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How to Feel Less Intimidated in the Weight Room

6 Ways to Kick Gym-timidation to the Curb

-- By Molly Galbraith, Certified Personal Trainer
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Strength training is no longer just for bodybuilders or athletes. Over the last few years, strength training has gained a lot of popularity in the fitness world among both men and women and across all age groups. This is awesome because strength training has immense benefits for anyone who wants to feel better and look better.
What's not awesome, however, is the number of people (especially women) who want to start strength training, but feel intimidated in the weight room.

I get it. Trying something new can be a scary thing, especially in the fitness realm, where many people already feel unsure of themselves. Add to that the strange-looking equipment and grunting and groaning that you typically find in a weight room, and it doesn't exactly equal an appealing environment for a newbie.
But never fear. You, too, can start your journey into the world of strength training with just a few helpful hints. If you've ever felt scared or intimidated to walk into a gym, and more specifically, the weight room of a gym, this advice can help you find your way--and your confidence.

1. Educate yourself and have a plan.
First and foremost, educating yourself about what you should be doing in the gym, and how certain exercises are performed, will go a long way toward helping you feel more comfortable and confident. Luckily for you, there is a ton of good (and free!) information available for people who are interested in learning more about strength training.'s very own Coach Nicole wrote a Reference Guide to Strength Training, and you can also find a ton of information on my website,
Remember, there is no need to re-invent the wheel. There are plenty of great training programs out there that have produced fantastic results. SparkPeople's Workout Generator has detailed exercises (with animated photos and instructions) whether you want to use free weights, weight machines, your own body or some other type of equipment. Simply choose a workout, learn the exercises, follow it for 6-12 weeks and then assess your progress. Keep in mind that if you're new to strength training, bodyweight exercises might be all you need at first to get results. That can be especially comforting if the machines in the gym seem complicated or confusing to you.
It may also be a good idea to hire a qualified trainer for three to five sessions to learn basic movement patterns and get coaching on more complicated exercises you want to learn.
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Molly Galbraith Molly Galbraith
Molly Galbraith is a rapidly rising young trainer who is making a name for herself in the fitness industry. She is a strength coach and co-owner of J&M Strength and Conditioning in Lexington, KY. She is also the co-founder of the wildly popular Girls Gone Strong group, a movement dedicated to changing the way women train. You can learn more about Molly by visiting her website, and you can keep up with her latest adventures on Facebook and Twitter.

Member Comments

  • love the article. the weight room is a place to get healthy. I love lifting weights. I would love to learn the weight machines. I take weight lifting class. Love seeing my muscles growing. - 1/26/2014 9:36:05 PM
    Kudos to all of you ladies!!! I to understand the self conscious factor when using free weights, etc. Albeit a guy, I was not blessed with large arms or leg muscles. I'm a 5'10" average guy but not muscular at all. At age 32, I started back at a gym. I can say that knowing the exercises, their forms, the equipment, really helps a lot. You feel a bit more confident. As I became stronger over 6 months, my muscles became defined and strong but not larger. After a year I was well defined but my arms and legs really were not much larger. At 47 today, I still don't feel apart of the free weight "body guys" at the gym. I'm still self conscious but I keep my head phone on and push through like it's a mission. So ladies even we "tough guys" experience the same feelings as you; so, next time your at the gym and feel awkward, the guy next to you is probably me worrying that my muscles are too small and I look silly!! - 1/21/2014 5:33:47 PM
  • DIANNEMT, check out SP's workout generator, which is easy to find in the search bar. Select your fitness level and the desired type and length of exercise, and select "gym equipment." The result is little images of recommended machines with rep and set numbers. And if you click on the individual exercise names, they'll give you instructions and larger images of the exercise on the machine. The listing of all exercises should be printable for reference at the gym. - 1/12/2014 1:22:02 PM
  • still pretty intimidated if others are around... so avoid the weight room - but need to get over it!
    - 1/12/2014 3:00:46 AM
  • Find out the demographics of the facility you are using. I used to workout at a facility that was on a college campus, working out along side students that are mostly half my age. It was tough not to compare. The students would see me and make fun not realizing I can hear them. - 1/7/2014 9:38:05 PM
  • Here's a request from someone who goes to the gym to get the job done and not mess about: please, for the love of all that is Holy, stop telling gym-phobes to get workout buddies. Never, in all the time I have been a regular gym member, have a seen workout buddies doing much of anything that looks like working out. Mostly they sit on the machines and chat and show each other things on their stupid phones. Did I mention that they hog up the machines???
    If you want to yack with your pals like a pack of old hens, go to Panera and do it over a bagel or something; please don't do it at the gym.
    - 1/7/2014 3:29:05 PM
  • I planned workouts at home and watched videos how to used the machines in the workout properly. - 1/3/2014 12:30:18 PM
  • I love for videos on proper form and ideas for lifting by body part.
    - 1/2/2014 10:00:00 PM
    I asked for an orientation, which I received. Following that, anytime I'm confused about a piece of equipment or technique, I walk up to the on-duty trainer and ask for assistance (while trying to act confident). No one has ever belittled me, and everyone has been helpful and even cheerful about explaining. - 12/31/2013 8:15:25 PM
  • I really wish there was a video (or even better--a written plan) using common pieces of equipment. I'd love to print out something and take that to the gym to use--otherwise, I do wander around and do not know what I should do. And I've been going for a long time--but do classes, not machines. - 12/31/2013 5:00:50 PM
    I'm 62, at goal weight, and I exercise regularly.

    I detest exercise.

    I also recognize that I need to do it :) - 12/31/2013 2:01:23 PM
    I have always felt self conscious about working out around other people. I am 56 and in pretty good shape, but couldn't get past that feeling. A few weeks ago, my husband and I hired a personal trainer (his idea) and we started on our new healthy journey. I will say that it is great working out with him, we encourage and push each other. Our trainer is terrific, she has us doing workouts I never thought we could do, and doing them correctly. But one of the unexpected side effects of doing this is how much my self confidence has improved. I don't dred people seeing me in my workout clothes, or feel that I look silly doing a new move. When I see people of all shapes and sizes, I think, good for them. They are doing something to improve their body and health! I have to believe people are thinking the same about me. We are all there for that reason, not to critique others. I feel empowered! I would encourage others to take the leap, and just do it! You will be glad you did. - 12/31/2013 8:00:06 AM
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