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5/17/11 7:35 A

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Yes! Oh my goodness, yes. I have had 2, but will probably have more...I know that they stem from the stress of money and little time. My wedding is on Aug. 20th. 2011, and is quickly approaching. so, I can relate. My fiance just returned to work and has lost 4 lbs. He is not on any type of diet, its just that he is at a physical job. (I have considered it a silent competition!) emoticon

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2/14/09 10:46 P

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Had another one the other night, I don"t know the closer it gets the nightmares are coming

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7/30/08 3:30 P

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well fortunately i have not had them dreams n pray to god i dont cause i am not doing anything to cause stress on my big day i just want everything to go off with out a hitch so hopefuly things will n my fiance's ex will be long gone out of our lives for ever.

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4/17/08 7:04 P

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So far I've had 2 nightmares. They are so intense that they wake me up but I can't remember what happened once I'm awake.

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3/13/08 4:11 P

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I've had two dreams. In the first one, no one showed up for our wedding. So, we got married quickly and then decided to go to the mall. I was so sad that we weren't having a party and I couldn't figure out why my fiance wanted to go shopping.

In the next one, an extra bridesmaid showed up in a wedding gown instead of a bridesmaid dress. I was furious in the dream, screaming & yelling at her.

Not so bad compared to the others I've read! Hope everyone is doing well!

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2/28/08 5:00 P

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I've been having some doozies. The man we booked with wasn't at the site and the people there said we couldn't get married there. My FI decided the throw the cake instead of me throwing the bouquet - big mess. My dress was not closed. I had no shoes. I showed up 2 weeks late.

Not getting a lot of good sleep lately.

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1/20/08 11:53 P

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I had a dream this past week that my MOH killed herself a month before the wedding. It was awful! I was crying when I woke up. She's also my FI's little sister. We decided not to have anyone stand in for her, and we had an empty place for her at the alter, with her flowers lying beside me. It was terrible. I made sure that I called her in the morning when I woke up to make sure she was doing okay.

*~Sarah~*
Continuous effort, not strength or intelligence is the key to unlocking our potential. - Liane Cardes

You gain strength, courage, and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You are able to say to yourself, "I have lived through this horror. I can take the next thing that comes along.". . .You must do the thing you think you cannot do. - Eleanor Roosevelt


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1/20/08 3:58 P

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I hadn't had a wedding nightmare until I read a few of these posts! Then a few days later I dreamed I was getting dressed for my wedding in a dress that was too big, that I hadn't picked out and hated. And, I hadn't taken a shower yet and didn't have to take one. I was crying that I hated the dress and didn't want to get married when I hadn't washed my hair!
It was weird and I hope don't have any more.

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1/20/08 3:58 P

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I hadn't had a wedding nightmare until I read a few of these posts! Then a few days later I dreamed I was getting dressed for my wedding in a dress that was too big, that I hadn't picked out and hated. And, I hadn't taken a shower yet and didn't have to take one. I was crying that I hated the dress and didn't want to get married when I hadn't washed my hair!
It was weird and I hope don't have any more.

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11/19/07 10:48 A

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I just had one the other night that me and my FI started losing our teeth right before the wedding.

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Oh yes! Everything from the guests stealing my flowers, to the cake being cupcake tiny, to forgetting to bring my dress. Haven't had one in awhile though!!

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10/26/07 12:41 P

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I had my first wedding nightmare last night...I was marrying some strange guy (NOT my fiance), the cake, photographer, and all other important people had not shown up, couldn't find the dress, realized 30 minutes before the ceremony that I still didn't have hair and make up done, and then my ex-husband kissed me right when the photographer showed up and took a picture of it. After all that, even the new unknown groom didn't want to marry me. HORRIBLE DREAM!!

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8/10/07 10:24 P

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I dreamed that we had to take a very early morning class (like 5 am) to get our marriage license and after hours of taking this class they messed up our paperwork and we couldn't get so they told us that we could wait in the line to get with the people who didn't take the class. I looked at the line and it was wrapped around the building so I went psycho on the lady and told her we had waited long enough and needed it now! She finally gave in and let us cut in front of everybody and get our license.

