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10/3/10 3:10 P

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hi,i read your blog and it was very heartrending.so much so i didnt leave a comment because i couldnt think of any comment that might have helped.if it is any consolation even though i have lost three babies after each one i managed to get pregnant and keep the next one some how.i now have three beautiful boys.hope this helps to give you and your husband hope.

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if i was worth my weight in gold i would be a millionair.my riches are measured by other standards and are worth far more than any gold.

we cant become what we need by remaining what we are.

Fear less, hope more; Eat less,


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10/3/10 12:24 P

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By the way, I posted a blog about what happened with my twins. I'm going to warn you though, it is very sad so please be careful about where you read it!

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10/3/10 11:38 A

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Awww..thank you ladies so much! I'm kind of upset right now because I have lost 5 pounds in one week from being sick. It upsets me because I've been eating like a horse (gestational diabetes and FINALLY being able to eat what I want..bad me!) and still dropping weight like crazy.
I looked at myself the other day and thought "OH MY!" I knew I was looking not like myself!

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10/1/10 9:42 P

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10/1/10 4:54 P

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Please add my condolences on your tragic loss to all the others. Please come back and post often as we can help support you on this weight loss journey you are on. Once again, I am so very sorry for you loss.

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10/1/10 3:54 P

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I am so sorry for your loss. I had twins that survived 3 days and then died of complications arising from premature birth. I didn't reach out and talk about it or try to connect with anyone - I withdrew and though it's been 19 years, I still have a hard time talking about it. Reaching out is so wise and will help you deal with your loss.

I am really glad you're here.
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10/1/10 2:36 P

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Welcome back.

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Weight loss is accomplished with the mind.


A person who wants something WILL find a way....a person who doesn't will find an excuse.

Which do you prefer?
The pain of self discipline?....or...the pain of self regret?






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10/1/10 12:14 P

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emoticon I am so sorry to hear that. It is always hard to hear a story like that. My heart is breaking for you. This is a wonderful group, there is also a group here on sp(MOMMIES OF ANGEL BABIES!). I also lost a daughter. Those ladies are also GREAT and everyone there has experienced some form of loss. They are there for you as well. Some are full term, I was, and some very early on. If you would like to check it out, go to my page. You can get to it from there. Again I'm so very sorry emoticon If you need ANYTHING let me know!

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10/1/10 12:06 P

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Welcome!

And I am very sorry for your loss and wish you wellon your journey.

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10/1/10 11:59 A

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It takes a very strong woman to come back from a personal tragedy like that and just move on and move forward into the future. I am in awe of you, seriously. When I had a pregnancy that went horribly wrong, I went deep inside myself and didn't emerge for quite a long time. Good for you- you have a lot of support here!
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10/1/10 10:30 A

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I can't imagine what you're going through, but I do know the women in this group are the most supportive on Spark. I hope your achieve all of your goals!

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10/1/10 9:51 A

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I'm so sorry for your loss. That you are here shows you have strong character & determination. We're here for you with whatever support we can offer.

Best of luck on this new journey!


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CW: 186.8 on 9/29/16, after having reached goal (under, in fact!) and then relapsing. :( BOOO!!!


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10/1/10 9:10 A

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May the Lord bring you comfort in this most terrible of times. My prayers,love & support are with you.
God Bless you & your family.

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10/1/10 8:52 A

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~ Tanya ~

"Around here, however, we don't look backwards for very long. We keep moving forward..."

"All your dreams can come true if you have the courage to pursue them."

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10/1/10 8:19 A

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I cannot even imagine what you are going through. What an incredibly complicated, emotional, and painful time! Welcome to the team. We are going to be so blessed to have you among us!

Imperfection is important. If we were all perfect, then there would be no such thing as growth, and everyone would be extremely boring, which is, paradoxically, not that perfect.-- Dr. Matt


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10/1/10 8:12 A

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I am so sorry for your loss, I just can't imagine. It's wonderful that you are taking care of you! Good luck! I added you as a friend as well!

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10/1/10 7:23 A

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Welcome back! I am so sorry for your loss!



