You can be the hammer, making things happen, or you can be the nail that sits there and gets pummeled over and over. It's time to start being the hammer.
A friend is someone who knows the song in your heart, and can sing it back to you when you have forgotten the words.
No matter what you're feeling on the inside, if your outward appearance looks good, people will give you positive comments. These positive comments will help you on the inside.