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"You only get out of life what you put into it."

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Instead of stuffing yourself at Thanksgiving, invite a homeless person to share with you.

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Little acts of KINDNESS can add up to a LIFETIME of happiness. emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon

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Every day, in every way, I am becoming better, better, and better!

"This is the mantra of a positive-thinking class I once attended."

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The happiness of my life depends on th quality of my thoughts. emoticon emoticon

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If you want something, then it's worth working hard to get it

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The effort you put forth shows up in your results!

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Hindsight is wonderful -- but it doesn't help you lead a healthy lifestyle!

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If you aren't going backwards, then you must be making progress!


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Just when you were sure the scale would never go down anymore -- you lose a pound or so, and your faith and hope is restored! Keep working toward your goals!

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Smile at the person checking you out in a store. Give them a compliment, like "you have beautiful eyes" or something -- it may just make their day!

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Every bite counts -- even if you don't write it down!

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Sometimes it seems you are not making any headway, but when you look back in time usually you will see that you are making more progress than you thought!

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You only have to answer to YOU, so do what is important to YOU,
and don't worry about the rest.

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sometimes everyone else thinks that because you are retired that they can get you to do all they want you to do for them .

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Instead of being upset over something someone has said, just smile to yourself and hum or whistle a favorite song. You'll find that being upset just goes right out the window!

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It's sometimes hard to quiet down when you retire, but you'll get it the hang of it sooner or later. I'm definitely into it!

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Congratulations - it took me a while but I am very pleased that no longer have a demanding job. I went in to the office today for a visit and was glad that was all that it was.

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Success,

Thatd a very good thought! Hubby and I just retired.

Kathleen from Texas
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The more I eat, the more "behind" I get.

Nothing tastes as good as being thin feels.

"I am a slow walker, but I never walk backwards."
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As a recent retiree, these are the words that I have going through my head-

"Now I can stop living at work and start working at living"

(and I intend to do just that)

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NZ 8/24pm...

One should never count the years - one should count one's interests.
I have kept young trying never to lose my childhood sense of wonderment.
I am glad I still have a vivid curiosity about the world I live in.

( Helen Keller, 1880-1968 Blind and deaf American writer and scholar.)

Hilary . Dunedin. South Island . NZ.
Every day when fully lived- is a grand succession of experiences both pleasant and unpleasant - for life is made up of both- and without the one the other would not be recognized or appreciated.

I would much rather have regrets about not doing what people said, than regretting what my heart led me to and wondering what life had been like if I had just been myself.
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NZ 8/18pm ....

Do not fear to hope...
Each time we smell the autumn's dying scent,
We know that primrose time will come again.

(Samuel Taylor Coleridge English poet)

Hilary . Dunedin. South Island . NZ.
Every day when fully lived- is a grand succession of experiences both pleasant and unpleasant - for life is made up of both- and without the one the other would not be recognized or appreciated.

I would much rather have regrets about not doing what people said, than regretting what my heart led me to and wondering what life had been like if I had just been myself.
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NZ 11/16am .....



Every problem contains the seeds of its own solution.
(Anon)

Hilary . Dunedin. South Island . NZ.
Every day when fully lived- is a grand succession of experiences both pleasant and unpleasant - for life is made up of both- and without the one the other would not be recognized or appreciated.

I would much rather have regrets about not doing what people said, than regretting what my heart led me to and wondering what life had been like if I had just been myself.
(Brittany Renee)



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Slow and steady wins the race.

Kathleen from Texas
NEVER LOSE YOUR SPARK

The more I eat, the more "behind" I get.

Nothing tastes as good as being thin feels.

"I am a slow walker, but I never walk backwards."
- Abraham Lincoln, President of the United States

www.youtube.com/watch?v=dLhF0xzDhFs&
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www.thepetitionsite.com/2/september-
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NZ 8/53pm...

Knowledge can be acquired, but one can only wait for wisdom.

Hilary . Dunedin. South Island . NZ.
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NZ 8/31pm...

After a big storm - look for a rainbow. HOPE.

