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The Break-up

Wednesday, October 03, 2007

So basically I got broken up with by the man i would have done ANYTHING for. I hurts so much that it even makes me want to quit eating right and workin out when that is only hurting myself. Im so depressed that i dont care if im fat. I dont know what to do.
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  • OCEANPHOBIA
    Breakups suck - that's the hard truth of it. And it's worse being the dumpee rather than the dumper; but try not to look at this as a negative experience. Try to separate the breakup from the relationship - then you can relish the great moments you had together, savor the pain of loss when you broke up (b/c now you are so much stronger! and hey, could give you some GREAT writing material - take up poetry!), and anticipate the new adventures you'll go on as a single woman and in the future the adventures you'll go on with your new prince charming.

    Please don't see it as a time to give up on yourself - if anything, this is the time to work your hardest. You may not be able to control your relationships but you CAN control your body and how it feels. If you want to feel great and have energy and love to see yourself in the mirror, you have to keep going - we're all rooting for you!!
    5053 days ago
  • CHONTA
    Vanessa, I am so sorry to hear this...just remember that everything happens for a reason...god has a plan for all of us, even though it might be hard to see what it is right now. Give yourself a little time to grieve over this guy...but don't lose site of YOUR goal for yourself...not your goal for him or anyone else, but Yourself. Why do you want to lose weight? To be healthy for YOU and your daughter, (plus it doesn't hurt to look HOTT when you are single), jk about the last part. Vanessa, you are a beautiful young lady and don't deserve to be treated like anything less than a princess and if this guys wasn't treating you that way - CONGRATULATIONS for getting rid of him. :-) Keep your chin up - don't give up! You've worked so hard and are doing so well! We are here for you!!!
    5053 days ago
  • 3FIELD
    I am no sage but i must say that i understand your hurt. Please stick to your work out. I aqua jog and I sleep better. I hurt my back and was unable to sleep and my head used to become full of unmannagble thoughts. So I want you to keep your program to insure you anble to sleep. You are who you should be and with that thought I wish you peace.

    Best Wishes
    3Field aka Kevin
    5053 days ago
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