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I agree you should call and ask. I know in my area, the hospital has a "hardship" program. People that don't have insurance or the service is not covered under insurance can get a reduced cost based on income and/or set up monthly payments. But always best to call the billing department and ask how much a test is.



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Best option is to call and ask—and don't just take a number at face value. Challenge the amount ahead of time—prices can (and should!) be negotiated.

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Seeking data, please, hard numbers, people.

Have scheduled an appointment with the reproductive people recommended to me by my close friend and NP.

It is out of state for one, and secondly, no types of fertility things are going to be covered by insurance.

Numbers people- if you have had an HSG or pelvic US, what was the charge? If it were covered by insurance, what was billed? I am stone cold panicked over costs that I can't find hard data on.

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Fingers crossed for you, Kristy!

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I had my IUD removed in February. I am currently 12 DPO. Trying to wait until the weekend to test but since I work in a family practice office with pregnancy tests here- it makes it hard to wait!!



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I wish you baby dust, Warmsunshine! I'm sorry for your loss as well. I'm glad you are remaining hopeful and I hope everything settles down for you soon!

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Thank you, Jennifer.

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Hi all! I have been MIA for the past few months, but have still been trying since my miscarriage in August. I recently found out that my teaching position is being eliminated, and that we have to move this summer since my landlord is no longer renting our place after our lease expires. I feel like everything in my life is in chaos.

We have been TTC for a total of 17 months. 8 before my first pregnancy, and nine since it ended in loss. Somehow in the face of all of this, my hope is returning. It's like I see all the possibilities instead of just the pain.

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Holding your friend from afar.

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I'm expecting AF this coming Wed/Thurs and I'm not really hoping because we didn't temp, test, or do anything. Not much BDing either. So I will be a hopeful for June for sure, unless it was some kind of random miracle. lol

On another note, I received a devastating email from an old friend. She had a stillborn for no apparent reason at 34 weeks and I just cried when I read her email. I just pray for her healing.


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Sorry you're out KHCHARMED and Dana! Let's hope we'll have better luck in June! I have no OPK/thermometer advice I'm afraid. Don't use OPK's and my thermometer is just a regular (beeping) one, with memory (but I live in the Netherlands so I couldn't give you advice on where to buy that...).

I think my problem (except for a lack of luck) is that I'm pretty stressed about my work. I have no energy left whatsoever when I'm at home. I was afraid trying to change all that would be very stressful. But I'm having a few days off this week and taking some time away from work is making me realize that staying at this job would actually mean more (negative) stress than the (more positive) stress I would get from looking for new job.

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I have used the wondfo brand and they are reasonable. I also had babi brand and I got 100 of then for around $22.

I'm sorry that you are out:( I hope next month is your month!

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So yesterday just had light spotting but today AF came with a vengeance ... So definitely out this month. With the new info, Pink Pad is predicting O actually on our anniversary... Hoping that this means the universe will be smiling on us next month!

I'm going to check out amazon for thermometers, but any thoughts on OPKs? I don't want to spend a fortune but I don't want to be cheap and be worthless either.

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Good luck next month, KHCHARMED!

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Sorry to hear that, Dana. Good luck next month! Well....I can't offer a good suggestion because mine beeps TOO much! LOL

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Out for May. Here is to hoping for June!!

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I use one from Walgreens (Walgreens brand). It does beep a lot once the temp confirms, but it has memory. So I turn if off immediately and then look at it when I get up and am ready to record.

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Thanks everyone for the crossed fingers but I think I'm out. Woke up with still no sign of AF so tested with FMU - still a BFN. Went for a jog around the lake. Came home and some light pink spotting after using the bathroom. Pretty sure I will be seeing AF by the end of the day.

In a way I'm relieved cuz at least I have an answer. The other bright side is that I think my next O will fall while we are in Minnesota on vacation for our anniversary. I am still bummed though. I'm not sure what happened this cycle. I'm guessing work stress and the change in my exercise routine is probably to blame. I think I will be tracking more diligently now.

Any recommendations for a basal thermometer? The thermometer that I have is pretty loud and can wake up DH plus it doesn't keep the temp on the display, so if I fall back to sleep I have to hope I remember what it was.

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Sorry Malissa! FX Dana!

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How frustrating! I hope you figure out what's going on soon!

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I'm sorry Chris and Malissa.. I hope June is a better month for both of you!!

As for me, I have no clue what is going on. Still no AF even though I have had signs like its on its way (cramping, irritability, etc) since last week. Broke down and took another test tonight and still BFN. I know it's not the best sample to test, but at 5 days late if it was positive it really shouldn't matter, right? Sigh. I will let you know if anything changes...

