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5/14/10 4:57 P

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I lost my dear husband few weeks ago from a hospital super bug he got during his last stay several months previous. He did not die of the leukemia, but was in remission to the end. I am devastated over the loss of my best friend and partner in life. I walk the walk that you are walking now and once again offer comfort.

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4/22/10 9:57 A

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I am so sorry for your loss. I know how empty you must feel right now. I lost my mom to cancer in June and there isn't a day that goes by that my heart doesn't ache at how much I miss her. Like you, I it still seems unreal to me. She was so young and had so much more life to live.

I am no where near an expert on grief or how/when one begins to move past this - I can tell you that I'm no where close to that yet. Sometimes it helps though to know that you are not alone and that it's o.k. to talk about your feelings. You are in my prayers. Stay strong. emoticon

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4/13/10 2:38 P

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I am so sorry, to hear that. I am praying for you that God will look after you and provide you with the tools you need to get through this rough and lonely time. I am sending prayers and hugs. Feel free to spark mail me anytime you need someone to talk to.

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I am so sorry to hear of your loss, my thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult times. I hope your great memories of Sam will help you through these rough days.

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I'm sorry about your loss. Please feel free to let out whatever you need to here.

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I haven't been on here as of late and I missed your message. Please accept my condolences. May God bring you Comfort and know that others are feeling with you.

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I, too, am sorry to read of Sam's passing.

Take one day at a time, keep putting one foot in front of the other. Don't look back except to see how far you have come. Take comfort in the expressions of caring from loved ones and strangers alike. Most importantly, believe in yourself. You have the strength to withstand any storm.



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I am so very sorry to hear this. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you during this most difficult time.

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emoticon I am heartbroken at your news my dear friend.

This is so traumatic I know having been through the same emotions you are going through now. All you want to do is turn the clock back so that you are still together. My heart bleeds for you.

It took me a long time to be able to come to a place where things registered again but my friends on this site pulled me through. I was looking for a grieving site when I stumbled across the Spark site.

I was not aware that I was not working through my grief and this is turn was damaging my health. I registered with a site which sent me a new message each day to assist me with the grieving process. I received 365 messages from them. There were many answers in these messages.

I will try to post the site address but my computer skills are limited and it might not work.

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God Bless you. I pray the blood of Jesus over you and that you receive the peace which defies all human understanding.

Love and blessings. Heila, Cape Town, South Africa. emoticon emoticon

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It's been a while since I've been on this site. My husband died on Valentine's day. I am broken hearted and I've been through all kinds of emotions. I miss him so much I just can't even put it into words. Today is one month and it just doesn't seem real at all.
I am back to try to pull my life together somewhat and let everyone know how much I appreciate their kind notes... I miss my Sam..

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