Hilary . Dunedin. South Island . NZ.
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I would much rather have regrets about not doing what people said, than regretting what my heart led me to and wondering what life had been like if I had just been myself.
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NZ 10/59pm ...

I would like to think that as I grow older I am beginning to understand and appreciate that as
John Milton once said -:

" There is nothing that makes men rich and strong,
but that which they carry inside of them.
Wealth is of the heart, not of the hand."

Hilary . Dunedin. South Island . NZ.
Every day when fully lived- is a grand succession of experiences both pleasant and unpleasant - for life is made up of both- and without the one the other would not be recognized or appreciated.

I would much rather have regrets about not doing what people said, than regretting what my heart led me to and wondering what life had been like if I had just been myself.
(Brittany Renee)



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NZ 7/32pm...


Fearlessness may be a gift, but perhaps more precious is the courage
acquired through endeavour, courage that comes from cultivating the
habit of refusing to let fear dictate one's actions, courage that could be
described as "grace under pressure " - grace which is renewed repeatedly
in the face of harsh, unremitting pressure...

(anon)

Hilary . Dunedin. South Island . NZ.
Every day when fully lived- is a grand succession of experiences both pleasant and unpleasant - for life is made up of both- and without the one the other would not be recognized or appreciated.

I would much rather have regrets about not doing what people said, than regretting what my heart led me to and wondering what life had been like if I had just been myself.
(Brittany Renee)



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NZ 3/59pm ... (18th)

You know what ? .... Again, this morning, as often happens,now that I am on my own, I fed my
puss-cats, made myself a cup of coffee and went back to bed. It's Autumn here now, getting
a chill in the air and it's dark at a quarter to five in the morning ! emoticon Anyway...back in bed I picked up some books and did some browsing .... and "no" I am not a "religious" person but I do have "faith"...and "yes" that leads me to my moments of reading and thinking....and I guess "enough said "....
Anyway , this morning I came across two quotes ( mini wisdoms I treasure from people long gone.) and thought I'd share them because to me each is different , yet somehow goes "hand-in- glove with the other ..... One talks about Wisdom the other about Wonder...

1: Keep me away from the wisdom which does not cry,
the philosophy which does not laugh, and the greatness which does not bow before children.
(Kahlil Gibran 1883-1931. Lebanese poet, artist and mystic.)

2: If I had influence with the good fairy who is supposed to preside over the christening of
all children, I should ask that her gift to each child in the world be a sense of wonder so
indestructible that it would last throughout life.
(Rachael Carson 1907-1964 American Writer and Biologist )

Wish I had been able to be a Mother ... because if I had then I might well be a Gran now.!


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NZ 9/13AM...

Take time to hear and see that which is at hand.
There are forces in you untried.
They are yours to be used as you find them.

(John and Lyn St.Clair-Thomas. Eyes of the Beholder.)

Hilary . Dunedin. South Island . NZ.
Every day when fully lived- is a grand succession of experiences both pleasant and unpleasant - for life is made up of both- and without the one the other would not be recognized or appreciated.

I would much rather have regrets about not doing what people said, than regretting what my heart led me to and wondering what life had been like if I had just been myself.
(Brittany Renee)



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Live each day like you were dying. For the end may come sooner than you think.

Kathleen from Texas
NEVER LOSE YOUR SPARK

The more I eat, the more "behind" I get.

Nothing tastes as good as being thin feels.

"I am a slow walker, but I never walk backwards."
- Abraham Lincoln, President of the United States

www.youtube.com/watch?v=dLhF0xzDhFs&
feature=youtube_gdata_player


www.thepetitionsite.com/2/september-
11th-any-person-suffering-after-overex
posure-to-asbest-should-receive-compensation/


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NZ 6/45pm



Some people are too tired to give you a smile.
Give them one of yours , as none needs a smile so much as he
who has no more to give. emoticon

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Every day when fully lived- is a grand succession of experiences both pleasant and unpleasant - for life is made up of both- and without the one the other would not be recognized or appreciated.

