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12/1/10 3:18 P

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I am pretty old fashioned when it comes to things like that, I know times have changed, but I feel it is up to the man to ask, I don't go out much, ha ha. I would have to say, if it is meant to be somehow it will be.

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11/29/10 4:20 P

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I usually make the first move. People tell me I'm intimidating and that's why guys don't ask me out but I don't think so! lol They don't have a problem asking for sex emoticon but can't seem to ask for a date. (they ask but don't get anywhere, btw, that's insulting) emoticon

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11/22/10 10:57 P

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I have been single now for just over 5 years, and raising a soon to be 8 year old son. I've asked guys out, I've had guys ask me. It's all about how things feel at that time. I truly believe that all choices come down to a simple thing. Which risk is greater. In the case of asking someone else out, is it a greater risk to wonder what if, or a greater risk to be rejected. The answer differs for everyone. I just came out of two years of dating, and can't say I feel like asking anyone. If the right one came along..... I'd rather feel a little embarrassment at asking than wonder for days afterwards :)

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11/20/10 10:02 A

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I ask a very old friend out for outing with my kids..they like him and we have fun. So yes, I guess I do...

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11/15/10 8:53 P

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I agree, Go for it! I am at the end of a divorce after 22 years of marriage. I don't think date is in my vocabulary. But I can't wait to find it. I get nervous just thinking about it but, you'll never know unless you ask.

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11/14/10 5:41 P

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I might then just ask that first. Just say, "Hey I was wondering if you are single?" If he did not get the flirt clues before, he will know you are interested and then maybe ask you. If he's not single, then at least you know!



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11/14/10 5:36 P

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Yeah, no. I have no idea if he's single or not. I haven't seen a ring...which doesn't necessarily mean anything...

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11/14/10 5:28 P

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I'd say go for it! I think guys are just as insecure as we are. How much have you talked to him? Enough to know he's single at least?

I too am interesed in knowing what the guys on here think.

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BETSY430's Photo BETSY430 Posts: 876
11/14/10 5:17 P

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There's someone I'm interested in getting to know better. He works at a store I shop at frequently. I try to flirt but it's been so long since I've been in a relationship I wonder if I'm not doing it right? Also, it's hard to judge how old he is. I'm 35...I honesly doubt he'd ask me out because it might be weird since he works where I shop...

The few times I've asked a guy out, 1 guy never called me even though he said he would, and the other guy it just turned out bad, bad date, and that has been it.

What do you do?

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