We don't like change....
Monday, January 28, 2008
I wrote this on my team page and also wanted to share it on my blog:
When people you love are not supportive, most of the time it has nothing to do with you! It is their own insecurity! Most people do not like change. Think about it, we all say we want to change something about us, get a new job, or enter into some type of process of change; but when it comes down to it we just like the IDEA of change. Deep down inside we truly just want things to remain the same because we do not want to leave our comfort zone. Even if what you are doing right now does not work well, it is familiar. They may be afraid that if you reach your goals, you will change, and they may not like it or be ready for that change. However, change is good and when you change, maybe they will realize you only changed for the better and that may help them to reach their goals! Just try not to internalize it because it will derail you from your goals and we cannot have that!
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