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3/23/18 5:49 A

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I firmly believe that this sort of information needs to be gradually provided to a child from a young age. So long as it is done in a positive way and you reinforce how much you wanted a baby of your own, and that she is a very special person to you, she will grow up and not doubt you or your love of you. I am aware of a lot of people having discovered as an adult, that they were adopted. It has brought some of them heartache because they feel that they had been lied to all their lives, and also are left not knowing where they belong any more.

YOU are this child's mother in all ways, and she is your child, in all ways, too!!

As far as her irritability, there are loads of reasons this could happen. Has she got any friends? Has someone close to her shifted? What is her eating like? What is her sleep like? If the irritability continues perhaps you could discuss this with her Dr. There may be something medical going on.

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3/21/18 2:58 A

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OH come on Relax Hun! If you told her then its not a big mtter its the need that you show her. How much you need your daughter and how much precious she is for you. Surrogacy is not an offence you owe your own child so thinking like that or feeling guilty is not the right thing you are doing. Its a great moment even for her she will able to know about her biological parents. Stay happy.

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3/20/18 2:46 P

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First of all Many many congratulations to you for your Baby Girl.!!!xxx. This is the brave act you have done. I appreciate your Step to letting your daughter know about everything. I am also a mother having a surrogate child. And I will also tell my baby how she was born to us. you did an absolutely right thing don't worry and don't panic just tried to make thing easier for her to understand rather to feeling guilty. It's not your fault this is from GOD someone is able to give birth to a child and someone is lacking in this case. stay happy and don't feel guilty!!

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3/19/18 10:25 A

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Hi, beautiful people, how are you all? I'm having a bad day today. It is pretty common with endo but it's scaring me today. I've been TTC for more than 3 months now. SO and I have a beautiful baby girl from surrogacy. She has become very irritable recently. For some reason, I feel guilty, too. I don't know how to make things easier for her to accept. She's 5 years old and I told her how she was born to us. Did I do the right thing by telling her?

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