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Thanks Rebecca emoticon

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I am so sorry to hear this, Brenda. My prayers continue with & for you & yours.

That is so difficult regarding your brother, prayers for him.

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emoticon Continuing to pray for Dawn, I really cannot imagine and truthfully hope never to.

We lost another family member last week, I didn't want to post during Thanksgiving but a cousin's wife, who went into the hospital with stomach pains (she was a nurse) and they opened her up and found cancer everywhere. She died 9 days later. I am just thrown a bit because this 2nd cousin had a brain bleed 45 days after me and she took care of him in South Florida. This is 4 deaths this year, feels like so many more - I guess because even in the loss, God's mercy and compassion are obvious, otherwise I would not be here.

Also, my brother has major drug problems, I don't know what he is on, but he is a mad mess and anything you say to him makes him even madder but it's hard to see him like that and driving around yet lying through his teeth. His son did the same thing for years even when I would smell it and lie and get angry but by the grace of God he got help and has gotten off of everything. I keep praying and I try to shut my mouth but it's hard. I try to stay away and just pray.

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Prayers ...


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Sadly, Dawn had to let Emily go to heaven to be with her daddy and Jesus. Emily's life did not end in vain as her little body will give many life due to the donation of her organs.

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emoticon No problem Rebecca

emoticon prayers for Dawn and her family, may God bring her daughter immediate and complete healing. In Jesus name

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That was not my intention, sorry ...
I figured this, and do completely know & understand truly.

Continued prayers for your dear ones, Brenda.



Nichole, prayers for this family you've mentioned.



My heart is deeply grieved; when a silent moment occurs,
all I do is continue crying with y'alls requests ... and, with
passage of time ...



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So sorry to hear about your cousin. Prayers for you and her family.

Please pray for a lady named Dawn and her family. I don't know her personally, she's a member of my oil group, but her family was in a tragic car accident yesterday. Her husband, John, died on impact and her oldest daughter, Emily, is in critical condition in a medically induced coma. Dawn and her youngest daughter were not physically harmed. My momma heart is breaking for her as I cannot imagine how awful it must be to lose your spouse and have to plan a funeral for him, not knowing if you will be planning a second one, while at the same time trying to be there for your kids and be strong for them.

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Rebecca agreed, but the Bible is clear many will not make it. My heart is pricked for the salvation of my family and many are alcoholics and drug addicts and there are few that want anything to do with God and I believe it's the Holy Spirit that has pricked my heart to care about my family to pray for them. I do not stand in judgement of the lost, for only by His grace am I saved, however I will also not sugar coat it and pretend that they loved God when they did not just to bring comfort either. If she asked for God's forgiveness before she died, praise God. However there are 3 children of hers that did not see Christ, that know very little of Him and my prayer is that through their grandmother, they will come to know Christ.

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Praying


Please know, Brenda, that one never knows what conversations anyone has with God.

There are so many who go to church with a wrong attitude their whole lives & yet those who gracefully serve daily in their hearts. My heart goes your dear one(s) that they will see.

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emoticon This has been a hard year. Friday at the end of the day, we learned one of my mom's cousins (my 2nd cousin) was found dead. I'm assuming it was natural causes but have heard no details. Her health had not been well. My heart is especially sad but this is someone who was almost definitely not saved, had not gone to church since she was young. Please pray for my cousin Wanda's family that God would use this to point to Christ and her children would be redeemed. Two of her three kids, one is younger and I never even met, are pretty serious drug addicts and my heart is seriously grieved for so many lost.

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emoticon For aunt Jane!

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Prayers for strength & motivation during mid-day, so as not to just let the day get away from us; while then looking to the new day with fresh eyes & then falling asleep once more at midday.

I know what you mean, Brenda; prayers for each of us to face the day fully with God's armour.

Hugs.

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My prayers are with your aunt, Brenda & with you overall.

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Prayers lifted for your aunt Brenda.

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emoticon My aunt Jane had to have emergency surgery for internal bleeding yesterday. Actually she had two surgeries. The first was unsuccessful but the second seems to have worked. She was being kept sedated overnight. My aunt is not a Christian so our first prayers are that she would come to know Jesus as her savior.

emoticon I have an unspoken - God knows

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Prayers for each of you.



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So sorry to hear about the heartache at your work April. Prayers for you and your co-workers. I pray that your beautiful smile and the loving light in your heart will minister to them. Prayers for your family and especially your husband as he tries to get his life back on track.

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emoticon Praying April, you are in the midst of some major grief. May God allow you to be light and an encouragement to those around you hurting as you have yourself learned how to wade through and look to Christ.

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Lots of heartache going on in my workplace. One of my corporal's brother passed unexpectedly due to a blood clot. He was only 47 years old. Her sister is also in very bad health. In fact, when she called out the other night we all thought it was because of her sister. It was a shock to her that it was her younger brother.

Another corporal's fiance is on life support and brain dead after a necessary surgery. Since they are not married yet, he has no authority to take her off life support and her son can't bring himself to let her go just yet. My corporal has been coming to work every day and doing his job with all of that going on.

