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I would like to lose at least 25 to 30 pounds by November for my nieces wedding.


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I would like to lose at least 25 to 30 pounds by November for my nieces wedding.


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Thank you all soo much! He is purposely not responding to my messages on facebook and texts. I didn't think about sending a letter with return receipt. I've asked his brother to help me get my things back and that will maybe happen in the next couple of weeks. I'm just hoping I can find a reliable and trustworthy person to watch my cats until I have a place that will let me have pets. I will talk to my landlord too to see if we can make an arrangement.

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I'm sure this whole thing is causing a lot of stress for him too and I've said to him that there is no point in dragging it out by ignoring me. Sooner I have my babies and things, the sooner the stress will lessen.

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Cut him lose! Shake the dust from your feet. Then just give your messages though a lawyer. Your stress will lessen for certain.

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So sorry you are going through this. The letter with a return receipt and a mediator if he doesn't respond is really the way to go.

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I suggest you send him a certified letter, return receipt requested, so that you know he received it. Let him know what you want and when, and suggest a time that works for you to retrieve your cats and personal items. Ask him to respond and confirm the time or suggest another. When all else fails, document everything, then get an attorney or community mediator, if you can't afford one. emoticon

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If he's purposely not answering your calls and you want to have the cats go to a lawyer and go through them to get your cats and all your belongings.

I would like to lose at least 25 to 30 pounds by November for my nieces wedding.


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My ex is being a major stressor in my life right now. We tried being friends but it's just not going to work out. So I am just going to cut him out, and all the negative feelings around him, as soon as I can. We live in different cities and he was letting me store a few things at his place and he was going to watch my cats (these are my children!) However, now he isn't responding to me or returning phone calls so I can't plan on when I can go pick up my things.

It is really making me want to scream and cry.

Any suggestions or advice?

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