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11/25/12 6:21 P

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I will keep your sister in my prayers.

i am not going to get old until i am 110 and then i'm going to think about it!!!!



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11/20/12 10:04 A

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Hi FABTAB, sorry to hear that you had to go through with probating the will. I was lucky that my dh left everything to me in a notarized last will and testatment. I did not have to go through probate. So settling his account was fairly straight forward and quick.

My prayers are with you, your sister and the rest of your family

Dianne

HOPE is not pretending that there's never any sorrow - It's the knowledge that our troubles will be overcome tomorrow. It's the inner strength we call on to sustain us now and then, till our problems lie behind us and we are happy again


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11/19/12 7:18 P

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Glad to see you're still here. Just checking in. I'm still working through probate, and starting to understand the complexity and time involved. Thank God the lawyer was able to capture Michael's credit union account. The mortgage and utility bills are paid through spring. Now, my task is to inventory all his possessions. The court needs a value for the estate. This is definitely a grief-accelerator! Every separate item I see and touch brings back memories. The better part, though, is that collections can be grouped into one item. He left close to 1,000 DVD's. (Most of his time during his last months was spent watching DVDs). Gee, even at $1 each, that's nothing to sneeze at. I've finally mailed two boxes of his things to his mother and brothers and favorite cousin. Now, one brother and the cousin have emailed requesting more.Trying to fix the best attitude for the years I'll be Trustee and Executor of the estate. There is an end in sight.

Meanwhile, my sister decided to go with dr. advice. She's undergoing a long round of chemo to end in mid December. The breast cancer hasn't spread again, but they want to be as aggressive as possible and kill it all.

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11/17/12 12:09 P

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Welcome to November.

Dianne

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