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I'm so sorry.

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Aww Malissa. I'm sorry.

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And suspicion confirmed. Ugh.

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Malissa, I know what you mean about the short LP. I started taking B6 to see if it would help mine to be longer. We shall see! Fingers still crossed for you!

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I'm sorry Chris. That's kind of another reason why I took a "break". The downs hit me very hard, especially when I focus and try so hard. And because of my age I know it is harder, but people will say, oh you are young. Not necessarily! Anyway, I hope that next month is your month. Hang in there!

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So sorry, Chris.

Wondering if I won't be out later today. Awoke with a sinking feeling. But hey, 12 days is a better luteal phase than I've had lately.

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And I'm out. Feel terrible honestly. This time I really thought this would be the month. Even though I tested negative a couple of times. But I guess we're onto cycle #7.

I'm reading Womancode at the moment. Anyone read that? I'll be trying that, starting today. Feels like I need to change something. I hate that this is something you can't really fix. You can do everything right and nothing happens. And you hear of women doing everything wrong and they get pregnant. Feels like I'm trying to win the lottery here. Just have to be lucky... I'm the kind of person who wants to fix problems, not wait till someday maybe the problem will fix itself (or not).

Dana and Malissa, FX for you!

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Chris and Dana, FX for ya!

11DPO. Had to get up in middle of night to pee, therefore exhausted this morning. Work greatly sucked this weekend.

Not sure what I'm feeling today.

Keep telling myself that if I did indeed implant day 8 as symptoms might suggest, if I had a very low existing HCG level it could be til 16 DPO until I could get a positive. Yeah, patience is not always my strong suit.

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16DPO. Officially one day late now. No AF. Test this morning BFN again. I'm losing my mind here. Don't feel a lot of cramping, so everytime I do I'm hoping it's not AF.

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Dana,

I'm holding out hope for you! Baby dust!

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Sorry I haven't checked in for a little bit... Good luck to you still in for May! I hope you get your BFP soon!

I'm 3 days late, today BFN. That Was my last HPT so will have to get some more. Our timing wasn't that great but I did have some mid cycle spotting so I thought possibly... Sigh. I have recently increased my exercise routine, so maybe that's causing my cycle to be off a little. It's all so confusing.

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Jennifer,

I ca understand why you are changing some things in your life. Would love to see a pic of your new do!

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I'm sorry Chris :(

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You may be a little early Malissa. I would keep the faith and test again. Fingers crossed!

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10DPO, day 3 of increased cervical mucus, hot as heck this morning (excet for the fact that we refuse to turn the heat on in May and it's 58 in my living room. Broke down and teed yesterday afternoon for a BFN.

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15DPO. Tested negative yesterday. Still no AF, but the cramps are getting worse, so I'm suspecting that to come any time now.

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The pelvic twinges and cramps and the hunger were big signs for me. I am hoping that we might see some BFPs!

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9DPO today. Smelling things strongly. Like noticing them more. Woke up not cold yesterday, but cool, yet screaming hot this morning.

How did you run out of tests?? LOL

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Hoping for both of you!

I'm trying to start life anew. Last year was hard. REALLY hard. I need hope in some sense. Yesterday I got a major haircut (with a new stylist—one who isn't 7 months pregnant). I'm finally losing weight again. Trying to Spring clean in myself as well as my home. I know changing my hair doesn't guarantee that the awfulness of last year will end. But I hope it does signal that I'm entering a place of welcoming possibility.

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Same here Malissa (queasiness, and at the same time hunger pangs all day, and odd mild cramps). Hope it's a good sign for both of us!

14DPO, AF due today. In the last days my temp slowly started dropping, but this morning it was up again, even higher than last week when I was ill.. All looks good. BD timing was perfect (and not at all forced like the months before). And had a little spotting 9 DPO.

Was planning on testing today, but turns out I ran out of HPT's. Figures... Gonna run to the store in a minute to get one.

Still trying not to think about it too much though.

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8DPO. Mild nausea/queasiness, but odd pelvic twinges. Not sure what's gong on, not going to read into it, but it's indescribably odd.

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I try to do yoga and meditate regularly. And I enjoy the foods that we're not supposed to eat once we're pregnant during CD1-14. :-)

12DPO, will test/AF due next Saturday/Sunday. BF says he has a feeling that I'm pregnant. Shouldn't we women have that feeling? Me... I don't know. I know nothing for sure anymore. I'm usually pretty intuitive and able to feel what's going on in my body. But I have no idea what pregnant feels like, so I can't trust my feelings on this. Will wait some more...