One of my fellow dispatchers lost her dad this past week and is in NJ attending the funeral this weekend.

I ask for continued prayers for my husband in his time of recovery that he continues on this sober living path and get closer to God. He's always been a believer and is the one who got me into church but I think Kyle has strayed a bit from Him. I hope that he can heal his relationship with God and himself.

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Your mom has hard a difficult year with your grandmother, your sister's trials with her son and now her quiet companion has gone. I will keep praying, she is definitely hurting.

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Thank you Brenda.
Mom is not handling it well, she is blaming herself and doing the "what if I had fed her this instead of that, what if I hadn't gotten Zeus (my son's dog), what if ..."

I tried to tell her that she didn't cause her health issues, she is an old dog and they have issues.

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Prayers for your mom Nan. What a beautiful fur baby, Kylie is. Will pray for your mom to be comforted but that's easier said when you've lost a loving companion of so many years.


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Would ya'll please say a prayer for my dear momma, Nan? Her beloved furbaby, Kylie, crossed the emoticon Bridge yesterday and my mom is beside herself with grief. Kylie was almost 14 years old and mom has had her for almost 13 years. We got her as a 1 year old rescue.



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Prayers Brenda for your family's new arrival & the adjustments therein; my heart is with you.


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Thanks Nichole. My compassion came back but initially I was extremely angry with her. I am hurt by her lack of willingness to be open with us. She has always been like that. I've been praying for her daily and maybe this is the answer to that prayer? Only God knows.

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oh no Brenda! I'm so sorry to hear that your daughter is still not taking responsibility and accepting that he will never change. That little boy is super lucky to have a Grandma like you that will love him always and teach him the Word of God. You are their light in this dark world.

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emoticon Well babies are a blessing for sure, but right now I am struggling with news that my daughter is due to have another little boy on the 12th... Like within the week. Because of the way she carries her weight, she has never had the same baby bump as others but she is carrying her ex's baby and this will be #3 of his and #5 in our house. We love our grands but this has me emotionally distracted at the moment and crying out no. All could be worse, I'm very thankful she believes in the sanctity of life but she knew her ex was a ladies' man, a new girl every other month and she is not taking responsibility but "he purposely got me pregnant". I need prayers, I need to get my emotions in check and I need to praise God during the storm.

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emoticon Prayers said and will remember her

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Please pray for one of our students. She just tried to take her own life. That's all I can say for now.

April

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emoticon Praying for each of you and our team as a whole.

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Thanks ladies for standing with me in prayer

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Prayers for Pearl, your precious family friend & a friend to us all.




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A family friend - Pearl - her cancer is out of remission at they believe it's stage 4. She is such a sweet Christian lady who has prayed with me and is always such an encouragement. I pray if God is willing that He would heal her and send this cancer packing and that He would allow her to continue to glorify Him on this earth a little longer that others might be touched and motivated by her life. She is not afraid to share and we need these ambassadors.

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Continued prayers for Nichole's healing from recent surgery,
as well as, whatever it is that has brought her back to the
hospital.



Prayers for April with her transitions for her, her boy & her husband.

Prayers for April's job interview, which will be happening 9:30 a.m.




Prayers for Brenda, may her path be enlightened as life's decisions
are placed before her.



Prayers for MaryKim as she finds her way through to that which is
best for her health & livelihood.



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I did see this originally & a few times since, Brenda; everytime I went to respond something would come up -- my prayers have been & continue to be with your aunt, as well as, your mom.



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So much has been going on here in our team but I need to give an update on my Aunt Jane. So a week after we had the service for my Uncle Willy who passed, my aunt's condition rapidly declined. She ended up in the hospital with a blood disease and Chronic Heart Failure. Only half her heart is working. She is NOT saved and has a very rough life. She is angry at the world. Then last week she fell and broke her hip. Needless to say the only one who had room for her to be taken care of was at my brother's house so my Mom could take care of her. So my Aunt Jane needs prayer. Just think of her as GI Jane. I look like her, but everyone has always told her she had Tiger blood put in her (just found this out and you have to laugh a little) when she had a transfusion as a young child. She is a fighter and always has been, mean as they come, but has a soft spot too. It's a strain on everyone. I have yet to go see her since she has been out but I need to, just not looking forward to it. She needs Jesus to comfort her, heal her and bring her home if that's what He plans on doing.

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Prayers for all those affected & devastated by Hurricane Dorian in the Bahamas.



Continued prayers for the community I live in as they heal mind, body & spirit.






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Continued prayers for Nichole's healing from her successful surgery -- and her family.

Continued prayers for April and her family.

Continued prayers for Eileen and her family.

Continued prayers for Brenda and her family.

Continued prayers for Melissa and her family.

Continued prayers for Teresa, Becky, all other members of this team & their families.

Continued prayers for my mom's healing from her successful surgery & our family.



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Oh no prayers... did not see this.

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Prayers for the victims of today's mass shooting in Midland-Odessa, Texas.




