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7/18/15 5:27 P

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Sorry for your loss. The hurt never goes away. Monday marks the 7th anniversary of the day that we found out our little peanut had no heartbeat. We were 11 weeks.

-Nicole

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2/9/15 3:27 P

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KAYTE,

First of all, HUGS to you. I haven't lost a pregnancy, but I can understand cyclic depression associated with the passing of a loved one. My Gran died 2 years ago in December, so Christmas away from home has been difficult since then. My Aunt Liz lost a baby shortly after his full-term birth (irreparable heart defect) when I was really young; my cousin's name was William, too. His loss was definitely hard on the family, but there was a Rainbow Day when my cousin Robert was born several years later. Everyone has a grieving process that is different, and unless someone has experienced the same tragedy, they can't really understand what you're going through.

I will be thinking of you, and hoping for your Rainbow Day to come soon.

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2/9/15 9:53 A

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No one can understand how you feel but you. I am sure your friends just don't know how to support you and help you through this. As March comes, maybe you could plan a remembrance with your husband, something special that can honor your little one and the joy that you felt for him... that might be too hard, but plan something that can help you and your hubby get through this... I'm sorry hon, sending many hugs!

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2/9/15 9:40 A

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Thanks for the kind words everybody.

I feel like sometimes the people in my life (besides my husband and my immediate family) get sick of hearing about how I feel- they sort of wish I would move on. For the most part I have, but as March approaches I'm getting more and more unsettled. I'm not sure how I'll mark the anniversary of William's birth.

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2/8/15 8:24 P

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I cant imagine how hard that is. I lost one at 11 weeks several years ago. I still think about him or her and wonder what life would be like but it no longer saddens me as much. We are here for you for certain. And yes you will have a rainbow baby. I finally have mine after a lot of years of waiting and prayer. The struggle has been worth it. I'm praying for you.

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2/8/15 2:59 P

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Oh darlin, I can't imagine what you're going through. Know that we are here for you, wrapping our virtual arms around you! I know what you mean wanting that joy back, and we will have that! Our time will come! Have a good cry and then rise up and be positive for your rainbow , it will come!!!

Dani

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2/8/15 11:52 A

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I'm so sorry for all that you have been through. I just wanted to lend a supportive hand and a hug. I had a loss in the early stages, but I know that is totally different than being so far along and having your loss. I am sending lots of love and care today and I wish you a beautiful rainbow baby soon!

Gwenn


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2/8/15 10:07 A

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Hi, I'm not sure if this is the right forum but I had to get this off my chest.

This time last year I was 18 weeks pregnant and I was loving pregnancy. I had a great little bump, I was nesting, and I was taking progress selfies for my mom and grandma back in Wisconsin.

This year I feel so empty and lost without my little pickle. I was looking at some of my bump photos this morning and getting pretty down. I wish I could be pregnant again and experience that same joy; I know I will eventually get there but right now I hurt.

I guess I'm asking my friends here if they have positivity they could lend and/or if they have experienced a loss and then had a rainbow afterwards.

Thanks friends.

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