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5/23/08 7:52 P

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Thanks for the reminder of how to treat our other half.

Dorothy

If you tell God no because He won't explain the reason He wants you to do something, you are actually hindering His blessing. But when you say yes to Him, all of heaven opens to pour out His goodness and reward your obedience. What matters more than material blessings are the things He is teaching us in our spirit.
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For the Lord Himself will descend from heaven with a shout, with the voice of an archangel, and with the trumpet of God. And the dead in


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5/23/08 7:43 A

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Good reminder. My husband and I will be celebrating our 36th anniversary next month. As with many couples we went through some difficult years getting our sons through their teen years and the bad choices they made. But fortunately we made the choice to connect with each other and not let go of what we had with each other. Our love is stronger than ever and we hope to have many more years together. I just got home last night from 10 days with my daughter's family and my hubby makes me feel like the most important thing in his world when I get back. I feel really sorry for people who don't have that kind of forever love.


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5/23/08 7:16 A

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Thank you for sharing. Those of us who have be married a long time (37 years) sometimes forget the first love feelings. We get so busy in the everyday trial of life that taking the time to hold hands and talk real talk not the necessary talk just doesn't happen. However, it should or one day you will wake up next to a stranger and wonder how did this happen?

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Very nice, thanks Pam.

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May 22, 2008



Still Holding Hands

Lysa TerKeurst



"Therefore encourage one another and build each other up...."

1 Thessalonians 5:11 (NIV)



Devotion:

The other day while driving back from the beach, an amazing sunset stretched before us. For me, it was like a love letter from the Lord. Though no words flashed across the sky, there was clearly a message in this beauty.



My mind was drawn back many years. Fifteen-and-a-half years ago to be exact ... December 5, 1992. A young couple stood at the alter having no idea what the vows they nervously repeated meant. "To have and to hold from this day forward"... it was just what the pastor said so they repeated it back in a clueless kind of way.



They felt in love. A giddy kind of electric current drew them together. They liked what they got from each other. It just felt right.



Sometimes I wish I could go back in time and talk to myself that day I donned a veil and pranced down the aisle. I would caution that bride that you don't feel your way into real love. You choose your way into real love. I would tell her to look at the verses of 1 Corinthians 13 and not see it as a wish list of how she feels entitled to be treated by her groom. Rather, see it is a list of choices they each must make of how to treat each other.



Instead of reading it, "Your love should be kind and patient and not keep a record of wrongs," I would tell her that they must make the choice instead to say, "We are making the decision that our love will be kind. We will work toward making our love patient. And we will choose not to keep a record of wrongs."



I would tell her to especially listen to the words of the prayer that Art's Dad prayed over us during the ceremony. In one part of the prayer Mr. TerKeurst said, "And then when the sun is setting and the years have gone by, may this couple be found then as now standing together, still hand in hand, still thanking God for each other."



Something about that sunset-love-letter from God the other night brought all this to my mind and made my breath catch in my throat. For I suddenly remembered that wedding day prayer and I must admit I felt convicted.



Somehow in the craziness of life's schedule, I couldn't remember the last time we just took time to hold hands and talk about us. Not our teenager's choices, or the broken down car, or why there are so many weeds this year, or how did your meeting go today, or did you return that video back to the store... not that kind of conversation. No, I mean the kind of conversation that seems harder and harder to find time for in the midst of life.



The kind of conversation that we are overdue for is the kind you remember, treasure, and hold on to. For another day will surely come where these conversations will be the sweetest of all our memories. The day when the sun sets on our lives and one of us will lay the other in the arms of Jesus...may it be that we laughed and talked and freely forgave and lived with no regrets.



Dear Lord, marriage can be so hard sometimes. Please show me how to make sweet conversation time with my husband a priority. Help us to connect on a deeper level than just the quick, necessary conversations in our daily lives. Help us to create the love story we long to live in. In Jesus' Name, Amen


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