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I've gotten back into working out, and doing a lot of deep breathing and relaxation.

6DPO. Over having hope, though. I should rephrase- over getting my hopes up.

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I've started getting a massage once a month, which began when my husband gave me a gift certificate for Valentine's Day. That's about the only thing I do, although I'm going to go get a pedicure on Friday, which I haven't done in a long time.

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Since most of us have been here (or otherwise trying to conceive) for awhile, what do you all do to practice self care? How do you love yourself and treat yourself—and your body—kindly during this wait?

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Hope this is your month Chris!

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Our bodies can be so frustrating! It seems like almost anything can be a sign that you're pregnant or that AF is on the way. When I got my BFP I definitely had sore boobs, nausea (that registers like hunger pain) and tiredness, but I didn't read a thing into it because I've had symptoms before without actually being pregnant. That being said, I hope this is it for you!!

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Hi all! Sorry to hear about all of you who don't feel so good right now! Hope a BFP will come around soon!

I'm 11 DPO right now and I have had a cold for a week now. I'm reading all about women who have cold/flu like symptoms early pregnancy. They say it has something to do with your immune system being suppressed so your body doesn't reject the ('foreign') fertilized egg during implantation.

I don't want to read into it though. I have been having all kinds of symptoms (and none at all) during the 2WW over the last 6 months, including headaches, no headaches, cramps, no cramps, spotting, no spotting, PMS, no PMS, nausea, no nausea. And this month a terrible cold and consistent high temps. But no BFP yet. So I will wait this one out as well.

Baby dust to all of you who are still in for May!

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Glad you are doing better today! :)

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Slightly better mood today, but TMI alert....


Oddly ramped up the last two days, and past fertile time. Not going to read into anything.

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I'm so sorry for all of you who are struggling so much. I truly wish you to have all the baby dust in the world.

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I'm so sorry, Kat. While I haven't been trying as long as you have, I can certainly understand the disappointment. Hopefully they will be able to see you after this next cycle and start helping you guys figure out if anything is amiss. Best wishes in the next cycle!

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Sorry to you ladies who are having a hard time emotionally right now. It helps me to know that there are others I am walking this journey with that have similar situations and circumstances.

I just started spotting this morning so I am out for the count. I was really hoping that this month would be the month since our timing was perfect and now we are moving on to month number 12.... My OBGYN said she didn't want to see me until it's been a year and since I am in the military I didn't really have a choice. I am going to make an appointment and see what she can do for me. First thing I'm going to do is make an appointment for my husband to get a spermanalysis. I'm hoping it is a minor problem and we can be pregnant real soon.

This is all so disappointing and a rollercoaster kind of ride. I have so much hope and then it comes crashing down. Good luck to everyone else this month.
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Hugs Malissa! I'm sorry you are going through a tough time emotionally. I hope the day gets better for you. I was in a bummed out mood yesterday but today I am better.

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*hugs* I think we found out about our miscarriages about the same time last year. I'm thinking of you—and available if you want to chat.

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The last few days have been really hard. It was this year at this time I was on vacation and we had minor luck conceiving. It didn't last, and by the end of May I had miscarried making this timeframe an emotional time bomb. I am off until Thursday but the husband is back to work and I am sitting at home trying to distract myself on this rainy day but it's hard. It's hard to think that could happen again this year. It's hard to think about the alternatives. It's hard to think about how much this road to trying to have a baby is going to cost both monetarily and emotionally. Just having a real rough day, fellow sparkers.

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I guess you could say I'm taking a break from temping and testing. This month I'm not counting on because I mentioned earlier we would be going out of town during my fertile period. My husband has also accepted a job which is going to be a change for both of us and so I don't want him to stress about this too. I'm still going to be around the board rooting for you guys. And who knows, maybe it will happen by chance ;)

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Good luck ladies! I will know soon if this month was successful. I am usually spotting by now but haven't yet so hopefully it stays that way. Prayers for us all! xoxo

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Hoping to Conceive in may with 1st child

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Good luck to everyone TTC this month!

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Thanks!
I'm hoping to see lots of BFPs here!

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Ali- fingers crossed for you! Let us know how you make out with the testing!

QT- bummer about the timing with visiting family. Hope you have a good time nevertheless

Jennifer- emoticon I'm thinking of you!

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Awww I am so sorry for your losses and being faced with remembering all of those days all together. I understand why you would take a break. Hugs!

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Hoping for all of you!

