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I find planning ahead really helps with this. Even if I don't know the menu, if I have an idea in my head of what I'll order, and stick with it, it works. We tend to go to the same restaurants and I know what works when I need to lose weight, but I do allow it to be special - so a scoop of ice-cream for dessert, or my current choice: an Irish coffee during the meal. That way I don't feel I'm missing out by having a much lower calorie salad than a big meal with fries. And as I have planned it before hand I know it is within my calorie range.

My problem is take away food. We're getting better at this with my planning our food in advance. I now have a roster of dinner meals, planned with easier to cook meals on my busier days. It's those days when I feel too tired to cook, so we order in pizza or Indian. That's when things can veer out of control.

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My rule in restaurants is to study the menu (preferably online beforehand) and pick the healthiest thing on the menu, whatever is closest to my ideal diet, even if it's NOT the thing I'm most in the mood for. So far, it's been working really well.

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I do better at restaurants than at home. DH loves to eat out so we eat out 2 or more times per week. It used to be a nightmare. Now I usually know where to go, what to order and try to have a plan whenever the menu is unknown. At my recent reunion I made a Template for Escape Plan with strategies: I avoided the d' oeuvres, had one plate of food loaded with veggies, one dessert and lots of talking and drinking of water. Giving myself credit as it worked out really well.

It's at home where I have the most challenges. Even family meals away or at my home are not as challenging as they used to be as long as I avoid or have no more than one Margarita and plan to not end up with overly tempting leftovers.

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Fried Spinach! Yikes. How many ways can we spoil a good thing?

I remember the first time I ate out in a restaurant in 2015 on my first Beck trek. It is one of the most positive memories I have about that weight loss experience. Positive and empowering. I aced it. And I indulged more than my taste buds. I remember looking around at other diners and noting what the skinny people ate. Also what the overweight people ate. I felt successful. I felt like one of the winners. I also still have my special advantages card just for a restaurant. Reminding of myself of those good feelings is a great motivator for me.

For the next week I am going to be volunteering 10 hours a day for a cause that means a lot to me. Between times I have to care for my doggie and manage to eat meals that are healthy. I am hoping not to get stuck with take out or restaurant meals because my options near the volunteer site are not going to be good. So this exercise is going to have to wait for a week. Off I go now to do some kitchen prep so I can have my own take out.

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I usually do good eating out at restaurants and my biggest challenge is when I get home. I often am not satisfied by what I thought I should eat and then want more, so I have to be on the lookout for resistance fatigue and relief eating! Sometimes leaving some calories and having a planned snack after works. Sometimes a hot tea or decaf will provide me that unwind, relief, relaxed feeling.

That said, the last time I ate out I made a mistake ordering spinach -- it was fried! I should have taken one bite (interesting) and quit. Next time I will for sure!!


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Day 30: Stay in Control When Eating Out
our task is preparation for restaurant meals, so that we can stay in control: make a plan,
and try it out at in a restaurant later this week.
Good to go when you are not too stressed or hungry, with a supportive friend,
and plan what and how much you are going to eat (maximum 25% more than normally).
Anticipate sabotaging thoughts, and prepare with helpful responses.
Plan how you tolerate cravings.
When food arrives: if too much, separate amount you can eat - push the rest to the side.
... see the chapter for more helpful practices!

What are you thinking?
Please share here!

Checking the menu online is my #1 strategy!
If I pick my meal ahead of time AND I stick to it, then I'll have a great evening, eating delicious food, leaving the restaurant proudly and satisfied.

If I change my mind and choose something else on impulse, then usually I eat other unplanned foods too, and leave the restaurant stuffed and drowsy.

