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6/23/10 8:42 P

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I agree I think its fun to ponder over for the fun of it.

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Do I try to seek revenge? No, but if the offense comes out of a misunderstanding, I try to correct that if possible. But I won't go seeking revenge (although it's fun to devise evil ways of paying someone back with someone else who loves having giddy sinister moments with me).

Living well is honestly the best revenge. Being happy and feeling whole is definitely better than any malicious plot I could come up with (no matter how fun they are to think about).

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6/22/10 10:39 P

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Well, honestly I used to be that way with ex boyfriend. But now I don't go there to that point, cause quite honestly it doesn't feel good to be that way.

So instead of wanting revenge, I just hope I could be around when karma his them. What goes around comes around.

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6/22/10 8:23 P

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Great answers everyone, I completely agree with you Kelly!

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6/22/10 8:17 P

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Haha. I like that answer Tenalter. :D

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6/22/10 5:21 P

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The best revenge is living well. I am attempting to seek revenge on people that haven't even wronged me!

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6/22/10 5:07 P

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Revenge accomplishes nothing, other than often making you just as bad as the person who wronged you in the first place.

If someone does something to you that you don't like you have the choice to not associate yourself with them. Not easy, I know. But it's easier than leading a life of frustration, anger, and revenge.

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No, I just mope around and think of ways Karma will take care of the dirty work for me.

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QUOTE - It is often better not to see an insult than to avenge it.
- Lucius Annaeus Seneca

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Q DO YOU SEEK REVENGE WHEN SOMEONE HAS WRONGED YOU?

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When someone wrongs you, it's easy to go to that place in your mind and conjure up ways to get back at them. Our lives are in a constant state of change, and yet our hearts hold on to hurtful memories with a tight grip. Remember the girl that was mean to you in high school? She could have evolved into a very pleasant, kind woman, but your mind is fixated on what she did. Truly, the idea of revenge is bittersweet and foolish. Don't waste your time and energy stewing. Inevitably you will come across someone who is flat out mean and inconsiderate, but the best approach it to simply let it go and move on. Focus on the positive things about yourself or rethink the person's motivations. Maybe he is the one who is hurt or insecure, trying to deflect his own bad experiences onto someone else. Try your best to forget about it.

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