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2/26/10 10:14 A

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Boop, I just today joined this team and went looking. I found you. I pray every day will be easier for you. Nothing will ever be the same. Life is ever changing even without our losses. I would like to keep in touch with you. My husband has CLL and is in later stages creating complications more frequently. It's constant stress isn't it? My heart is paining for you and I will keep you IN my heart and try to help all I can with the prayers to the COMFORTER. I hope I can hear from you soon.
All my condolencses (misspelled).

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1/17/10 10:57 P

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I too, am so sorry for your loss.
It sounds like you have a wonderful family that is there for you. That is so good.

May God Bless You and be with you now in dealing with your grief.
My thoughts are with you.
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1/15/10 8:32 A

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I am so, so sorry for your loss. There is nothing I can say to make you feel better at this time, but please know that we are here for you. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
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1/15/10 8:16 A

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So sorry....


Your daughter is a gem! My daughter was stillborn 29 years ago yesterday. Allow yourself plenty of time to grieve and take good care of you!

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1/15/10 4:17 A

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Oh! Lana, my heart breaks for you. Please accept my heartfelt condolences on your loss.

You are starting on your road to dealing with your loss. It is not easy but you must grieve it is the only way to get through this ordeal.

I will pray for you to get the strength you need for your path to the future.

God Bless You.

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1/15/10 3:04 A

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last night the love of my life went to be with the lord.....guess i am still in shock. at times it feels real, otherwise i just dont know.my daughter lives near us. she has just taken me in, and is taking care of me. she is planning the memorial, and is giving extra love and care by including my husbands family in the planning. i barely have to think.i hadn't taken the best care of myself the last few months, have been taking excedrin around the clock because i have at least 2 teeth really bothering me, my daughter was able to get me scheduled in to see the dentist.my mom and sister came from california, my brother is coming from new york next week.i am sure others of you are thinking that's great for me, but you don't have help. oh, how i wish you could. i remember people telling me about their friend or family member getting to take their"last trip", we didn't even have our "first trip". we were waiting for him to be able to retire,but his health took it's toll.this was the longest 8 months of my life, i'm sure his too.anyways,all this to say that i don't know what the heck i am doing.
i don't know how to go on without him.i hope to be able to take better care of myself, which includes losing tons of weight.me,i usually gain weight in times like these.i have messed around with sparkpeople, but i hope to become really involved with this team, and try to support others in this battle,while also gaining support and strength.thank you all in advance! lana(boopwannabe)

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