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10/1/10 6:54 A

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first welcome and well done for looking to the future and not going into yourself which can be so easy to do.i have had three miscarriages and though not the same as actually given birth to them and then losing them is totally differant i feel for you and have an idea of what you are going though.i have nearly lost my children on several occassions and twice actually thought i had lost zakariya from which i am still traumatised from.it might be a small consolation but it is possible to get pregnant again as you know you can be pregnant.thatis what they told me when i lost my babies.at the time it didnt help but later it was a comforting thought and here i am a mother of three beautiful boys which i thought i would never be.good luck in the weight loss,healthy lifestyle.remember to take it one step at a time and not to put too much on yourself.there are bound to be good days and bad days.make the most of the good days and try not to let the bad days get to you.if you need to rant,rave cry etc you know where to find us.once again well done for wanting to take back some control in your life.

karen,germany

blc fbi novice

if at first you don��t succeed,try try again.

heaviest weight-330lbs
start weight sp-270.4lbs
goal weight-155lbs

if i was worth my weight in gold i would be a millionair.my riches are measured by other standards and are worth far more than any gold.

we cant become what we need by remaining what we are.

Fear less, hope more; Eat less,


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You're welcome here, anywhere!!! *hugs* I'm sorry sweety, we're here for you!





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10/1/10 3:08 A

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I am so sorry for your loss, I can't even imagine what you are going through. You are so brave and if you ever need us, please reach out. We are all here to help!

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10/1/10 2:21 A

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I'm so sorry for your loss!!

But I'm also very glad you found us. I've found this group of women to be about the most supportive/creative/upbeat group I've ever seen on the internet. We're in this journey together.

hugs!

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10/1/10 1:46 A

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I am sooo sorry for your loss. But you know, I admire you. You're continuing the journey of life. And you're steadily getting back in the saddle and you're hopeful. Yes, ladies, we've got a strong sister here! Kudos and soft wishes to you. emoticon emoticon

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10/1/10 12:29 A

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I am so sorry for your loss sweetie. I am sure your angel babies are smiling down upon you.

Best of luck releasing the weight and getting back into the condition where you are ready for the future. emoticon

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One bite, one day, one pound at a time. Remember you are worth the effort!


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WOW I AM JUST CRYING LIKE CRAZY THIS IS MY FIRST DAY I CAN SEE ITS THE RIGHT ONE FOR ME I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOST. YOU CAN COUNT ON BE TO BE HERE FOR YOU ANY EVERY ONE ELSE. AND ALSO FOR MYSELF I GOT TO GET THIS WEIGHT OFF.

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9/30/10 11:39 P

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I agree with xphoenix, doesn't matter where you post, as long as you do!

Welcome to the best, most supportive spark team I have found. We will help you to the best of our abilities.

I am so sorry about your babies. I have 2 little ones myself, and can't imagine what you must be going through. You are a very strong lady to be already thinking about your health and future babies!

Peace, Rachel

Work joyfully and peacefully, knowing that right thoughts and right efforts will inevitably bring about right results."- James Allen (the quote I get my screen name from!)


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9/30/10 11:33 P

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We're all here for you!! This team is here, no matter what the circumstance. This is the best support you can get, right here! ;)

I am truly so sorry for the loss of your twins. I cannot imagine the heartache you are enduring right now, but I think it's absolutely awesome that you are ready to focus on you!

Welcome back to SP, and back to being DONE! I have no doubts that you will succeed again. And if you're having a hard time, we're ALWAYS here!

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"You may wait, but time will not. "

"We are NOT guaranteed a "tomorrow", so let's make the most of today!"

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Don't apologize... doesn't matter which forum you posted this in... we are here and excited you joined us.

I also want to say that I am so sorry for your losses :( I lost a baby in 2006 and I am still healing from it, so ... I understand your pain, honey. If you ever want to vent, scream, cuss, or just talk... I am here! :)

Welcome and YAY for being DONE!! :) XOXOX

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9/30/10 11:15 P

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Accident or not, this is the best team on SP for support and motivation. I, too, am very sorry for your loss and wish you the best in your weight loss goals and in TTC in the future,

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9/30/10 11:00 P

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Ah no! I posted this in the wrong spot..I meant to post it in the intro Forum. :( Sorry ladies!!

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I am so sorry for your loss

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9/30/10 10:57 P

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I've used SP in the past to lose 40 pounds. When I got pregnant in April of this year I left the site to focus on my pregnancy. On September 15th my twins were born at only 23 weeks and 4 days. Giovani lived from 9/15 to 9/17 and Angelo lived from 9/15/ to 9/16.
My goal is to lose the baby weight so that my husband and I can try for another pregnancy in the future. Though I know that being able to get pregnant is way in the future, I'm looking to slowly and steadly lose weight and get myself healthy to give my next baby (or babies!) the absolute best chance possible.

Good luck ladies!

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