To reach a port we must sail, sometimes with the wind and sometimes against it. But we must not drift or lie at anchor.
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8/10/07 12:03 P

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I had the worst dream in the world last night that my fiance left me at the alter, told me he didn't want to marry me and it was just a BAD dream. Funny thing is I'm not nervous or worried at all (awake anyways) about the wedding/marriage. WEIRD! I wish these nitemares would stop, but I imagine they won't until the big day...thank god I only have 15 sleeps left :)

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I had this dream that my hair was all messy, no time to get it done, my dress was too big and a style from 1984, I had no underwear on, te cake fell over, the church canceled our ceremony, so we got married in Kmart, and we had no Photographer....I woke up in a sweat....

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7/13/07 10:53 P

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I recently had a dream that my parents did not want to have any part of our wedding at all. I was having a joint ceremony with a girl who I worked with 3 years ago, in a church that had a scrolling marquis and the pastor was asking for donations and taking an offering during my ceremony.
My fiance had to take me to the church in the morning because we did not have any transportation, so I was bawling because we saw each other before the ceremony.
One of my bridesmaids was out of town and she showed up an hour late with the wrong color dress on!
I didn't have a vail, so my mother-in-law to be pulled out a super ugly one that was right out of the 80's! It had all the puff and disgusting-ness that screams 1982!!!
Then, as I was about to walk down the isle, my parents walked into the church with cut off jean shorts, and t-shirts with the arms cut off...I felt like I was stuck in the 80's!

It was just crazy! I was so upset when I woke up

I have to admit, there was ONE good thing about the whole dream, I apparently had lost all the weight I'm trying to lose, because I was one hot bride!!!!

Edited by: SASSYPANTS84 at: 7/17/2007 (10:55)
*~Sarah~*
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You gain strength, courage, and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You are able to say to yourself, "I have lived through this horror. I can take the next thing that comes along.". . .You must do the thing you think you cannot do. - Eleanor Roosevelt


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5/23/07 11:18 P

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Nightmares about the "big Bday" my only nightmare that I have is a living one is one of my bridesmaids having an attitude problem with my maid of honor and starting some drama at the ceremony...EEK!

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5/8/07 7:47 P

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Jessica when are you getting married?

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4/29/07 12:52 P

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Ha ha, I'm a little far from wedding day so no nightmares yet. But, my best friend just got married last weekend and the night before the wedding she dreamed her fiance was gay and in a serious relationship!

~Rachel~

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4/16/07 10:36 P

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without reading anyones comments, i saw this and thought wow...im sure all of us have gone through this!! take time to do something for yourself and maybe spend some time with your FI, i know that sort of alone time can make all the difference for me..put me at ease a little....im nervous about all this stuff...and the closer it gets the more nervous i get!! good luck! j

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4/15/07 6:13 P

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Ive been having strange dreams as well! One night I dreamt that none of the vendors showed up, the next I dreamed there were no guests, then the Best Men accidently threw our rings away. Then last night I dreamt that I thought we were at rehearsal,when in fact it was the wedding and I had no choice but to walk down the aisle in jeans and a tshirt, then there was a reception but nobody danced,and then it was over......weird.

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4/14/07 10:56 P

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It's normal to be worried about such a big event. Chances are IF (and I do mean IF) something goes wrong, it's going to be something so irrelivent no one, possibly even you, will even notice (or they'll think it was planned).

Just don't worry about anything and just enjoy planning Your Day!

Amanda B.


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4/8/07 11:23 P

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yeah, I have nightmares about my ex showing up and messing with my head. He always creeps into my dreams when I would prefer to forget him.
I also keep dreaming that I got lost and missed the whole thing. I guess it's our brain just working out our stress.

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4/6/07 9:11 A

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I keep have nightmares about every aspect of the wedding. From the flower girl dresses to the reception hall being overbooked. My married friends tell me it only gets worse....UGH

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4/5/07 7:22 P

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I hear yah!!

I keep having them about anything that I'm not sure has prefectly settled yet. Before my dress was altered..I was having all sorts of dreams about it. My most recent was a nightmare that my reception was in a High School gym along with 2 others and we were all divded by a white sheet. AWW!!

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4/5/07 6:30 P

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I thought I was going crazy....I can't remember a night in the last month where I haven't had a nightmare about the wedding.....even better about my ex cause he left me 2 months before our wedding over 15 years ago. And surprize I have just two months to my wedding!!!Maybe I could just stay awake untill the big day!! LOL

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TANYAMAY07BRIDE's Photo TANYAMAY07BRIDE Posts: 19
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Is anyone else having nightmares about things going wrong on their wedding day? emoticon

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