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7/4/13 2:23 P

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Getting older and infirm alone. My husband died 8 years ago after 32 years of marriage and I still find myself thinking its 'unfair' that I have to face growing old alone.
When my children were young they would complain "its not fair" and I finally started answering 'life isn't fair, get over it" Now I'm the one that can't quite 'get over it'

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7/3/13 9:55 P

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being to weak and not knowing how to keep going in a desperate time

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7/2/13 4:50 P

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Getting older and not having anyone there.

"Be not afraid of growing slowly, be afraid only of standing still."


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7/2/13 2:19 P

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Becoming infirm in older years

Keep on track


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7/2/13 11:12 A

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I think I have moved beyond fear of failure~
working on fear of intimacy/vulnerability

what a great question and what honest replies!

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7/1/13 10:55 P

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I am afraid to slipping back into depression. I do all I can in terms of healthy living to keep myself away from that horrible hole.

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7/1/13 10:33 P

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not having someone I trust to rely on when I get older. Being dependent on others, but not knowing if I can trust them or not. Or maybe I'm just afraid of growing dependent on others.

Edited by: BLUEROSE73 at: 7/1/2013 (22:33)
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You can only dream of tomorrow.
The only day you can change is today.
What are you going to do today to reach your goals of tomorrow?

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7/1/13 9:53 P

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QUESTION: What Are You Afraid Of?

ANSWER: On a material level, losing my job. On a psychological level, probably intimacy.

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what is essential is invisible to the eye."
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