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12/26/09 8:15 P

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Not knowing what was said to whom i don't know what to say but dropping all of Sparks and all the friends and help would hurt me and not the person I was hurt by. I feel badly that anyone is so hurt and angry because of one incident but we all have choices. I wish you well and hope you will come back rather than carry the anger around wirh you now.There is and always will be negative moments in all our lives but we have a choice in how to handle those times. Being in sparks is better than being alone with them. emoticon

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12/21/09 11:36 P

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If anyone is truly suicidal, you need to call 911 instead of typing on a computer and hoping someone will answer you. I took an overdose of pills a couple of years ago. It never occurred to me that I could have killed myself, I was just upset and that was my way of getting attention. Scared my kids and my husband and promised I would never do anything like that again. I now really try to pray if things get really bad and if I don't feel I can tell my husband in person, I write it and let him read my thoughts.

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I'm sorry you are pulling out because of one thing or even two things. There are so many people on SparkPeople. I'd be going over to my SparkPage and looking at the list of friends I have and going to them for support instead of giving up because the only failure is to quit. :)

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12/18/09 7:28 P

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You focus on what you focus on-I am not concerned with that at the moment. I hope that you get help for feeling suicidal. This has to color everything that you see.

Hope you feel better soon.

Exercise to be fit, not skinny.Eat to nourish your body.and Always Ignore the doubter, haters, and unhealthy examples that were feeding you. YOu are worth more than you realize." From the Fitness Facebook page..

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12/18/09 12:34 P

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Never give up - never surrender. But do remember that commenting negatively hurts as I am sure if you receive negative comments you feel hurt. We are all here trying to do our best to become healthier. And for that matter what looks good to one person may not look good to another.

If you are truly suicidal then seek professional help. You should not expect someone here to help you with that as you need a trained professional.

We are here to support you, encourage you, and give suggestions when it comes to nutrition and exercise and overall motivation. We will still be here if you leave and decide to come back.

We are not judgemental as everyone has their own skeletons, perceptions and beliefs. We are just here.

So please sit down and re-think your plan and please include professional help.

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12/18/09 11:35 A

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We all have issu es to work on and I think negativity is always a big one. Good luck to you.

I do believe sparkpeople is wonderful and always been supportive. We all need the positive feedback - the you go girl (or boy) support along with the fact that we're all on this journey together. Kind words are important - we can all get the negative junk from the media and sometimes friends or family. I know it's important to be reminded to be accountable for our actions, but really love the "you'll get there" friendship sparkpeople provides.


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12/18/09 11:34 A

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that's your choice - the only person you can change it yourself

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12/18/09 11:22 A

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Folks - I'm withdrawing from all my spark teams.

I commented on Nicole's seventh blog about how untoned she is as she announced the sales of the video and it got deleted.

Coach Jen then said I could be blocked from blogging if I attacked like that (I didn't criticize her, just the repetition of "how untoned she is). I did look for a back channel to comment on this.

Yeah, some of my stuff is negative, but so much more has been positive. Anyway, pulling out. I don't deserve to be spanked. I did try to find a back channel. I do work very hard on improving my negativity. I've been suicidal all winter. Jen didn't even acknowledge my concern. I'm not sure she even knew what it was. Is this post negative? Why, I believe it is. But the thing is, I'm leaving. Who cares?

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