If there is no online menu, then
-I pick one healthful meal I really like (important!!!) and a salad
-don't eat bread, soup and dessert (in order to be able to see all food spread out in front of me , also my meal is surely at least 25% more than usual)
-don't touch leftovers of others

Edited by: KRISZTA11 at: 10/30/2018 (04:51)
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Maintenance Lessons Learned:
-go on with the healthy lifestyle learned in weight loss phase
-just add healthy foods gradually to stop losing
-work out every day - 30-60 minutes is enough to maintain weight and good mood
-do not try to balance overeating by extreme workouts, it is not going to work
-avoid overeating, instead of satisfaction you get stronger cravings


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Christi, sounds like you have great healthy habits in place, leading to your weight loss success.
So this chapter is just an affirmation for you!
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Maintenance Lessons Learned:
-go on with the healthy lifestyle learned in weight loss phase
-just add healthy foods gradually to stop losing
-work out every day - 30-60 minutes is enough to maintain weight and good mood
-do not try to balance overeating by extreme workouts, it is not going to work
-avoid overeating, instead of satisfaction you get stronger cravings


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Christi, I'm impressed with your cookout plans! I hope you'll have plenty of good food to eat so you don't get too hungry.

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7/24/18 11:06 P

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Day 30: Stay in Control when Eating Out

We usually only eat out twice a year. When I have to take husband to the city to see Neurologist and Cardiologist. I am so frazzled loading and unloading him and dealing with doctors that eating out is more of a chore then a pleasure.

We live way out in the country so no restaurants or fast food to temp me.

Family gatherings I am the cook!!! I have control over what is usually prepared. Saturday we are celebrating husband's Birthday with his family. Grilling out. I prefer chicken over beef. I also have learned to lighten up potato salad, Baked beans are vegetarian. He loves coconut and I don't like it. I am making him a cake with coconut, pineapple and pecans. It will not be a problem for me. Also he likes a pineapple sherbet that is made with crushed pineapple... I also do not like frozen fruit so he gets his favorite and I don't have to deal with temptation.

I am also on my avoidance of "C" foods (cake, cookies, crackers, cereal, chips, carbonated beverages). When I get a good streak going I hate to break it.

Church pot luck dinners also are not to big of a problem for me. I am extremely picky and don't like to eat in front of people.

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Good job, Mich!

Day 30: Next time I eat out, I will:

1) Plan in advance what I'm going to eat
2) Choose someplace I know has foods I can eat.
3) Remember that I can always eat more on-plan food when I get home if I don't feel satisfied by a limited restaurant meal.

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I've had lots of practice with this one lately, and have found the tools we've already learned have helped. If it's a restaurant, I'll check the nutrition information online (if available) and have my meal planned when I get there. It's much easier to make a healthy choice this way then wait until I get there and am hungry looking at all the options on the menu. when going to a potluck, I'll bring healthy options so I can load up on those, and just have small tastes of other dishes. Getting together with family where lots of appetizers are laid out, I'll sit next to the veggies so that's what I will snack on most. It hasn't been perfect, but these practices have definitely helped.

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Good thinking and very helpful response!
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Family celebrations may be the most difficult to handle food in a healthful way.
As an introvert, usually I'm exhausted by socialization by the time dessert comes,
and I tend to eat it fast.. then find it unsatisfactory... and eat more.
Recently I noticed this pattern,
and if I'm able to accept the discomfort and pay attention to eat my one serving of dessert slowly, I'm doing better.

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Maintenance Lessons Learned:
-go on with the healthy lifestyle learned in weight loss phase
-just add healthy foods gradually to stop losing
-work out every day - 30-60 minutes is enough to maintain weight and good mood
-do not try to balance overeating by extreme workouts, it is not going to work
-avoid overeating, instead of satisfaction you get stronger cravings


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5/3/18 1:19 P

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As a general rule I don't have problems with overeating when I am at a restaurant. I have learned to or half portions, share a meal with another person, not order dessert, and often order a half salad with dressing on the side.