May has been more of an emotional landmine month than I anticipated . . . my mom decided to have her birthday celebration at the same spot as last year—you know, last year when we announced our first pregnancy. This was a change made the day before, and I wept here at home. Then Mother's Day Sunday, May 24 is the anniversary of hearing that we'd lost the baby, and just on the other side, June 3 would have been the due date for our son (second pregnancy). We've decided to postpone trying for two months so that we don't have any more May/June loss.

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Fingers crossed, ALI!

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Sounds promising! I'll keep my fingers crossed for you! And I'm sorry you were so sick! I hope you guys are feeling better. We have a Cinco de Mayo by us and it's our favorite.

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Sorry I've been MIA everyone. It's been a crazy week. I tested last Friday and again on Monday (10 & 13 DPO) and got BFN's. AF was due on Tuesday but hasn't shown up yet.
DH & I got food poisoning on Monday night. I wouldn't have even tested but I wanted to have some piece of mind to have a Cinco de Mayo margarita.

The Mexican place we frequent had a 1.5 hr wait so we ended up at PF Changs and got very sick from their chicken. So I think that threw my cycle off and that's why AF is late. But I still plan to pick up a test this evening because 2 days late is worth testing.

And maybe I'm just reading more into it, but it doesn't really feel like AF is on it's way. I actually thought it was going to be early on Sunday or Monday. But now I don't have the usual symptoms I do immediately before AF.

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Because my body is so crazy this month, I still a little confused with it, but I believe I'm on to the next cycle. Cycle 5. And this is not going to be an easy month since I'll be going to my parent's for several days....over my fertile period. LOL

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Good luck MOONMANSON & KITKAT! I hope this is the month for both of you!

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Thankfully, vacation and fertile time seem to be coordinating.

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Hello again everyone! I am currently having my LH surge and thankfully me and DH have been BDing pretty good this month.This is month #11 for us so I am praying for us and everyone else in this thread!

xoxo ladies!

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Thanks LMSWebnet - Baby dust to you! Surprisingly Fertility Friend thinks I ovulated on Wed but I think there is a slim chance that this is our month. So I'll just wait the cycle out.

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Just remembered to join this new thread. CD 6 here. Sorry to hear about the unusual bleeding QTLADY. I've had some strange cycles too. I can imagine how frustrating that was! I bought a bunch of OPK test strips so I can track O better this month. FX everyone!

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Thanks!

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I'm glad your doctor didn't think it was anything serious. FX that you get your BFP soon!

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So of course, after three days of bleeding like a period and major clots and it is definitely not time for my period, the bleeding stopped this afternoon. I am CD16 and Fertility Friend did not note an ovulation but the doctor reviewed my charts and thought I did. He didn't see anything wrong, but he didn't do an exam. Did a pregnancy test and it was negative, which I knew it would be. So I'm just going to chalk this up to a bad cycle and start over again, whenever that is! LOL For now I won't be going back until the end of August for my yearly exam in which case we'll possibly talk fertility doctor.

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Good luck with your appt QT! Hopefully it is nothing but it's always better to be safe than sorry. Let us know how you make out :)

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Thank you! I'm going to the doctor Friday afternoon.

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I hope you figure out what is going on, QT!

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I've left a message for the nurse. We shall see!

Edited by: QTLADY at: 4/30/2014 (15:26)
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Definitely call your doc! I'd call now and tell the nurse what has been happening. My guess is they will want to see you soon.

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And now I have no idea what is going on with my body and I'm rather sad and frustrated. Sorry for TMI. I passed a large clot this morning and then the bleeding stopped. I should be 2dpo today so this is not right. Now the bleeding has seemed to start up again. My temps are still high so I'm just confused as to what the heck is going on. I may make an appointment to see my Gyn in the next month since my yearly is not until the end of August.

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I am CD13 today and waiting for my temps to confirm O but believe it was yesterday. I've been having alot of random bleeding so that has been quite frustrating. Keeping my fingers crossed!

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Here I go, here I go, here I go again...

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Thanks Ali!

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FX for both of you - QT & Jennifer!

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Posting here because I always forget to switch threads. Want to make sure I'm getting updates!

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I will keep my fingers crossed for you Ali! I am still posting in the April blog and I'm due for AF around around the 9th. I guess I'm hopeful for either month. haha!

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Hi All! I was on the April hopefuls thread and thought I should start posting here instead since AF is due 5/6. I think I'm 6 DPO, based on the calendar and CM (I'm not temping).

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Wishing you much baby dust!

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I'm in for May, but I don't know how active I'll be in this thread. I'm trying not to get obsessed and feel like everytime I look at or post in this forum I'm stressing myself out! Nevertheless, wish you all a good month with hopefully some BFP's!

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