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1/11/09 7:57 P

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Judy, I am sorry to be so late in posting here, but I am so, so very sorry to hear about your husband. Everyone has already said anything I could possible think of... though I know there are no words that can take away the pain anyway. Hopefully you know by now that you have the love and support of everyone here. Every day, any time. I will continue to pray for you, for strength and peace where possible, especially as you prepare to go back to work and pick up the pieces. Please just take one day at a time. Much love. emoticon

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1/10/09 7:04 P

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I just wanted to say how sorry I am for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.

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1/10/09 12:51 A

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Judy you are in our thoughts and prayers. Come here and vent, talk, do whatever you need to right now.
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1/8/09 11:04 P

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Thank you all for your thoughts and prayers. I know its going to take time. Taking a day at a time.


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1/8/09 12:39 P

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Hello Judy, you don't know me, thats okay. My prayers are with you. My mother died on Christmas Eve, at 8;30 in the evening. My 4 brothers and I had all the dinner and dishes done and away she went. She had cancer in her mouth and Jaw.That was 30 years ago. We never forget,but we are able to carry on some how. Lynda...

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1/6/09 10:54 A

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Judy,
I am so sorry for you loss. If their is anything that you need, please don't hesitate to ask.

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1/5/09 11:34 A

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Judy~ I'm so happy to hear from you during this difficult time! There may be a time when thinking about Nascar doesn't hurt so much and we will be here for you!


I can do this!


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1/5/09 7:58 A

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Judy, is there anything that we can do here at SP? Take as long as you need. I would like to send you comfort and hugs. I don't know how it feels like to loose a husband, But I do know how it feels like loosing a loved on. See, The Muthig family lost our Aunt Aggie, due to a major heart attack, and 2 uncles. One died in a house fire, and the other died of cancer. I am feeling your loss. And I know that it hurts, so anytime. I will be here for you.
Love always,
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1/4/09 10:45 P

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I just wanted to thank all of you so much. You all have made feel very much apart of this team. I was looking forward to Feb and Daytona, but not sure now. I won't have my husband to share that with anymore. I know that I will have you all here and that helps. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
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1/4/09 11:46 A

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Judy, We are all here for you. come cry vent or do whatever. I'm sure we all will be crying with you as I am crying for yougabby

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Judy,

I wish there was more I could do than send you cyber emoticon . Please know that you and your family are in our thoughts. Get lots of real hugs from friends and family that are nearby. Don't hesitate to come online and vent about anything you need to get out. We're here for you!

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1/4/09 9:13 A

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Judy,

Please know you and your family are in my prayers also. At a time like this, words are always so difficult to grasp as we all know in our hearts that we just want to give you a big hug and tell you that we are here for you. Now, over a week later the sadness hasn't faded... trust me, I know. It doesn't! You will have well-meaning folks tell you what to do now and how to handle everything. Only you can sort out things in your mind and make those final decisions - which foot you will put ahead of the other today and then tomorrow. Heck, it will be 4 years on St. Patrick's Day for me and I still have some of his clothes in the closet. I even wear some of his warm winter coats and gloves to shovel and his t-shirts to garden.

Now I will be one of those well-meaning folks... Take your time, keep your chin up, cry when you need to, laugh when you can, lean on your faith, embrace those hugs (even virtual) and above all, remember the good times.

Bless you,
~Meri~

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1/4/09 8:59 A

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Judy, you and your family will be in our prayers. We are very sorry for your loss.

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Judy, I am so very sorry for your loss, you and your family are in my prayers.
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1/4/09 6:59 A

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Lord, Sweet, Jesus, We lift Judy and her family to You asking that You give then inner strength to handle such a loss. Give them courage and show them that Judy's husband is in a better place where there is no more sorrow, no more pain. Only happiness and no more tear. Wipe away the tears in Judy's eyes as You wrap Your loving arms around her. Comfort her in her need of dispair.
In Your Lovely Name, Jesus, I pray. Amen and Amen.
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1/3/09 11:48 P

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Judy, I'm not sure whether we've met yet, but even so I am very sorry for your loss. I know there's nothing I can say to make things better, but add me to the long list of people praying for you and keeping you in our thoughts.

Renee

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1/3/09 11:09 P

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Judy, there is nothing that can bring him back but we can do everything in our power to be here for you. Please come by and lean on any or all of us at any time you need to. We will always be here.

My prayers are with you now and as long as you need them just tell us.

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1/3/09 11:07 P

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Judy, I'm so sorry for your loss. We're here for you.

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1/3/09 10:36 P

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Judy, I am so sorry to hear the news. Please don't hesitate to lean on your friends. They are there for you. God be with you.

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Oh Judy! emoticon My heart is breaking for you right now. You and your family are in my prayers and, like the others said, you know we are here for you during this difficult time. Please talk to us if you need to!

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Judy, my prayers are with you and your family. I'm am so very sorry. We have huge shoulders so come cry, laugh, yell, vent anything, any time. We love you.

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Judy I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and wish you all of the best. We are here for a chat anytime you need us, on or off the group. There is nothing that can be said in a time like this to truly ease the pain but knowing that you have friends and family far and wide to support you can help you one day at a time.

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Ya'll, I just got an email from Judy (JANBRLD). Judy's husband had a heart attack and passed away on Christmas Day. I know everyone will want to keep her in their prayers and offer her words of encouragement during this very sad and tough time in her life.

Judy, hon, we love you and you can come to us anytime you need us...I know I speak for everyone regarding that. Anytime you need a shoulder...just come online to us.

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