspired now to up my strength work. Thanks again! - 1/20/2012 11:09:57 AM
  • WONDERFUL article, LOVE it!! Love the idea of praying, of using exercise in an intercessory way... love the way she writes! (Oh, and I love strength training, too!) - 10/19/2011 12:47:47 PM
  • LOTTY711
    Great article. Makes me realize how important this type of exercise is. - 10/10/2011 6:58:28 PM
  • Thank you! Your article has inspired me to get started on a weight training program, as I see it has for many other Sparkers also. - 10/10/2011 12:57:49 PM
  • my first comment an an article in a year and half of sparking. I loved this article and the suggestion to pray for others while doing something I am not fond of. Thanks. - 10/10/2011 11:38:16 AM
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