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Continued prayers for this lovely group of ladies,
as they, like so many there, make preparations for the upcoming storm;
see them through safely mind, body & spirit --
may they cling to you for peace, calm & comfort as only you can provide.



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emoticon Praying for you April

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I need prayers for guidance.

April

~Scars are souvenirs you never lose~ Goo Goo Dolls

~Start doing what's necessary; then do what's possible; and suddenly you are doing the impossible~ Francis of Assisi

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Team remember Nichole and her emotions as she deals with the trial being set back.

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Thank you.


My dad is having to be extra strong during this time ...



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Rebecca praying for your sweet mom and my August was what her September will be so she will be close to my heart during this time.

Praying for your siblings and you as well. Be comforted by our God who sees you and your heart.

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Please pray for my parents health --

in particular for my mom ... who will be receiving a pacemaker.

In the meantime for her heart to function appropriately.

The surgery would have been this morning, but they had an appt
they wanted to get to; so it is scheduled for August 28.


Also for her mind regarding stress, emotions, memories, and so forth;
this time of year as we head into & go through September --
once was filled with joy of birthdays & has hence become a time of
all those who have since passed.



Prayers for myself regarding this & for my 3 siblings -- I am the eldest.


Additional note: the beginning of September will be
my parents 50th wedding anniversary.



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Regarding your mom & her siblings ...

my parents have an understanding of what she's going through --

my mom, who's the baby of the family, lost all 3 of her siblings
within a few years

my dad, who's in the middle of 6, lost 4 of his siblings within a few years &
he has a baby sister who is still living


For awhile there, each of my parents were taking turns in consoling one another; it was like dominos & quite difficult to deal with all the loss -- not including the illnesses that led up to each person's final days


so my heart truly goes out to your mom & her siblings, PrayerHugs



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Prayers for your aunt, Brenda.

I am so sorry for all the difficulties your loved ones are enduring at this time -- additional prayers for each of them & all who surround them as they transition during these times.



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oh my goodness Brenda! Your family has sure been getting kicked around lately. Prayers for your aunt and for you and your mom as she tries to process all of this.

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Saturday morning my aunt was admitted to the hospital, it looks like she has a rare blood disease causing her to produce too much blood. They finally have her breathing under control but it's fairly serious from what I understand. Plus side is the hospital is trying to help her get on disability which if that works she can move out from her roommates (ex boyfriend who is physically and verbally abusive). Of my mom's siblings there are now only 3 of the 8 left. My mom, my uncle who got the good news from his colon tests and his twin - the aunt in the hospital.

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April,
I agree with what Brenda and Rebecca have both said. Men are hardwired to be providers and are brought up to be so. When they are unable to provide it is very difficult for them and they tend to take it out on us. I speak from experience here my friend. All you can do is continue to pray and seek God's guidance. It may take a while and be difficult and scary to know which way God is taking you but he will always be there and help you get through it. Continued prayers for you both to find jobs and start to see an end to your hardships.

In reference to your student loans coming due that you posted about in the cafe, have you contacted them to see about getting a hardship forbearance? I remember getting one when my first husband lost his job and I couldn't afford to pay my loans. It can't hurt to check into it.

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Continued prayers for your mom during this time, Brenda. emoticon

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April, I know all to well how easy it is to get caught up in daily struggles,
to lose oneself when you think everything is against you -- to pray in a
selfish manner, searching to prove one's point & believe you're not being
heard & unfortunately, completely, missing the mark on all sides.

I've since learned to get outside of my own sense of desperation -- to know
there are remedies to be seen with time, prayer, understanding & allowing
for others to assist & sometimes to realize it does come down to you ...

but not in the 'oh woe is me' but in a 'alright, let's make this work' --
I can see the light & the direction, or maybe just the first few steps; I can
see a path through -- along with continued conversation/prayer, which
reaches out to God & gets us outside of ourselves.

Doing this has really helped me. Yes, sometimes I still get stuck, but God
has his way in giving direction -- if we but open our eyes to see.


With that said, I completely agree with Brenda & her beautiful message to you.
Continued prayers for you, sweetie.


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Prayers April......... not working and providing for your family is difficult on a man. Just continue to be a sweet wife and hold him up in prayer, by that you are doing more than you know. We will continue to pray for you

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I need prayers for my husband, Kyle. He is really depressed and I don't know how to help him. It seems like every day he wakes up in a bad mood or has little patience with our son. He gets so mad at him when he pees the bed in the middle of the night. We are trying to potty train him for overnights but it is hard going. Other than that he's fully potty trained. Anyway, getting off-topic. We have been job searching for him but his ID expired and I can't get him a new one until I get paid again (it costs $25). He's just been in this really dark place and I don't know how to help him while trying to help myself and take care of our son and work.

April

~Scars are souvenirs you never lose~ Goo Goo Dolls

~Start doing what's necessary; then do what's possible; and suddenly you are doing the impossible~ Francis of Assisi

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Brenda, I just saw the post about your Uncle. So sorry for your family's loss. I don't know how I missed that post before. Prayers for your family and for your mom as you all deal with your grief and sense of loss. May you be a light even in the midst of this darkness.

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