But eating at relatives for special occasions is a different story. We don't get together very often so it feels like a celebration when we come together. If the party is at my house I try to have enough vegetables and salad so that everyone can fill up on these things. I am really good at limiting my food intake during the meal -- dessert is a different matter. Lately we just haven't been having dessert because we are all pretty much watching our weight. So that makes it easy. Birthdays can be a problem - so I will have to make sure that I have my prep work done before I encounter this. In the past I have said I will have one piece of cake. And most of the time I have been able to keep to this commitment.

I think I will prepare a special card to read before I go to these occasions.
Here is my thought:

In the past I have had difficulty limiting my consumption of cake and special desserts. Now I am committed to staying on my plan. 1 helping of dessert is enough to enjoy the celebration without feeling that I am being deprived. I want to enjoy all the aspects of being with the family which also includes being active and healthy. Being able to play a sport, take a walk, look good in my clothes is much more important than eating pastries.





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This day is a good reminder that I have to plan and stick to it. And how difficult I find it to control my eating during special occasions.
Like last night at the Passover Seder. As soon as started eating more than I should (and it started with the matzoh balls instead of having plain bouillon), I went overboard. It was not too too bad, but still, I was not able to resist all the really delicious offerings.
I guess I have to "just don't start"......

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We occasionally eat out, but I don't have a problem at traditional restaurants and I always skip desserts. I avoid buffet type restaurants, as a rule, just to limit temptations.

Today I'm attending a crawfish boil at my DD and SIL's. This will be a good opportunity to practice, Staying in Control. Family gatherings have always been and remain to be a challenge for me. They always involve plenty of food and drink and many opportunities to overindulge.

Today, I’m going to practice the things I've learned at the beginning of this process:
Read my Advantages Response Card
Always eat sitting down, slowly and mindfully noticing every bite
Resist cravings
Give myself credit
Oh well!

Additionally, I’ll stick with water and vegetables and limit my desserts to one serving. I will probably eat slightly more than usual but I'm skipping lunch. After I finish my meals, I’m going to move away from the food.

I have no choice but to stick to my plan if I want to keep the pounds off and maintain my current weight.


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We seldom eat out ... my hubby is a great cook. But when we do ... I focus on the protein and veggies available, order my food the way I want it and enjoy every bite.
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I usually stick with protein and produce when eating out and skip the carbs...but we bring takeout home regularly (because hubby likes to) so I will either modify the meal or eat something different. I put last night's barbeque on a small baked potatoe, with a 3/4 oz cheddar single & a dollop of light sour cream...skipped the bread & potatoe salad. I was satisfied and stayed in my calories. I track everything even restaurant meals. I'll find a way to calculate it using spark's nutrition tracker because that's not optional for me!

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Today's (Day 30) task is preparation for restaurant meals,
so that we can stay in control: make a plan,
and try it out at in a restaurant later this week.
Good to go when you are not too stressed or hungry, with a supportive friend,
and plan what and how much you are going to eat (maximum 25% more than normally).
Anticipate sabotaging thoughts, and prepare with helpful responses.
Plan how you tolerate cravings.
When food arrives: if too much, separate amount you can eat - push the rest to the side.
... see the chapter for more helpful practices!

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Checking the menu online is my #1 strategy!
If I pick my meal ahead of time AND I stick to it, then I'll have a great evening, eating delicious food, leaving the restaurant proudly and satisfied.

If I change my mind and choose something else on impulse, then usually I eat other unplanned foods too, and leave the restaurant stuffed and drowsy.

If there is no online menu, then
-I pick one healthful meal I really like (important!!!) and a salad
-don't eat bread
-may or may not eat a dessert
-don't touch leftovers of others

Edited by: KRISZTA11 at: 10/30/2018 (04:49)
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Goal weight:
58 +- 1 kg /// 128 +-2 pounds
CET (Europe, Hungary)

Maintenance Lessons Learned:
-go on with the healthy lifestyle learned in weight loss phase
-just add healthy foods gradually to stop losing
-work out every day - 30-60 minutes is enough to maintain weight and good mood
-do not try to balance overeating by extreme workouts, it is not going to work
-avoid overeating, instead of satisfaction you get stronger cravings


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I learned this from one of my WW leaders - Is it about the food or the company?

