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5/11/18 12:45 P

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Thanks! Little by little I will figure things out with some help from kind people like you. emoticon

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5/10/18 11:13 P

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Welcome to SparkPeople! I'm sorry to hear that you had that experience, but please don't let that get you down!

As Luann mentioned, the add a friend option is not like FB, it does not have to be mutual for the friendship and there is no approval process.

As for when or where to reply to a comment, it depends on where it is. If it's a message board (on the regular message boards or team message boards), then you would reply there. If it's a comment that was on a SparkPage that you want to reply to, you may want to reply to that back on that person's SparkPage or send them a SparkMail so they are more likely to see it. Ex: if someone leaves you a comment on your SparkPage, you posting a comment on your SparkPage wouldn't give them notification that you said anything, but commenting on their SparkPage or sending them a SparkMail, they are more likely to receive a notification to check to see what was posted.

I hope that helps, but if you still have questions, please let us know.

Coach Denise

"Obstacles don't have to stop you. If you run into a wall, don't turn around and give up. Figure out how to climb it, go through it, or work around it." - Michael Jordan

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5/10/18 7:10 P

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" If I add a friend isn't that like sending a friend request on fb? "
Nope.
When you add a friend, that is all that happens. You added that person.

They do/did nothing. They don't have to add you; they don't have to give permission for you to add them.

Also, some people collect friends but have no interactions at all with them.

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5/10/18 4:21 P

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I'm a newbie, this is my second week. I'll begin with a positive: I am feeling great about the healthy changes I am making with nutrition and fitness. I am feeling a little overwhelmed with all the message boards, teams, blogs, and emails. I feeling like I'm bumbling around in the dark. I'm not sure when or where to reply/leave comment. I am also having difficulty finding the time to sort this out. In one instance someone made me feel like I had made a faux pas because they did not know me. I am sorry for that, truly. If I add a friend isn't that like sending a friend request on fb? I am a friendly person here to make some friends. Any input would be appreciated. emoticon

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