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It is not always easy.

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4/21/12 1:15 P

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Yay!! for you in recovering yourself quickly from the Creep's message. On to better things! emoticon

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4/21/12 12:00 P

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Update:
That creep messaged me after seeing my pics and said, lets get together, can you believe it?? I said, Not a chance! =)

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4/17/12 4:34 P

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I was able to bounce back very quickly, after being treated so rudely by one of the men that messaged me online. In the past when that sort of thing happened it took me weeks to recover. Now I can blow it off the very next day.

When it happened yesterday, I felt bad about myself, and "on the spot", and that same old everyone-is-looking-at-me feeling. But today, the very next day, I am feeling good about myself again. I am open to new possibilities and I am open to love. I deserve to be loved now, not 100 lbs from now! My true love, who will love me as I am, is searching for me RIGHT NOW. Every man I meet brings me closer to my true love!
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4/11/12 11:42 P

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Instead of passively letting ppl make my decisions, I am actively trying to decide for myself based on real, logical, thinking. This isn't a trait I want to find a positive synonym for, it's a trait I no longer need, and want to replace with one that will empower me.

I am no longer going to passively "go with the flow", or decide by not deciding until it's too late. I am going to weigh my options and decide what is best for me and my sons, and do what I need to do to take the best possible care of us. I am strong and capable, and I know what is best for me. I just need to trust myself to make decisions. =)

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4/10/12 7:06 P

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oh, this is another way to look at things:
foggy -unable to make a decision; unfocused
scattered - too many interests, started and dropped
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positives:
= introspective sounds right.
= hmm, maybe looking at a lot of pictures(interests)

I'm going to have to re-visit my positive words again. I can see now that I keep repeating that I am unfocused all day long.

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4/10/12 6:29 P

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foggy=dreamy? whimsical? introspective?
scattered=multitasking? casting a wide net? looking at the whole picture?

You might need to tighten your negative word to more exactly reflect how you are thinking of yourself. That will make it easier to find the positive synonym

Edited by: BEAUTIFUL_REINA at: 4/10/2012 (18:31)
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4/8/12 8:48 P

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good thread!

Instead of being scattered/foggy, I am "....methodical" ? (something to live up to?) emoticon

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4/8/12 2:23 P

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I created this thread because I caught myself doing some negative self talk today. I was thinking, "I tend to be impulsive..." and I tried to correct it to something more positive but I couldn't seem to change it, because I really do act impulsively sometimes.

But then I remembered that being impulsive is also being spontaneous. And spontaneity is a wonderful thing!

So this thread is to help us learn to think of ourselves and describe ourselves in positive terms. If you have any negative or unflattering concepts of yourself, use a thesaurus and find a way to turn that negative into a positive! Or if you catch yourself thinking of yourself in a bad light, use this thread to turn it around!

Here are a few examples to get it started:
instead of impulsive= I'm spontaneous
instead of talking too much=I'm friendly and chatty
instead of being hyper=I'm energetic

Edited by: BEAUTIFUL_REINA at: 4/8/2012 (14:26)
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