Most times it is about just replacing a home cooked meal with a restaurant meal for various reasons - a new recipe failed/take out after a long day at work, etc. - and I tell myself that it's not anything special and to stick with my pre-planned choices (usually wings and salad since I'm low carb). Or I am meeting people for happy hour or out for dinner and it's about visiting with them and it happens to be over a meal - so I stick with a salad and my safe choices.

Sometimes it IS about the food - trying a fancy new restaurant - which means that my plan might be slightly different - I might plan to eat a bit more or I might plan to share different food with others - taking tastes of each one.

On Tuesday we are taking my brother and sister in law out for dinner because they are visiting from out of town and they don't get to eat at restaurants without many small kids lol. They picked Chinese because they can't get good Chinese food where they live.

I am reminding myself that it is just another meal for me and we can get these "special" foods any time and it doesn't have to be that particular day - I planned out my meal and I will stick with it.

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I'm with you on not wasting food, if there is a way I save leftovers for a future meal.
I almost never throw out food, it feels so bad, but made huge progress in saving food for later, rather than "saving"it by eating when I don't need it.

Sure, it does not give more food to starving children in China,
but stops me from buying food I don't need,
and thus I discourage overproduction, especially for meat, eggs and diary.
I play a tiny part in world economy but at least I play it well : )

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Goal weight:
58 +- 1 kg /// 128 +-2 pounds
CET (Europe, Hungary)

Maintenance Lessons Learned:
-go on with the healthy lifestyle learned in weight loss phase
-just add healthy foods gradually to stop losing
-work out every day - 30-60 minutes is enough to maintain weight and good mood
-do not try to balance overeating by extreme workouts, it is not going to work
-avoid overeating, instead of satisfaction you get stronger cravings


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Eating out in a restaurant is easy, I have a salad with added protein, either chicken or fish. Having this as a plan, I started doing this on the first Beck Trek, is working very well. Every once in a long time, I order a regular meal with the carbs and eat it all. Leaving food on my plate is not something I can do, I can take the rest home if it is too much. I don't like to waste food, I can always eat it at the next meal. If no one wasted food, the world would be a better place, in my opinion. My food can't directly save the starving people in other parts of the world, but I believe that my own local, regional and national food availability would be more and cost would probably be less if no one wasted food. Perhaps that would lead to better and cheaper food distribution overall. Something I have a strong opinion about haha. I will get off my soap box now. I seldom eat dessert, but once in a while I will. DH and I rarely eat out for dinner, maybe once every two or three months. We do eat out every Sunday for brunch, and while the breakfast menu offerings can be calorie rich, it truly is brunch for us and we don't eat again until supper.
Eating at a celebration or a family outing is more difficult. Sometimes I prepare by eating bulky foods ahead of time (like Scarlett O'Hara before the Ball) and also making sure I am well hydrated. Other times these are occasions for back slides. But I rarely go to these, so won't gain a ton for overdoing it for one meal. I feel a lot better the next day if I was reasonably in control, otherwise, oh well, it was that once-in-a-while slide.
When I am in a major multi-day slide, one of my distorting thoughts is that I am celebrating and I deserve to celebrate once in a while (which sometimes goes on for days) I am getting better at substituting other things I enjoy as celebrations rather than food rewards, but for sure could be better at this. Progress not perfection. I am getting good at not beating myself up about slides and that is a very positive thing.

When I am on a positive roll, I totally enjoy small portions of something tasty and don't feel the need to eat a lot of it. This is also a progress I learned in the first Beck Trek from Watermellen. A banquet in a bite. Because I do enjoy food and don't want to deprive myself, I just want to eat like a thin person and enjoy it reasonably.