I would much rather have regrets about not doing what people said, than regretting what my heart led me to and wondering what life had been like if I had just been myself.
(Brittany Renee)



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NZ 7/12am (14th)

Ignore the pessimism of others. It can take your dreams from you. Stay positive. (Anon)

Hilary . Dunedin. South Island . NZ.
Every day when fully lived- is a grand succession of experiences both pleasant and unpleasant - for life is made up of both- and without the one the other would not be recognized or appreciated.

I would much rather have regrets about not doing what people said, than regretting what my heart led me to and wondering what life had been like if I had just been myself.
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To live life to its fullest you must be open and give of yourself.

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NZ 7/32pm ....

Of yesterday, today and tomorrow Vivian Y Laramore and American poet said -:


I've shut the door on yesterday
And thrown the key away -
Tomorrow has no fears for me,
Since I have found today. emoticon

Hilary . Dunedin. South Island . NZ.
Every day when fully lived- is a grand succession of experiences both pleasant and unpleasant - for life is made up of both- and without the one the other would not be recognized or appreciated.

I would much rather have regrets about not doing what people said, than regretting what my heart led me to and wondering what life had been like if I had just been myself.
(Brittany Renee)



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NZ 2/12am...


Learn to be silent .. let your quiet mind listen and absorb. (Pythagorus)

Hilary . Dunedin. South Island . NZ.
Every day when fully lived- is a grand succession of experiences both pleasant and unpleasant - for life is made up of both- and without the one the other would not be recognized or appreciated.

I would much rather have regrets about not doing what people said, than regretting what my heart led me to and wondering what life had been like if I had just been myself.
(Brittany Renee)



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When you stand straight and hold your head high --

1. You look taller (I'm short)
2. You look more confident
3. You look thinner!

So have good posture!

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NZ 9/16pm....


Helen Keller (1880-1968) once said ... " Never bend your head, always hold it high.
Look the world in the face ."

Hilary . Dunedin. South Island . NZ.
Every day when fully lived- is a grand succession of experiences both pleasant and unpleasant - for life is made up of both- and without the one the other would not be recognized or appreciated.

I would much rather have regrets about not doing what people said, than regretting what my heart led me to and wondering what life had been like if I had just been myself.
(Brittany Renee)



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Think of yourself as beautiful and confident! It will show through and "you will be beautiful and confident."

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NZ 9/10pm....

GOSH ! Have I been absent from here for as long as this ? .... almost 3 weeks I think.... emoticon

Dale Carnegie (1888-1955) made me smile, with these words ... " You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you. emoticon

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Every day when fully lived- is a grand succession of experiences both pleasant and unpleasant - for life is made up of both- and without the one the other would not be recognized or appreciated.

I would much rather have regrets about not doing what people said, than regretting what my heart led me to and wondering what life had been like if I had just been myself.
(Brittany Renee)



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Nothin' says lovin' like somethin' from the oven -- but watch out for the weight it puts on your hips!

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NZ 7/16am...

I like this quote. (anon) "Yesterday is but today's memory and Tomorrow is today's dream."

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I would much rather have regrets about not doing what people said, than regretting what my heart led me to and wondering what life had been like if I had just been myself.
(Brittany Renee)



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Learn from your challenges -- grow from them, then it isn't a total loss.

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Life really is good even when it presents challenges.

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Memories are wonderful --- but don't live in the past, make new memories today!

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Live today and enjoy it. Yesterday is gone and we have no guarantees about tomorrow.

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yes worrying is like spending time doing nothing . but it sure does upset you and your body . worry makes you older before your time . .. I have found that most things take cARE OF THEMSELVES long before i can do anything to correct them . you are not alone just ask for help . someone somewhere will tell you what to do . listen to the voice of reason .

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Good thought! Let's all count our blessings before going to sleep tonight!

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All things work for good to those that love God.

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We do react because things happen and we respond. But most people never plan their lives; everything that happens to them is a reaction to what life throws their way. Some folks spend the time and energy to learn what it is they really want from life (like good health) and they make a plan to achieve it and then they follow that plan. SP is a lot about acting and it is also a lot about learning that when you need to react, you do so in the best way possible.

