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10/3/19 7:11 P

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Welcome back!!

How is everything going right now?

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9/17/19 2:41 P

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Hi emoticon KLBAUSSIE and emoticon to SparkPeople and the team...Nice to have you with us on the journey to a healthier lifestyle again.


You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face.

Mistakes are the portals of discovery.

Don't be afraid to give your best at what seemingly are small jobs. Every time you conquer one it makes you that much stronger. If you do the little jobs well, the big ones will tend to take care of themselves.

It is never too late to be what you might have been.


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8/21/19 9:33 A

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8/21/19 9:32 A

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Thank you all! I was extremely low yesterday, but I am struggling to resurface. Thank you all for your support.

Kayne

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8/21/19 7:22 A

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emoticon So, sorry that you are having serious problems, Kris' advice is good. Having your own bank account when you are having marriage troubles is a smart idea. Even if you stay there is nothing wrong with having your own money. I hope that things get better for you. Take care and God bless, Deb emoticon

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8/20/19 10:12 P

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Welcome back.

I am really sorry to hear that things are still not going well. I don't recall if you have talked with a Relationship Councilor but if you haven't, then I suggest that you do so, either as a couple or on your own?

Only you can make that decision whether to leave or not, but one thing I strongly advise is to have in place a plan just in case you do. That means also ensuring that you have some finances behind you in YOUR name. I was in a similar situation with my late husband because he was an alcoholic. I loved him dearly, but found his behaviour when he was drinking very hard to cope with. The rest of the time he was really good. I started a secret bank account for 'just in case'

Good luck, and stay in touch.
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Welcome back! Sorry you’re having such difficulties.

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8/20/19 10:54 A

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I an sorry you are going through such a hard time.

I love SparkPeople

Today is the first day of the rest of my life.

I am responsible for my own happiness.

My name is Bonnie I live in CT DST

I went from 258 to 126 pounds and have maintained it since 12/28/12.

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8/20/19 10:17 A

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I'm back and desperately in need of help. I am ready to throw in the towel and leave my DH. I just don't know how much more I can take.

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