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6/12/15 2:55 P

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When I sense that my beloved MrV is stressed about something, I immediately go in prayer asking our Creator God for His wisdom in how I should proceed from that point. Most times the answer is to wait & see if MrV works through the concern on his own (of course, with our Abba's help, because MrV will have already lifted prayer asking for direction in handling the concern). When & if he needs to talk about what is going on for him, I am ready to listen & give advise only when asked &, even then, only after we have prayed together for our Abba's solution to the concern.

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4/30/15 4:55 A

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Well, I know what type of man my husband is so I just leave him to himself if he is stressed. He'll come from work, take a shower, take a walk or something like that before dinner and then he is usually alright. If not after dinner and all that then we go our room and talk to one another and reconnect. I offer no advice just an ear to listen which helps!

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4/23/15 4:50 P

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Thank you so much! I was telling my husband how much it helps to have SparkTeams, the support when having an off day is wonderful!
Today my daughter was testing boundaries to see if the rules have changed since yesterday and oh I wanted that bowl of ice cream but I resisted and reached for the celery and peanut butter and feel much better this afternoon!

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4/23/15 2:27 P

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So enjoying all your posts!!

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4/23/15 1:58 P

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When my hubby has a rough day I try to do something for him when he gets home, whether it be having a hot bath drawn for him, doing one of the tasks he usually tends to or making one of his favorite treats.

Sometimes God quiets the storm. Sometimes God lets the storm rage and quiets the child.


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4/21/15 9:34 P

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Thank you IAMSEWNAVY!

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4/21/15 8:36 P

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I usually just give him space. Sometimes I would love to chatter, or go someplace or do something and he just needs time to decompress and relax. So I just back off and let him chill!

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4/20/15 3:47 P

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4/20/15 3:17 P

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I usually let him vent about why he is stressed. Sometimes we go for a walk sometimes we just have a nice glass of wine and just talk.

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4/19/15 4:32 P

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Share what you do to help you spouse relax after a stressful day.

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