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Yes it is more difficult to keep up portion control in the dark!
Great job on not eating anything more after getting home, it is so tempting sometimes.
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-just add healthy foods gradually to stop losing
-work out every day - 30-60 minutes is enough to maintain weight and good mood
-do not try to balance overeating by extreme workouts, it is not going to work
-avoid overeating, instead of satisfaction you get stronger cravings


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We eat out frequently but mostly we bring food home, so I am more in control that way because I can eat my food while the rest of the family has takeout.

But, last night we went to a movie theater that serves meals and ate there. I didn't plan what I was going to eat because I always get the Grilled Chicken, Strawberry & Walnut salad when we go. However, we had just been there last week with company so the salad didn't sound good again last night. I opted to try something new....a turkey burger with sweet potatoe fries. I don't usually eat that much and I wish I'd read Day 30 yesterday instead of today! If I'd been home I wouldn't have eaten the bun, but it wasn't easy to eat in the dark balancing my plate in my lap so I left the bun on. LOL

All things considered, I didn't do terrible....I ate everything on my plate but I'd had a tough lower body workout at PT and I was WAY below my calories when we arrived for the movie ...and I think the smartest thing I did was NOT to eat anything else when we got home, so I give myself credit for that!

The scale actually went down this morning, so I'll take that and be prepared with several acceptable meal options next time!

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Don't eat out much, but have planned my strategies.

For today
-Read ARC twice
-Ate sitting and mindfully most of the time, and gave myself credit.
-Monitored fullness after each meal and if I could take a walk.
-Did Sun Salutations this morning and gave myself credit.
-Stayed on plan, Gave myself credit.
-Unplanned walkding, had a meeting in DC and took the subway in and walked the rest of the way to the building and then the reverse afterwards and gave myself credit
-Have planned my meals and snacks for tomorrow in Spark Nutritional Tracker and gave
myself credit.
-Read my “It’s Not Okay” and “Get Back on Track” response cards and gave myself credit
- Worked toward accepting what I have to do to lose weight
-I decided how to respond to food pushers
-Planned what I’m going to do the next time I eat out, review menu on-line and take half the meal home


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We don't eat out much and when we do ... I insist on eating places that offer AWESOME knock your socks off food.

I plan ahead and then follow through.
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When possible I check the menu ahead of time and find the most acceptable meal, or possibly a more decadent meal that I share or divide in half (or sometimes thirds) and bring home for next day's lunch.

I often order kids meals, which are usually at least a smaller portion and sometimes offer healthier sides (applesauce, banana, apple slices) rather than fries.

When travelling and having to make fast food pit stops, I know I can score an egg-McMuffin or breakfast oatmeal at McDonalds, Subway's turkey breast sandwich will do, and DQ's LiveWell kids meal is just right.

If I'm in the mood for a beer or glass of wine, I limit it to only one, and then forgo appetizers. That's really hard, so I only do this when I'm feeling strong and have supportive dinner partners.

When there's no way to avoid ordering a full meal, I aim for the leanest main dish with the most vegetables.

I can't remember the last time I had room for dessert after my meal. Unless we are specifically going out for dessert only, I can honestly say I never order dessert. If I'm stuffed, getting stuffed-er is miserable no matter how scrumptious the peanut butter silk pie looks.

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Day 30 - Stay in Control When Eating Out

This is an area where I can have a problem. Most of the time, I order healthy, eat in moderation and stay within my calorie range. There are times however when I seem to go off the rails. Tomorrow we are going out to lunch with friends to a Mexican Restaurant that is a favorite place. I already know that my DH will be ordering chips and guacamole, margaritas and a nice meal with rice and beans as a side. I love all that stuff and if I get started on the chips it usually is very difficult to stay in control. My best option is to not have ANY chips. My plan is to order the chicken salad and perhaps share with someone ordering the avocado salad. Both of those items are delicious and would be acceptable. I definitely will be given the opportunity to exercise my resistance muscle.

Update: Best to avoid the bread basket when eating out. It is a land mine and just one can easily lead to two.