Worry is like rocking in a rocking chair. You stay busy but it does not accomplish anything. I have truly given up worry. I am a Christian and I truly believe that God takes care of me. I have my part to do but ultimately He takes care of things. The Bible says that "all things work for good to those that love God." I am really beginning to understand this. When "stuff" happens, we really can go through it without worry because we are convinced that in the end it will work out for our good. I am start to see how things that seemed problematic at the time were actually for the best.

A short story about this. In the fall of 1999 I was actively selling stock because the market had done really well and I was convinced that it would correct (which it did in March 2000--drastically). I had sold a lot of stock and had one holding still to sell that was significantly larger than any other. I had bought the stock years before and it had split from 200 shares to 1200 shares over the years and my $4500 investment was worth $90,000. The stock was going up in price so my plan was to sell 100 shares every time it went up another $5.00 a share. God told me to keep the stock. So I stopped selling. When the correction came my $90,000 in stock went down to about $25,000. I never questioned that I had done the right thing but DH would occasionally ask why we had not sold.

Years went by and a couple of years ago the company was bought out and we had to take cash as stock in the buying company was not offered. We got $55,000 for the stock. We used the after tax dollars to pay off the mortgage on our house.

Last year I was thinking about that word from God and wondered if I would ever know why He told me not to sell. A few weeks later He let me see why. We were living in Virginia and I had found a retirement community that I wanted to live in. We just could not afford it. But if we had that $90,000 from the stock we could have. If we had bought that house we would still be in Virginia. It would be OK but Florida was so much better for us. We live in a community we love and DH literally "blossomed" here and his life is so much better than we ever expected it to be. I love it here. But even more important is that DH's handicapped son asked us to help him become independent. He came to Florida for a visit and did not leave. We received help from the state Blind Services and they got him into a school and he is now independent and so much happier. If we had stayed in Virginia it would never have happened. DH's ex-wife did not believe that he could be independent and she did not cooperate with his desire to be independent. His being able to get far away from her allowed him to gain independence and for us to help him. In Virginia she would have been able to interfere. I am not trying to criticize her, she just really believed he could not care for himself and she took all efforts on anyone's part to help him gain independence as something that would hurt him. While we were helping him she was very angry with us and honestly we did not know if he would succeed but we felt we had to try.

His independence is worth more than any money. He is so happy now. We truly feel blessed that we were able to help him achieve his goal. God had a bigger blessing for us than mere money.

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Is that kind of like...... worry isn't good for you, so.... DON'T WORRY!

Now tell me HOW!!

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Act - Don't react

Hope is here-Perfection isn't

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yes coming home is great .

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Vacations are wonderful, but . . . . THERE IS NO PLACE LIKE HOME!

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that is sure true for my husband . our dog loves him the most . she is with him like his shadow . see him see her .

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When you want something -- you can't find it. As soon as you buy another, or don't need it -- there it is!

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Even when everything seems to go wrong, your PET still loves you!

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If you want a job done right, do it yourself!

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We were blessed Earl went away hope your are too. Thank God.

Pray, Sing and Dance with life. "MOVE" that body. Turn up the volume.
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A smile is a curve that can set a lot of things straight!

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If you don't succeed the first time -- you're probably normal.

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If you don't keep trying, you have no one to blame but yourself for failing.

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Good thought for the day:

Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.

Amen to that.

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Great idea, thanks

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Do not follow where the path may lead. Go instead where there is no path and leave a trail.
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That's a good idea, Barb -- perhaps one of us can come up with a GOOD THOUGHT for each day -- there is nothing like positive thinking!

Thank You!
Tomorrow morning I will be busy mowing my lawn, and no computer at that house, so I won't be the one to post it. I suppose I could hire someone to mow it in this heat, but like my Dad used to say, "If you want a job done right, do it yourself." Cheaper too!

Trying to find the silver lining in all the clouds!

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emoticon so true

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You are right...Good thought for today!!
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"The world is new

to us every morning__

This is God's gift;

and every man should believe

he is reborn every day" Baal Shem Tov


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Read this today at another SP site, the "Explore Secrets" site:

Good Thought...

One day your life will flash before your eyes. Make sure it's worth watching. -Author Unknown


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