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3/10/11 2:23 P

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I could use a buddy also! Most I have had just stopped talking to me......

I still am having a hard time making it financially since my husband left. I had the opposite effect though, I lost almost 10 lbs after I found out he was cheating on me. Stress got the best of me, and I barely ate. After I got past the initial shock, I starting gaining the weight back quickly and have since lost a few lbs. We are all going through similar problems, and we are here for each other! Just remember that! emoticon

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3/1/11 8:11 P

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hey i could use the help to I'm trying to get over the fact that my husband is not coming home plug i have to lose weight so i can get my surgery done and it is not working out please help me what should i do

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1/23/11 10:50 A

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I am so sorry that you are going through this. I agree with trying to find time to exercise. SP is full of exercise ideas that can be done inside and in small areas - there are several I use while sitting at my office desk.

Journaling is something I have done for several years (on the suggestion of my pastor). Writing down my feelings (the good, the bad and everything in between) has helped me in so many ways.

I am praying for all of you.
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1/22/11 6:54 P

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Thank you both for your advice. I'll keep them in mind. I don't know if I'm going to be able to exercise while he's out here to cool off emotions as I refuse to leave my baby alone with him right now, but I'll definitely try that out if I can manage it. If not writing sounds like a possibility and that I can definitely do at night while he's at the hotel.

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1/20/11 6:58 P

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i know how you feel. I have had similar problems. So i try and get outside as much as i can. but if i can't and don't feel like exercising i write. All of my thoughts down and do a lot of praying. But if you just need someone to talk to were here for you. emoticon Stay strong.

when you take off your shoes leave all the problems of the world there on the floor with them. have no fear, theyll return when you put your shoes back on.


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1/20/11 8:42 A

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We are ALWAYS here for you! I know the feeling & think that most of us have been there. My boss is a total jerk & my response was to come home & have a drink, now I work out! It seems to help, because I can get the anger out! So, if he makes you angry, take your daughter & go for a walk, if the weather allows or put on a workout video, go to the gym, whatever, just physical activity will really help! and on the other end, buy yourself something nice & inexpensive, like a pretty pair of earrings, to reward yourself!

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1/20/11 8:18 A

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Over two months ago, I took my then almost 4 month old daughter and walked out on my husband after discovering he was using drugs yet again and lying to me about it.

He's been packing up the house because he's about to be stationed in Germany and still has my car. He's suppose to drive out at the end of this month with the rest of our things and give me my car.

My big problem is that talking him always seems to make me eat because even when things go right, I feel I need to reward myself with food and when things go wrong I need to eat the stress away.

I would love it if someone could be my buddy during those few days. All I know is he should be here between the 31st and Feb 5th because that's when he's flying back to where he's leaving from. Its a hard time because although he's finally admitted to having a problem with the drugs, he's been trying to make me feel guilty about not staying with him and working it out. I know I did the right thing by getting my daughter to a safe place, especially since she has unknown health problems.

Thanks if anyone can provide mental and moral support. I greatly appreciate it.

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