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11/8/14 10:32 A

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Yep that's what I meant. That is what happens when I don't proofread my reply. I did mean that Hubby and I DO a lot of them.

Don't stop posting the ideas I love them.

Laura. Mio, Michigan

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11/7/14 10:50 A

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I think she was saying "We already do many of them". Not too many posts like these.

Edited by: BEAUTICIAN28 at: 11/7/2014 (10:51)
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11/7/14 8:10 A

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Thanks for sharing that we have too many of these. I will not continue this kind of posting.

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11/6/14 8:54 A

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Great ideas. We already to many of them but there were also some new ideas. Thanks for sharing.

Laura. Mio, Michigan

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11/4/14 11:20 A

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What do we want to achieve?

We want to have more romance in our marriage. We want to be more romantic.

Why do we want to achieve this goal?

We want to have a loving relationship with each other. We want our relationship to feel how it used to be when we first met. It will bring both of us more passion and joy in our lives. This would create peace and harmony in our house.

How will we achieve this goal? What is required to achieve this goal?

Tell my partner I love her/him more.

I will tell my partner I love her/him when I get up in the morning, before I leave for work and before we go to sleep. I will call my partner from work once in a while just to tell her/him I love her/him.

Leave my partner love notes, tell her/him why I am truly glad to have her/him in my life

I can leave her/him a note on the pillow, bathroom mirror, in her handbag/wallet, on the washing machine door and tell her/him how much I love her/him and how amazing she is.

Send her flowers for no reason

(note: For him)

Once in a while I will buy her flowers for no reason. I will do it at least once a month.

Compliment my partner daily

We will focus on our partnerís strengths and show gratitude at least 3 times a day.

Surprise my partner with little gifts

It doesnít have to be expensive. It could be a magazine that I think she would like or a book.

Give a massage

Give each other a massage at least twice a month when my partner is tired.

Go on dates

We will take turns to plan a date twice a month. This is a night where we have fun, not discuss problems or the kids.

Learn Latin dancing together

Sign-up for dance class once/twice a week and go dancing at a salsa club on our date night

When do we want to achieve this goal?

We want to achieve this goal by March 31st 2015

What obstacles can we expect?

I am too tired when I get back from work to give my partner the undivided attention that she/he needs.

Pressure at work or home might affect how I feel.

What are the solutions to the obstacles?

Affirm that

When I get home from work spend at least one hour of quality time, giving my partner undivided attention before I do anything else.

I will pretend that she/he is my best client and give her/him the undivided attention and care that she/he deserves even though I am tired.

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