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Checking the menu online is my #1 strategy!
If I pick my meal ahead of time AND I stick to it, then I'll have a great evening, eating delicious food, leaving the restaurant proudly and satisfied.

If I change my mind and choose something else on impulse, then usually I eat other unplanned foods too, and leave the restaurant stuffed and drowsy.

If there is no online menu, then
-I pick one healthful meal I really like (important!!!) and a salad
-don't eat bread
-may or may not eat a dessert
-don't touch leftovers of others

Eating bread sets me up for failure, too... and why would I eat bread? I can eat bread at home, why waste my calories and stomach space for bread? (because it is tempting and I love it, I know...)

It is important to choose something I really like and I really want.
If I want French fries, than I have to order them, otherwise I cannot resist picking at leftover of others.
Also it is important to always order a salad, without that I will not be satisfied at the end of the meal.

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Maintenance Lessons Learned:
-go on with the healthy lifestyle learned in weight loss phase
-just add healthy foods gradually to stop losing
-work out every day - 30-60 minutes is enough to maintain weight and good mood
-do not try to balance overeating by extreme workouts, it is not going to work
-avoid overeating, instead of satisfaction you get stronger cravings


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Checking the menu online is my favorite tool, helps so much!

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Maintenance Lessons Learned:
-go on with the healthy lifestyle learned in weight loss phase
-just add healthy foods gradually to stop losing
-work out every day - 30-60 minutes is enough to maintain weight and good mood
-do not try to balance overeating by extreme workouts, it is not going to work
-avoid overeating, instead of satisfaction you get stronger cravings


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Look at the menu before I go. Order it and nothing else
no choice!

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I have had oodles of practice at that the last three weeks. At the hospital it was easy. They had a stir fry place that used broth instead of oil and like everything else on offer the calorie count was listed. The other restaurants we ate at were Malaysian, Indian and Mega Sushi. These were a little harder but sharing dishes helped a lot. Being vegan also helped keep the calories in check. I went for a late lunch at these places and then just had a piece of fruit for dinner. Before starting Spark and Beck I would have just blown off the 'diet' because the food was so yummy and they were my favorite restaurants at the coast that I rarely visit. Justifying behavior that I now recognize and so can rethink.

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I do a fair amount of traveling which usually means eating at restaurants. However, I find staying within my calorie allowance easier when I'm away from home. I tend to avoid buffet or family style restaurants. Often I separate my entrée and put the half of it in a to-go box for lunch the next day. I seldom have dessert just because I like it too much. Family get-together offer me greater challenges since it centers around food. But I try to manage by eating very small portions. At a restaurant it easier for me to get away from the food. At home it's not so easy.

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Day 30 - Stay in Control When Eating Out

This is an area where I can have a problem. Most of the time, I order healthy, eat in moderation and stay within my calorie range. There are times however when I seem to go off the rails. Tomorrow we are going out to lunch with friends to a Mexican Restaurant that is a favorite place. I already know that my DH will be ordering chips and guacamole, margaritas and a nice meal with rice and beans as a side. I love all that stuff and if I get started on the chips it usually is very difficult to stay in control. My best option is to not have ANY chips. My plan is to order the chicken salad and perhaps share with someone ordering the avocado salad. Both of those items are delicious and would be acceptable. I definitely will be given the opportunity to exercise my resistance muscle.


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we rarely eat dinner out. I eat lunch out with my mom and sister sometimes once a week. I'm usually pretty good about what I order and the amount I eat. Occasionally, I will be tempted by something on the menu that I try not to eat. if I succumb to temptation, I try to learn from it and "oh well...move on" while making better decisions for the rest of the day.

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We rarely eat out ... hubby is a fantastic cook.

When we do ... I have the bread/chip basket moved to the far end of the table away from me. I order what I want without "reading" the menu and I ask for a "dog bag" when I place my order.

Hubby and I have been known to order one(1) entrée and split it.

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I rarely eat out in restaurants, maybe 6-8 times per year.
I too check the menu online if possible - and I never get into trouble if I stick with what I picked online.

