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4/21/10 2:06 P

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Aneenzz, you are doing the right thing by going to the Chaplain. You keep pushing, go to the Chaplain's office if you have to. Suicidal thoughts need to be reported right away and dealt with. You guys are in a crisis mode and it is a good thing you are crying out for help and so is he.

Make sure when you are leaving a message that you mention that there are suicide concerns.

I wish I could give you better advice but over my 14, almost 15 years, of living this life as an Army wife, I know there isn't a lot you can change except your own coping skills. This is NOT an easy lifestyle, but you are NOT alone. Please message me if you need to talk.

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4/20/10 10:39 P

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idk what to do anymore, so i came here. heres a rough idea of whats going on...

my hubby isn't released from work till after 9pm, i, me, was ordered to make sure ALL of his gear is inspection ready by lunch time today... i was told this at 930 am today... they just got back from 30 days in the field, its going to take hours to get all this done, and if its not done, they are making DH work all weekend (another 4 day weekend) he has had one weekend off since i got here back in January! my husband is becoming suicidal, he called me last night how he had almost been hit by a car and that he shouldn't have gotten out of the way! this isn't helping of course that i have a two year old who is stressed, and freaks out every time she sees daddy go out the door... which is only on the weekends, cause during the week, they have him leaving home at 530, and getting home about 10pm...and thats not even touching what this is doing to my already fragile mental state. and i can't get ahold of anyone to talk to about it! the army is killing my husband, my marriage, and my life. i can't even get ahold of the chaplain! all the other wives that i talk to say that its gotten out of hand. none of the others here have to deal with any of this! even others with the same MOS!!!
i just don't know what to do...or where else to turn... oh, and all that... yeah, its just from the last week. this crap has been going on since i got here, and... well, idk what to do.

oh, yeah, and lets throw on for fun, that we're lucky to have 5 minutes of hot water a day... and my landlord doesn't understand the problem, cause she doesn't speak english. as fun as cold showers are... i'm really not a fan :( but i brought up moving, and was informed we signed lease (well, hubby did) and we were stuck here!

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