If there is no online menu,
I commit not to eat bread nor dessert, and to leave leftovers on plates of others alone.
If I stay away from bread, all the rest is easy!

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Goal weight:
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CET (Europe, Hungary)

Maintenance Lessons Learned:
-go on with the healthy lifestyle learned in weight loss phase
-just add healthy foods gradually to stop losing
-work out every day - 30-60 minutes is enough to maintain weight and good mood
-do not try to balance overeating by extreme workouts, it is not going to work
-avoid overeating, instead of satisfaction you get stronger cravings


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Here is my plan for eating at restaurants. I started doing this during my first reading of Beck in 2016 and the plan continues to work well for me.

Look at menu ahead of time, when possible
Eat no more then half of what is served
Give myself credit for leaving and not overeating


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Sounds like you handle eating out very well, congratulations!
Funny you mention egg beaters - I'm not a native English speaker and never heard of them until 2 days ago when a SP friend mentioned them in her blog - I googled them so now I know : )

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Goal weight:
58 +- 1 kg /// 128 +-2 pounds
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Maintenance Lessons Learned:
-go on with the healthy lifestyle learned in weight loss phase
-just add healthy foods gradually to stop losing
-work out every day - 30-60 minutes is enough to maintain weight and good mood
-do not try to balance overeating by extreme workouts, it is not going to work
-avoid overeating, instead of satisfaction you get stronger cravings


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Dh and I enjoy eating out, and regularly eat 4 meals out -- not bad because we're eating 17 meals in.
I usually order egg beaters for breakfasts, but when they're not available, I adjust lunch.
Secondly, I'm very familiar with our small-town restaurants, so know where to eat 1/3 of a meal or whatever portion will keep me within calories. Because of this "training" I can make a pretty good guess at unfamiliar restaurants. Never eat fried anything. No white sauces. Other sauces are on the side because, for some reason, wait people really want you to eat salad with dressing. Veggies dry, please. Wait staff is pretty accommodating. 8-)

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One more reason to learn to order healthy meals and eat healthy portions at a restaurant. DH and I are both down with a cold. Take out to the rescue!

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I have lots of restaurant meals in my tracker. It's an easy way to make an informed "healthy" choice. Look for lean proteins (chicken, fish, steak), 1/2 serving of carbs, veggies and a salad. Get all those extras "on the side." Banish the bread basket. Order water with extra lemon wedges for a treat.

Enjoy the calorie free ambience, decor, the conversation and just getting out for the night.

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Good plan, Monica. The "no more than half" will leave you satisfied without overdoing it.

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Here is my plan for eating at restaurants:

Look at menu ahead of time, when possible
Eat no more then half of what is served
Give myself credit for leaving and not overeating



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I rarely eat out because DH and I prefer my home cooked staples. If I do its usually grilled chicken or fish with steamed veggies. After doing this for 7 years I really don't crave restaurant meals any more and luckily I never ate take out except in an "emergency". Thank goodness I have something that isn't hard for me to resist! emoticon

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Good for you Jeanne to have developed an eating out strategy that doesn’t threaten your maintenance :) It is nice to discover a dish that addresses all your likes and needs too.
Strongdawg, I have a similar plan of veggies and protein with no complex carbs like rice, pasta or bread.
Kriszta, you will need a strong resistance muscle in Italy :) Thinking of being able to take a brisk walk after a meal is a great Becknique restraint.
Cindi, that is great you have found foods that fit and you eat repeatedly.
Kathleen, having an appetizer as a meal is a good idea.

I usually use Strongdawg’s strategy, veggies and proteins with no complex carbs – salads or steamed veggies with chicken or beef or fish or steak, – soups at noon meals, and drink water or unsweetened teas (green, peppermint or rooibos). That works for me in a restaurant, but I don’t do so well at a social gathering at a home or event, I just try to stay in calorie range for the day, because those outings usually have more sweets and chips and dips type foods.


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